I met this guy a while ago. We got really close and were about to start dating, when suddenly, I stopped hearing from him. I had found out from a friend of his, that he got another girlfriend, so he quit talking to me. Well a year went by and out of the blue I get a message from him online saying he was sorry and wished we could go back to the way things were (he broke up with his g/f). So I said we could. A few days later, he vanished again.....it turns out, he got back with his girlfriend (after telling me what a huge mistake she was). Well a couple days ago I got another message from him, apologizing, again. My question is, should I forgive him again? I have NO plans on ever dating him because obviously, I cant trust him, and he's screwed me over twice now..but do I stay mad and not talk to him, or do I forgive him and be his friend? Or should I forgive him but not let him back into my life.. what would you do?? Im a very forgiving person, but..enough is enough
2007-07-20 23:21:31 · 3 answers · asked by Its just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How many times? Your quota is all used up and you've been a very forgiving person for too long. You're a very nice person and all, but now it's time to get real. You've indulged him and gotten nothing for your trouble except becoming his fall back girl, which is starting to make you look very foolish. His on again off again manipulation has become be very tiresome, not to mention making you into some kind of toy, where he thinks he can play with you at the discretion of his childish whim. Why are you putting up with him when he was out of your life for all that time? Now out of nowhere he reappears, rebounding from some other girl, (which didn't work out) and expects you to welcome him with open arms. That's a load of bull!
It's not a question if you should forgive him, but how will you forgive yourself if you continue to put up with him using you. You already don't trust him so what's the point? He's screwed you over enough times so what more is there to know? You have no plans of dating him ( good move) so what can there be that you possibly see in him? Frankly, he blew it with you long ago and now there is no further need for you have him cluttering up your life any longer. The guy has a problem with his fake apologies, disappearing acts and sickening sweet talk and it's a problem you don't need. If you aren't mad you ought to be with the way he trifled with and confused you. Enough is enough already! Tell him to leave you alone and stay away, now and forevermore.
2007-07-21 00:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. enough is enough. dont forgive him anymore. some guys get lucky & get a second chance, but dont give a THIRD chance. i pesonally would NEVER give a guy a second chance(sorry guys)
2007-07-20 23:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Black Winter Night Sky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice, shame on me!
Forget the schmuck!
2007-07-20 23:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋