he knows very well that i have moved on. he has communicated with my bf in a not very favourable way.
he had tried to tell my bf things that i have never told him..abt my past and stuff-- he tried hard to break us up even though he has a gf for himself.
well i had to go to my country for 10 days, so he asked my friend if i could meet him. i had refused, but wen my friend came to meet me, i realised i should meet him once and for all. so i got his number and we agreed to meet for a short time.
wen i saw him-- i was dumbfound-- his eyes, they were saying alot. it seemed like he was still grieving that he broke up. i dont really know how to put it in words wen i saw his eyes--trying to say alot. anyway he said that he only wanted to c me- he didnt say anything bad to me and neither did i. its just hi and hello-stayed only for 5 mins and i left.
i know u might say that he still loves me, but he hasnt been very nice to me. as all my friend are more closer to him geographically so he
2007-07-20 23:13:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
spread really bad rumours about me. he made me look bad, cheap-- made my life a hell in my country. so he cant have loved me, would he?
2007-07-20 23:14:33 · update #1
by my country i mean that i have migrated from fiji to australia.
so fiji is my country.
2007-07-20 23:20:58 · update #2
You did not tell us how far he traveled to go see you for 5 minutes. the countries could be right next door. It is clear that he has feelings for you,, very deep and you really need to find out the rumors,, ask him if he said those things about you. Look him in the eyes and let him answer. I have been through that mess and let me tell you,, some people will say all sorts of things just to drive a wedge into a relationship. Get the truth from him. I know that you are hurt but really,, if you are gong to really part on separate ways,, you need to base it on the truth. Then he can also be very sorry and that is a possibility and for that he will have to redeem himself. Find the truth,, it will set you free.
2007-07-20 23:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by jorge e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 04:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the man. He saw you. He was bad to you when he had the chance to win your love. He won't have changed. He just wanted to see you and he did.
2007-07-20 23:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, that looks like a destructive relationship. It seems he could be a stalker.
2007-07-20 23:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by fide88101 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in a word, 'Rejection'
no one likes it, he feels rejected by you, and wants you to feel sorry for him, miss him, maybe take him back -
Cut all contact, erase the phone number, he will hassle you for years otherwise -
2007-07-20 23:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by TPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you alright! but he loves himself even more to make you look cheap on other people. if he really loves you, he ought to have shown a little respect.........
2007-07-20 23:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all wat do u mean my country???? anyway..obviously hes obssesed lol.....tell him we can b friends but i have moved on....actually u kno wat i relly dont kno wat to tell u..cuz i dont understand wat u mean by ur country
2007-07-20 23:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋