Singles & Dating - 16 July 2007

2007-07-16 04:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for almost 1 months now, and all we do is hug and kiss and cuddle. I admit it is very nice. but I feel like we're missing out on sex real bad. Initially in the marriage he we were not able to have sex. I'm a virgin who's obviously got a tough hymen or something. It's like he tries to push in and it somehow slides out, no matter how hard he is! He always tried fingering but after that I have a burning sensation for the next half a day. My husband still tries…but he is very polite and caring, coz he fears if It hurt me…

Don’t know why, he makes love to me very passionately…I love him so much and I like it so much when he loves me, but don’t know, why I don’t feel any excitement…..may be that’s why I remain bit dry…I mean, I see he is very exited, his breaths become different…but, I remain as usual…why this? I m 19 years, to be noted and my husband 28. i love him a lot..so there is no question about not getting turned on considering him a new man..

2007-07-16 03:57:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Virginity from 20 upwards...big deal in a relationship (ie. Does it influence your decision, does it make the person seem less mature, does it put extra strain on the courtship cos you cant get laid, will you go somewhere else to get what you want etc..)??

2007-07-16 03:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in love with matt m and he knos who he is and i kno who he is.... but who r u in love with?

2007-07-16 03:54:18 · 30 answers · asked by im in love wit that boy!!*) 2

Well, people say that I am ugly but my mom and friends say I'm...ok. Well what would you consider pretty?

2007-07-16 03:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4

i moved to pa from fl 2 years ago and have yet to figure out where to meet guys! in fl there were a lot more places it seems to meet guys...the beach, bars that were some decent guys went...help i need to find someone!

2007-07-16 03:52:16 · 1 answers · asked by katylady77 2

2007-07-16 03:38:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I have been talking to 1-2 times a week for a few months now. He works at my apartment complex so I can only ever talk to him when he gets off work (I have to meet him). I am starting to like him but I don't want to lose a good friendship if I tell him I like him and he doesn't share those feelings. When we talk, our conversations are pretty casual and we discuss many different topics. He always looks straight at my eyes when we talk and I can tell that when I ask him questions, he is answering honestly; however, he never has as much to ask me so I tend to hold more of the convo, but he laughs at all my jokes. I asked him to a movie a while ago and he said yes (he had to check his schedule) but couldn't because of his kids. I gave him a hug the other day as he was leaving, a surprise one, and he had this big smile on his face as he walked away, now he smiles more, but he still seems fairly detached. Am I overlooking obvious signals or is he just being nice?

2007-07-16 03:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 29 year old single mother who is kind (my friends tell me), hard working and independent but I tend to attract men who for lack of a better way to say are not very nice (they lie about their realtionship status, or try to put me down). I have horrible luck in love and have been alone for a very long time. I am wondering what can i do to better my chances for love and find a nice guy who wants a relationship?

2007-07-16 03:35:44 · 8 answers · asked by ondia 3

Cameron (this hot boy I know) is this boy I really, really, really like. He got a buzz cut, has green or either blue eyes, tall/short and most importantly... he's hot. I am shy to call a boy I like so I want to text insead! What should I say. Girls give me somthing.

2007-07-16 03:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy who sold me my phone has stalled my transaction so that he can still keep in contect, which is annoying financially but kinda sweet. He called me the other day and asked if he could take me out and I sort of laughed it off...what should I do?

2007-07-16 03:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

In class I was put next to this guy, first he would look at me and ask questions, poke me with his pencil, then he started to tap me. When I got up he would stop and stare. We started to talk and became friends. We sometimes argued about things I would move my desk away from him and he would be right next to me. One day he and his friend were talking about the girl who his friend liked and then his friend asked my guy a question and he jerked his thumb toward me his friend kept staring at us and smiled, came up and asked me how I was so smart. He would grab my hand, try to walk with me out of class, try to impress me, steal my stuff when I was in the bathroom, put his arm over mine. Made comments about how we complete each other. Before winter break asked me if I liked him, but I didn’t answer because I was so stunned.
I wrote him a note saying that I did, and I made it clear. He called to ask what I was saying yes to. Said HE DID NOT RECALL ASKING ANYONE THAT QUESTION also said I WAS A NICE GIRL AND HE WOULD LIKE TO CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP WE HAD.
He stares at me and looks up when someone says my name. When I hug one of my guy friends he stares and stares/ gets jealous. When I buy my cookie during lunch his friends tell him and he turns around to look at me. When I walk by during class his friends are like "dude stop starting at her.” When I say his name he looks at me as if he is really happy and excited and if I say something vague, he gets disappointed, he goes out of his way to talk to me and ask me questions. I told his friend that I was going to try to give up and she just kept telling me that he was just not ready for a relationship because they talked about me for a while. When he is talking to a group of people he looks only at me, intensely.
He told my friend that he would rather “JUST BE FRIENDS”, but she said he said she should not say anything, and she does not break promises, no matter what, but she keeps telling me to call/hangout with him…
But his friends, keep telling me that he likes me, that he is just shy and nervous…
we've known each other for two years...but last year he was just annoying

2007-07-16 03:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by Michelle 2

Ive been dating this great guy for nearly 2months and today Ive told him I wont be able to see him for 3weeks due to work and a 2week holiday. He sent me a txt message saying I should do my best and quote 'Maybe I'll speak to you after, Take care x'. So what does this mean is it over because I'll be gone for 3weeks or am I overreacting?

2007-07-16 03:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by amycutexx 1

I am not married 2 this man,we just made love once and now am pregant and i don't want 2 hav his baby coz he is iiresponsible and has other women, but he says i sh'd carry out an abortion, what sh'd i do coz i don't want him, pliz help me out.

2007-07-16 03:23:12 · 32 answers · asked by maggie 1

I recently discovered that my boyfriend has been chatting online with other women and sometimes meeting them for coffee, etc. I don't have a problem with him having female friends, as we don't live very close in proximity. However, I have found some of these chats/emails extremely sexual in nature, but not with the girls that I am aware he has actually met in person. Even though some of the girls he talks to sexually, he has asked to meet, I don't see any evidence that he has actually met them. Should I confront him about this? If so, how do I explain how I know about it without giving up my secret?

2007-07-16 03:20:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting a little sick of doing all the work to get a girl. I would like to be pursued for once. Why is it so hard for a woman to pursue a man? To let him know she's got her eye on him? Granted we are in the animal kingdom and like most animals we do "mating rituals" to attract females; i.e. flirt with them, compliments, act like fools to impress, etc. Anyone?

2007-07-16 03:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by Colt 45 5

hello???

2007-07-16 03:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its a complex relationship. We r good friends, ive really liked him for over a year, and he likes me but doesnt want to go out with me. He doesnt like me as much as i like him. He likes me as he would his sisters.

So, after over a year of sleeping over, we finaly get down to it. He started it, but ive wanted 2 for ages so was only happy to oblige. So there we have it, we are going away, but then as we change positions, he cant get it up anymore. He said he didnt know why, as it had never happened wit any other girls before.

Is it guilt with sleeping with a girl he knows is obsessed with him but doesnt have the same feelings for? Was it performance nerves due to the fact he knew i really liked him? Its certainly not medical if it hasnt happened with any other girl?

I am only 19 and he is only 20, and it wasnt either of our first times and have both never came across this happening before.

2007-07-16 03:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by H 2

2007-07-16 03:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-16 03:08:11 · 11 answers · asked by QUEEN B 1

Because i just did it. And he said yes. i did it because i knew he'd liked me for ages. But how does that make other guys feel? Does it 'shrink your manhood'? or is it good?

2007-07-16 03:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my man cheated on his significant other with me, then how can i be sure hes not going to do the same to me? Hes wonderful. Hes the guy whos got it all, the looks and the personality. He completely swept me off my feet and still continues to. How do i know hes not just runnin game on me as well.......

2007-07-16 03:05:05 · 30 answers · asked by Sparkles 2

I plan on asking my crush out. The only thing is that last week I found out that he has a 6 year old daughter. I'm completely fine with that. I met her on Saturday and she is a gorgeous and very sweet little girl. She's in town visiting her father for the next 3 weeks, so more than likely he will have to bring her on our date/get-together. Can someone help me with some ideas as to what the 3 of us can do if the little girl has to come? The most obvious choice would be the park, but I want to do something a little more fun.

2007-07-16 02:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by Caliana 3

2007-07-16 02:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by Love mexxxxxxxim 1

so me and my girlfriend have been maintaining a long distance relationship for about 7 or 8 months now (i've lost track because I haven't seen her in so long :[ ) and I've noticed something. Everytime I call her she seems a little more distant than when we're together, which she is obviously, but it can get very frustrating when I really want to talk to her and she cuts my phonecalls off at like, 10 or 15 minutes, sometimes even less. I love her to death, I know she loves me and I completely 100% trust her. I'm just wondering if there is anything I should be trying to do between now and when she comes back in like 2 weeks. Any advice on how to really pull her into a conversation? what should I talk about with her.. I'm just afraid I'm boring her on the phone. Thanks guys!

2007-07-16 02:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jack B 4

there is this girl i like, im courious if she is single or what not. I have seen her around the building, we have spoken hey whats up a few times. she does think that Im sweet and very charming bc of how i hold the door open for her. I havent seen her with a dude since i have moved her but one time along time ago. We have spoken when we see eachother leaving or coming in from work. On numerous occassions her car is at the apt durin the evening or friday and sat nite. Im not stalkin her, Im just mentioning that i have seen her car at the time at the lot. does that mean shes single? thanks again
J

2007-07-16 02:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

Would you DUMP HIM for a "real man"?

2007-07-16 02:46:41 · 13 answers · asked by Macaroni 1

it happens everytime somone who i am in love with, i end of feeling why cant i open up to him? i ended a relationship becuz of that. why cant i get over the fear of opening up to him in being myself

2007-07-16 02:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by I_wuv_you! hehe 3

i really dont want to choose. i dont like choosing for my self or someone else. its hard for me. so i really dont want to but he wants me to. but i dont want to pick something he doesnt want to see like what if i pick like 1408 or something and he doesnt want to see it but he doesnt say anything to me about him not wanting to see it. so what do i do?

2007-07-16 02:40:09 · 24 answers · asked by Leslie 1

Does it differ depending on what color hair/skintone the guy has? My question is, if you were to see a guy with blue eyes and REALLY blonde hair, like REALLY blonde... would he look better with no facial hair or with some? does it depend on each individual person? I have a goatee right now, and i want to change my look a bit, but am afraid to go clean shaven, as i have a very young face, and at 24 dont wanna look like im 12... i have a "baby face" as a lot of people would call it. Ive noticed that besides the goat, another popular look is just the patch below the lower lip... i cant really do that 5 0'clock shadow look because my facial hair is also REALLY blonde lol... so im limited on options, just wanted opinions

thanks!

2007-07-16 02:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous