Is it an emotional thing or the sex itself? I always wanted to know this. Im glad there's a thing like this where woman like to share.
2007-07-17 23:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by Dan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah honey. I've had emotional attachments to men who were lousy in bed, and I've had great sex with men I had no emotional attachment to. (Hey, don't judge me... I was born in the age of love). The best sex has been from the guy who a) was willing to commit to me being his woman and remaining faithful, b) makes me feel desirable, c) could last more than 15 minutes (I don't know how he does it so don't ask me), d) knows how to please me and gets pure pleasure out of knowing his woman is satisfied more than once, e) our frequency channels are tuned to the same amount, f) we are very open about what we want and are not afraid to ask (i.e. great communication), and g) we forgive each other's "flaws."
And that is why I am still with him. Sex is important... oh, some will tell you that is not the most important thing.. but it rates right up there in the top two or three... It solves a whole host of problems... you'd be amazed at what a woman is willing to let go if you make sure she is satisfied in bed!!!
Wanna know techniques? Talk to her... "Like this or like this?" Tell HER what you like... ask her if she likes one thing or another... and then go in the direction she sends you. We are not psychic and neither are you. TALK to each other!!!
2007-07-18 11:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>> Security <<
The man is the giver, the woman is the receiver.
What makes it great is when the man says "I DO!" to all of her, waits till marriage to prove it, loving and accepting her for ALL of her, not just for her sex!
She wants to know she's #1 and the ONLY 1.
It's all about the >devotion<., and the expression thereof.
Sex is symbolic of the covenant >marriage<. Of the devotion. Of the 2 being 1.
And the security of that oneness.
If you don't wait till marriage, you're just a user and abuser!
And, you are unfaithful. Not to be trusted. No security in you WHATSOEVER!!
And it's called fornication and forbidden by God. Cuz it only causes hurt outside of marriage, cuz there's no security, no faithfulness, no true devotion.
No women truly desires to just be your momentary thrill.
Part of the 2 becoming 1 is the journey. Learning it all together. The devotion itself. A sharing, and only with each other, always and forever more.
Sex is not love. Only an expression of it. Of the devotion.
Love is a choice.
Don't have sex till you accept her for ALL of her, and say "I DO!" to her.
And to her alone.
Only 1, ever.
Faithful and true.
Always and forever more.
2007-07-17 23:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by SOULCRY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you will find its different for all woman.. It depends on what they want and need at the time. Some just prefer good long sex.. and some long gentle love making. I guess you will find that those you like to change partners, just one nights stands would prefer the good sex.. and those who are in loving relationships would prefer the love making side, emotional, bonding, giving, and sharing..
2007-07-17 23:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends really. Sometimes women want that very close emotional sex. And sometimes they want the hot and sweaty fast sex. It all depends on the mood and the person.
I enjoy both, but I only feel fine and free to do so because I am with my boyfriend who I love more than any one.
For me, what makes me feel good, is seeing him extremely turned on from having me. That does it for me. Hey but sometimes I love that slow, close, emotional love making too.
So I guess to answer your question, it would be both.
2007-07-17 23:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of these things go side by side.deep emotions require sex for their ultimate satisfaction:& sex after some time,if not in the beginning, starts making u to be emotional towards ur partner.the better one is emotions leading to sex,tht's awesome to feel :-)
2007-07-17 23:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by sadia_r2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both. No minute men, so you have to have some sort of idea whats going on - but womEn generally feel like there has to be a connection or they're not into it.
Unless they have no self esteem or are getting paid for it.
2007-07-17 23:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the motion of the ocean, and the carressing of the man, and the feeling of security in the man's arm. I dont know, these things get my girl up to the top of the world, then float down like a chute, so, there's my end of the story ^_^.
2007-07-17 23:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by nguyenvinhvx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is good when the guy makes the woman feel sexy. It has to be passionate and romantic. Women want to be loved not f****.
2007-07-17 23:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Reshun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional attachment and a guy who knows enough about what he's doing to make her comfortable and feel good...
2007-07-17 23:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. i guess the sex itself is good but when u r with a guy u truly love, then the sex is even better!
2007-07-17 23:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋