Singles & Dating - 20 July 2007

I met this guy a while ago. We got really close and were about to start dating, when suddenly, I stopped hearing from him. I had found out from a friend of his, that he got another girlfriend, so he quit talking to me. Well a year went by and out of the blue I get a message from him online saying he was sorry and wished we could go back to the way things were (he broke up with his g/f). So I said we could. A few days later, he vanished again.....it turns out, he got back with his girlfriend (after telling me what a huge mistake she was). Well a couple days ago I got another message from him, apologizing, again. My question is, should I forgive him again? I have NO plans on ever dating him because obviously, I cant trust him, and he's screwed me over twice now..but do I stay mad and not talk to him, or do I forgive him and be his friend? Or should I forgive him but not let him back into my life.. what would you do?? Im a very forgiving person, but..enough is enough

2007-07-20 23:21:31 · 3 answers · asked by Its just me 1

he knows very well that i have moved on. he has communicated with my bf in a not very favourable way.
he had tried to tell my bf things that i have never told him..abt my past and stuff-- he tried hard to break us up even though he has a gf for himself.
well i had to go to my country for 10 days, so he asked my friend if i could meet him. i had refused, but wen my friend came to meet me, i realised i should meet him once and for all. so i got his number and we agreed to meet for a short time.
wen i saw him-- i was dumbfound-- his eyes, they were saying alot. it seemed like he was still grieving that he broke up. i dont really know how to put it in words wen i saw his eyes--trying to say alot. anyway he said that he only wanted to c me- he didnt say anything bad to me and neither did i. its just hi and hello-stayed only for 5 mins and i left.
i know u might say that he still loves me, but he hasnt been very nice to me. as all my friend are more closer to him geographically so he

2007-07-20 23:13:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like a girl and I am sure she likes me.We are very good friends. She like me as her friends have told me severol times and she holds my hand all the time plus she smile at me every time I look at her.
She talks to me and only me and ignores every body else.
But I don't have here number!

I Got A Few Questions:
Do you think she likes me?
What can I do to impress her?
How can I ask her out?
Where can I take her out?

2007-07-20 23:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by Solo 3

Thrz a guy at my clg who has been giving an eye contact to me since i ve joined the college...almost 2 and a half yrs. But he never talked to me..he just gave smiles 4-5 times. Finally i found him on hi5 and added him. He said he doesn't knw me..although my pic is thr . Not only this ...he shows alot of attitude in talking to me....i mean he talks very nicely...very friendly....but he never msgs me himself. I just don't understand...The main thing is hez a very gud luking guy and he has many frds as gals...and he can have any damn beautiful gal for himself...then why does he gives an eye contact to a simple gal like me..I m cute but not so smart as he is. And moreover he talks to those gals very confidently which shows he isn't a shy guy.Why will a guy gives an eye contact to a gal in real and behave this way on net??What do u think?

2007-07-20 23:06:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i handcuffed my girlfriend to the bed last nite and yes she still is handcuffed but she want shut up should i gagger her or just go to the pub for a few pints with the boys it's not like shes going anywhere

p-s we have agreed for her to be there till monday morning

2007-07-20 22:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when peole decide to cheat on their partners, do they become like really inconsiderate towards the former partner?

and after they have finished thrie affairs with the new partner, how possile is it that they get forgiven and start a new life with the former partner?

just curious.

2007-07-20 22:48:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I found out that his love to me turned out to be so obsessing and kinda possessiveness I decided to ask him to return back to be friends or to depart one another. This is after we have been knowing one another for 7 months. He just wants me in a so crazy way that scares me so much. We didnt have sex upon my wish and he seems to agree coz my point is to postpone it after marriage. He keeps calling me daily, floods of sms, gifts in ocassions and for no reasons. He appears to be so clingy yet he still tells after offering me a golden ear-ring for no reason "This is just a gift coz its just too far to be a husband. I can be your boy, if you want of course." Knowing that I didnt ask him for commitment at all, we are just trying as we agreed and it was him who initiated the love theme coz I was totally distrusting men regarding love issues. I cant understand his contradictive mind. Just wanna be his friend only am scared of him coz he is mad about me saying "I want u so much" any help?

2007-07-20 22:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sara007 5

Anyway to make guys more willing to open up? Thank you

2007-07-20 22:45:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like it because I have it. :D

2007-07-20 22:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by i sharpen 6

she cheated on me. she was my first love. i lost my virginaty to her,and she cheats on me and gets pregnant. its not my baby i know its not, so dont ask if its mine

2007-07-20 22:35:49 · 21 answers · asked by wraithsofabomination 1

I found it hard to phrase this question..Basically, when you fall in love with someone, it's a great feeling, right? But..Does that feeling always last when you're with that person? Or does it gradually fade away or do you end up seeing them as you see everyone else and not feeling that special feeling you felt before.

2007-07-20 22:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

your partner, friends , a strange babe??

2007-07-20 22:32:21 · 1 answers · asked by V 2

would you think about him?

2007-07-20 22:28:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 22:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by blewjaye 4

2007-07-20 22:24:28 · 16 answers · asked by optimus prime 1

We are in a long distance relationship and meet every 2-3 months. He is planning to move back with his wife for his children and also he is going on a vacation with em for 10 days. He wants me not to cal him while he is on vacation n once his wife moves in. He says he wil talk when he can, i really love him and he also says the same, but do u think he really loves me? Even now since few days he promises to meet me online and then comes for few minutes n has to rush to be wid children and friends. When i want to be in touch wid him and talk to him over the phone he says i m being clingy. He thinks says i have gone mad or psycho. After a fight he avoids me for long hours, if he hangs up on me he never bothers to call me again even after hours, Please help, is he the guy for me? What shud i do? i think of leavin him but i cant coz i really love him...please tell me what to do.

2007-07-20 22:21:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happiness is just outside my window
Would it crash blowing 80-miles an hour?
Or is happiness a little more like knocking
On your door, and you just let it in?

Happiness feels a lot like sorrow
Let it be, you can’t make it come or go
But you are gone- not for good but for now
Gone for now feels a lot like gone for good

Happiness is a firecracker sitting on my headboard
Happiness was never mine to hold
Careful child, light the fuse and get away
‘Cause happiness throws a shower of sparks

Happiness damn near destroys you
Breaks your faith to pieces on the floor
So you tell yourself, that’s probably enough for now
Happiness has a violent roar

Happiness is like the old man told me
Look for it, but you’ll never find it all
But let it go, live your life and leave it
Then one day, wake up and she’ll be home
Home, home, home



Ok, my gay friend received this from his "person", not his bf or anything, but their just more than friends.

2007-07-20 22:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thoughts.

Do girls feel weird when a guy is really nice??
Is that why some like the bad boy image?

2007-07-20 22:08:21 · 15 answers · asked by Malcolm 1

he is my friend.he calls me...we talk on compuet...we hang out so on. i know things that no one knows about him.he tells me everything. sometimes i think I AM HIS DIARY?i DO like or love him more than a friend. but he loves this other girl he met 2times.and its so hard for me to listen how he adores.misses..and wants to see her. i dont know how to handle this. i really want to know. HOW CAN I GET RID OF THIS FEELING? AND ONLY LOVE HIS AND LOOK AT HIM JUST AS A FRIEND?! IS THERE ANY WAY?! i cant stop talking to him becouse he is my friend and would be very weird if i do so.
PLEASE if u had same sitation...LET ME KNOW..it really will help if SOMEONE HAD SAME:(
IT HURTS.....
and its summer..and i dont meet new ppl. maybe i stuck on him?!

2007-07-20 22:06:08 · 4 answers · asked by nina 2

and why?

2007-07-20 22:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Dan 3

Please give me some responses. anything will be welcome.
thanks a lot in advance.

2007-07-20 21:33:36 · 19 answers · asked by maha t 1

what quality do you want your lover to have and how do you want to be treated by them.You can also describe how do you want them to look like

2007-07-20 21:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7

2007-07-20 20:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you its right ?

2007-07-20 20:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by criss 1

2007-07-20 20:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by tony s 5

2007-07-20 20:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by Unique 5

2007-07-20 20:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by tony s 5

I actually train chicks to be a better girlfriends and in doing so I tame them also as many chicks are very wild -- I think my contribution to society is great - do other guys doing the same also - just wondering ??

2007-07-20 20:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i am a sex adict and a guy that i really like having sex with told me there was no way of having a relationship he is a great guy and it isnt only sex we do hang out but i am continuing to see him and i dont know how to stop advice PLEASE

2007-07-20 20:03:20 · 4 answers · asked by Tiffany F 2

im not sure i can keep her for myself. i asked her the other day what she did and she told me talk to this other guy from our school for like an hour on the phone. it made me jealous and the kid is a dumbA** who only lifts weights and the funny part is he only dose upper body so he has huge arms and chest but his legs are so small. anyways we hang out and go to the movies and I'm gonna try and take her to dinner soon. but she used to call me boo and babe all the time and I'm "boo" in her phone but she doesn't call me that anymore. don't say be funny cuz that how i got her and i am still funny. but what can ii do that will separate me from him so shes like all over me and forgets about him?

2007-07-20 19:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous