she cheated on me. she was my first love. i lost my virginaty to her,and she cheats on me and gets pregnant. its not my baby i know its not, so dont ask if its mine
2007-07-20 22:35:49 · 21 answers · asked by wraithsofabomination 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i tryed to commit suiccide
becouse she chaeted on me and got pregnant she was my first love and i lost my virginity to her
2007-07-20 23:39:17 · update #1
i feel your pain, i'm in love and have been through difficult times with him and he cheated on me. it's hard to get pass the pain. all i can advise you is get involve on something that will tire your body and mind so that you wont have a chance to think of her.....
time heals all pains.... i knew that from experience................
2007-07-20 22:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's always hard the first time. You just chose a girl who was not a nice person, and not the right one for you. She didn't care in the same way you did.
You will find someone else after a while who will be true. Don't get another immature one though or you will go through the pain again.
There is no easy cure except time, and keeping busy.
2007-07-20 22:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mama_Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geez, if I were in your shoes and you know the baby is not yours, through the paternity test (to prove beyond reasonable doubt that baby is not yours), I would be celebrating like crazy.
For you, this is a time to celebrate because you are not grounded financially for the next 18 years and attach to someone who is not faithful to you. I was in your shoes. Believe me, it hurts but the thing is I wasn't pregnant.
My ex- was angry because he didn't know I was on the pills. He cheated, and he thought he had me pregnant so he can try to corner me into marrying him. I finally got the truth only after sex, and he then expected me to marry him, thinking that he got me pregnant. He just had a surprise himself. Believe me, I was furious that he was unfaithful to me. I went onto the pills because I didn't want to take the risk of any accident. I had no idea he trying to get me pregnant deliberately which could change my life permanently.
2007-07-20 22:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get busy. There are plenty of good ladies out there. Don't let one bad one spoil the bunch. Gather some friends around you and stop thinking about her and start having a good time. Best way to forget a bad one is to get a good one. By the way, wrap it up so that you don't have to worry about babies and diseases. Be glad the baby isn't yours so that you aren't tied to her for the rest of your life and can move on. Now move on. . .
2007-07-20 22:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear this buddy. I can imagine it must really suck. But hey, she's a stupid beootchhhh anyways so you don't need her. Move on and live the free life and enjoy being single. Before you know it, another girl will try to own you so enjoy the freedom while it lasts!
2007-07-20 23:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Free the monkey in you! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww im so sorry about it! I know its really hatrd 2 get over her, but not impossible!! Find a hobby and focus on something else!! But the best medicine of course is find a new girl! Dont worry everything is going to be alright :):) Good luckl :) Take care :)
2007-07-20 22:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey dude sorry to hear that man, so my girlfriend well ex no did the same thing, except she isnt pregnant and i;m still a virgin, but ANyway, i will be hard to get over her, but you will. it will take time but you cn do it. you just need to know that she wasnt the right one for you if she cheated on you, you just need to walk away and move on in your life. but you will always have a special connection with her, just try your best man. agin sorry to hear the bad news.
2007-07-20 22:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by screamer45 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure it may be hard to handle at the moment,-
but in time you will be happy that her 'cheating' allowed you to move on, and find someone much more loyal and worthy of a serious relationship -
2007-07-20 22:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by TPE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can get over her faster by breaking all contact with her. Do not buy into her stories she will likely tell you. Keep reminding yourself of what she did to you and how you felt by it. Do not forget that she is a liar and a cheater. With this problem, it should be enough for anyone to get over her.
2007-07-20 22:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok the first thing you do is fine someone else to like or go out because she cheated on you dump her too
2007-07-20 22:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋