My brother and I (who is 15 and I'm 17) are passionately involved with eachother. I know this sounds disgusting and wrong, but he treats me better than any other guy has ... I need serious help, please take this seriously.
What should I do?
2007-07-17 23:46:39 · 35 answers · asked by Raquel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he treats you better cuz ur HIS SISTER
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU EWWWW.
that is straight out not right.
you should love ur brother as a brother
not a bf.
2007-07-17 23:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you have intimate feelings about your brother probably suggests a larger underlying problem, I don't know about you, so I cant say what it is, but I would seriously consider why you think you feel like that, and If you don't know, seek some kind of counseling. As for people pointing out illegality or immorality, I wouldn't worry about that as much, I think just understanding why you prefer your brother to other guys will be the biggest help you can give yourself.
2007-07-18 00:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well , i think u should try get 2 know a few other guys. and if u don't like them , or u still feel a bigger attachment to your brother ,u 2 can talk about it and maybe become a couple.i once fell in love with a french girl and later found out she was a cousin of mine, but this is even a harder situation.
girl, if u really like him ,or better Love him , and he does too ,then become his gf .
remember it's not bad to be different ,strange does not exist , it's just an ajective that people invented to make everybody do the same thing.
*u laugh because i'm different, i laugh because you are all the same..*
good luck girl ; )
2007-07-17 23:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Glad your asking about this.
You are young and this must be a confusing time for you. This sounds like a co-dependant relationship (which basically means un-balanced and not helpful to either person in the long run) and a relationship like this one would be hard for anyone to deal with/get out of without some help of a good counsellor. I recommend seeking professional help. (it is perfectly normal to seek counselling services)
Just remember your brother is vulnerable too, so just be sensitive of this.
hope it goes well for you. bless.
2007-07-18 00:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stevelikesrobotfunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the craziest thing ive ever heard in my entire lifetime. Thats like the stone age. I dont have any brothers but i do have alot of friends who i treat like me brothers and i wouldnt even think of them as a bit of any of my love life.
Try to think straight cuz what ur getting into is far more than any of us can imagine. You should try finding another guy who treats u nice too.
Gross.
2007-07-17 23:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
uuh mmhh
dont wanna judge you or anything cause i bet your a great person but this is wrong..
imagine if you have children!
they deffenetly wont be healthy!
and imagine all the rumors and lyes people are gonna make about you!!
your life would be a living hell...
and if you do get kids!
imagince how the other kids will treat them at school!!
would you really want to make your WHOLE family suffer just because of a poor choice you made?
2007-07-17 23:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mayra 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is a tough one, well first of all it's 100% wrong to be passionatly envolved with a sibling.
I think he is the only one who may understand a problem that you had before, and that's why you think you are falling in love with him.
You have to think carefully about what you really want with him; have some time to reflect what really went wrong before that you had come to the conclusion of falling in love with you brother.
It is normal that he treats you better, that doesn't mean you should fall in love with him.
Think it over!
2007-07-19 13:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Black Sayuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sort out ur emotions which i think are not mature yet...
you can love your brother, but it is calle 'brotherly love' which has no sexual part or fantasy in it...when you say you are 'in love' it means a sexual and emotional relationship with him...
not finding a guy who would treat you well is not an excuse...You are still 17...years ahead of you to find him...so no worries
2007-07-18 00:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOPs --you need to admit that you are off base here--all brothers should be nice and treat a sister properly--including the family love thing--but not the other kind of love--that's a therapy issue.
2007-07-17 23:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are guys that would treat you good and in society the relationship with your brother isn't going too set well with others.
2007-07-17 23:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it IS verry wrong, that is insest
its just a phase you will get over, its normal for someone so young to be unsure of their sexuality
but really you have to stop ANY relationship between the two of you that is more then brother and sister
it cant work between you
goodluck honey, must be very confusing time for u
2007-07-17 23:53:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋