so me and my girlfriend have been maintaining a long distance relationship for about 7 or 8 months now (i've lost track because I haven't seen her in so long :[ ) and I've noticed something. Everytime I call her she seems a little more distant than when we're together, which she is obviously, but it can get very frustrating when I really want to talk to her and she cuts my phonecalls off at like, 10 or 15 minutes, sometimes even less. I love her to death, I know she loves me and I completely 100% trust her. I'm just wondering if there is anything I should be trying to do between now and when she comes back in like 2 weeks. Any advice on how to really pull her into a conversation? what should I talk about with her.. I'm just afraid I'm boring her on the phone. Thanks guys!
2007-07-16 02:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jack B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that and tell her that she means so much to you and think of something that you will do when you comes back and ask her about how she is doing and what she wants to do when she gets back and everything like that and that you miss her so much
2007-07-16 04:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, go visit her! Or another thing that would be really sweet that she might enjoy is get her address and send her a package with a hand written note telling her how much she means to you and how much you care. Send with it a small gift, or something she really likes, music, candy, magazine.. etc. This could help bring you two together. But you need to see one another as soon as possible, just to re-kindle the fire
2007-07-16 09:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and don't overdo it. If you spend too much time on the phone she'll assume you are trying to control her. Do your own thing and just look happy when you'll see her. Let her worry about you too. Good luck.
2007-07-16 09:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fiorina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personaly talking on a phone for a relatonship was always hard. but when she comes tell her how muched u missed her, and what has been going on since she been gone.
good luck!
2007-07-16 09:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by I_wuv_you! hehe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex so much. Deprive yourselves of sex and your relationship will exponentially improve. Sex is great but if you're serious about bridging the gap, you need to feel sexually motivated.
2007-07-16 10:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by MOOOSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a nice greeting card once in a while. How about flowers? Do you send her emails?
2007-07-16 09:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋