im 14, virgin, not meaning to be snobby but im hot and have a nice body, i love orgasims, everyday once a day. and i want to have sex so badly, i actualy have dreams about sex or hot guys, in the day i day dream about having sex with the guy i like, hes 18 and maybe in a few weeks i will be going to his house because i know his sister, do u think if i ended up goingout with him i woudl want to have sex like that day? because i feel as if i just want a boyfreind who i can have sex with all the time and if i dont get the guy i liek i will move on to someone else....god help me
2007-07-16 19:38:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm. first of all 14 is WAY to young to start having sex. And second of all, it's completely illegal. Keep daydreaming and what not about it and wait until you are a few years older. You'll be glad you did and sex will mean more and be much much better.
2007-07-16 19:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes god help you. Snap out of it and focus on something else. You have plenty of time for that when you're mature. Which, I know you think you are, but judging by your post, no. You're dreaming of this fantasy world where you have "a boyfreind who i can have sex with all the time", but it's much more complicated than that. And not just because it would be illegal to date the 18 yr old. I know you don't want to hear any of this, but take some time to grow up. If you're thinking "these people don't know what they're talking about", it's because you aren't old enough to understand yet.
2007-07-16 19:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by camof2009 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hahaha I agree with the Julianne the whole go buy a vibrater thing, the thing is I think it's illegal for an 18 year old to bang a 14 year old, beside get with the program I don't think his interested in you. And think you should just like take a cold shower or go do something to calm your sexual needs that doesn't envolve you become a whore [for having sex with this guy you just think is hot] at suck a young age. The age doesn't even matter, but I think your just fooling around and this question is bullshit, but thanks for the laughs hahaha
2007-07-18 17:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you do need help. You probably don't want to hear this, and you've probably already heard this before but you're way too young. Wait a good while, stop acting like a whore, and take your mind out of the gutter. If you want a guy only for sex, so he can treat you like crap, so be it, so you can learn a good hard lesson on your own. Protect yourself, use condoms, stay safe if you can't have enough dignity and respect for yourself.
2007-07-16 19:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie
listen you need to relax yourself
for a bit and really begin to realize the big decision of sex
sure at your age your hormones are running like crazy
nd most teens your age sex is a big issue
bt that doesnt mean you should have it
sex is a MUCH MUCH more bigger deal than what your hormones say it is, sex is something that is supposed to be shared by 2 people who care and love each other
and believe me
like the old saying goes
YOU never forget your first time
if you ever do have sex woudnt you want it to be with someone you actualy cared about instead of just some random guy
besides
how well do you know this 18 year old anyways
cus
what many of your friends and telivision
doesnt tell you
is
many people have std's and other sexualy transmtted diseases
and wont tell you about it
believe me im 21 and ive learned one thing thru my life
guys will say anything to sleep wit a girl
even if he has herpes
he will lie to you jst to sleep with you
you are a young and bright girl
you dont want to ruin your life
by contracting a disease so soon do you
and also the bigger issue
is
YOU CAN GET PREGANT THE FIRST TIME YOU HAVE SEX
even with a condom
it has happened to many friends of mine
and it has ruined their lives forever
they cant go out and party and socialize and be normal teens because they have a child to take care of now
sex is alot bigger responsibility
than you think it is
you need to control yourself and your urges
its for the best
also ther ar many other options besides sex
please dont ruin your life
2007-07-16 19:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion, a girl at your age will naturally wish to have something like sex - but if you're someone who lives in a region where sex is taboo or was brought up with proper orientation (from your mother) about sex, probably you won’t have that so much “hot” feeling about it.
Strictly, sex is done by married couples who want to have a child – it’s not a light thing to do by unmarried individuals especially if you haven’t reached your legal age of 18! Sex outside marriage is fornication according to the Holy Bible. If you’re a Christian avoid fornication.
2007-07-16 19:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by semyaza2007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooohhh boy...wow...umm 1st off you really shouldnt be having sex with an 18 yr old cuz when your a teenager thats a BIIIIG age difference & thats just not cool. but maybe its just a stage your goin through cuz you really shouldnt be THAT anxieous to lose your virginity. and i know you really probably dont wanna run the risk of getting pregnant or contracting an STD at such a young age. condoms are only effective if used the correct way & most the time...they arent. so just simmer down & try to stop thinkin about it 24/7. & PLLLZZZZZ dont have sex with that 18 yr old. thats just wrong.....start thinkin about other stuff like find a hobby or sumthin so you wont be daydreaming about it.
2007-07-16 19:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your hormones talking. Don't use your friend like that she may never forgive you. And who is to say that her brother is into you? You may be hot but you are 14. The guy may have some standards and a bit of fear for the law.
If you were my daughter I'd lock you up and make you take cold showers everyday. Instead of revving your engine with your orgasms everyday try to ease off before you blow a gasket.
Well whenever you decide to have sex. ALWAYS use protection. Mommy is such an ugly name for a teenager.
http://www.familyplanning.org/
2007-07-16 19:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Melly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sure you probably hear this all the time and get sick of hearing it but I was like that at one stage of my life and i did jump into bed with the first guy who wanted to and i regret in unbelievably!! He just used me and left me and when i thought i couldn't feel any worse about myself he decided to tell everybody at school and they all started calling me a sl*t even though i wasnt and my friends just laughed at me. I know its a natural thing and the urges are hard to keep under control but just hold on until you find someone your positive wont just use you for the sex, being used is not a very nice thing at all.
2007-07-16 19:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your thoughts are normal, but you're still too young for sex emotionally and physically. ... But I'm warning you now... most guys don't really live up to the high expectations in our dreams... The romantic sex object we all dream of usually ends up not living up to our expectations. Keep dreaming though, there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-07-16 19:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋