AM i his DIARY?

Question

he is my friend.he calls me...we talk on compuet...we hang out so on. i know things that no one knows about him.he tells me everything. sometimes i think I AM HIS DIARY?i DO like or love him more than a friend. but he loves this other girl he met 2times.and its so hard for me to listen how he adores.misses..and wants to see her. i dont know how to handle this. i really want to know. HOW CAN I GET RID OF THIS FEELING? AND ONLY LOVE HIS AND LOOK AT HIM JUST AS A FRIEND?! IS THERE ANY WAY?! i cant stop talking to him becouse he is my friend and would be very weird if i do so.
PLEASE if u had same sitation...LET ME KNOW..it really will help if SOMEONE HAD SAME:(
IT HURTS.....
and its summer..and i dont meet new ppl. maybe i stuck on him?!

Answer 1

At least he is opening up to you. On here I read about situation after situation about women asking why their bf or husband doesn't open up to them. You are the only one he has to talk to HE DOES NOT have anyone else in his life like you. You sound like you don't know what you want. You say you only want him as a friend and you say you love him more than a friend. Make your mind up and either try to have a relationship with him or just be friends. Only you have the power over what you think and feel and do. Do you want him because he is attracted to this other girl? Maybe you want what you can't have.

Answer 2

It might be best to let him know that although you enjoy his company, it hurts you too much to hear him talk about other girls. Maybe he will get the hint.

Answer 3

yeah, maybe you did. i got stuck on a boy and can't stop thinking of him. now, if you want to get rid of this feeling, just
PRETEND he is some1 else, ok?

Answer 4

write him a letter explaining all your fellings. who knows he might secretly feel the same about you. you have to take a chance.