i really dont want to choose. i dont like choosing for my self or someone else. its hard for me. so i really dont want to but he wants me to. but i dont want to pick something he doesnt want to see like what if i pick like 1408 or something and he doesnt want to see it but he doesnt say anything to me about him not wanting to see it. so what do i do?
2007-07-16 02:40:09 · 24 answers · asked by Leslie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no matter watever u choose, its gr8 for a guy.
so do make ur choice. he'll be elated to fulfill it.
2007-07-16 02:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Encyclopedia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, I think it is from wanting to please everybody else all the time. If he can't pick, take the lead and see a movie you will enjoy. He will like you making the decision. It's shows that you know what you want. He can choose next time. If 1408 is the movie I think it is, he should like it. I watched it and couldn't take my eyes away from the tv.
2007-07-16 09:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion on this is that he wants you to choose the movie because he wants you to be happy. Most of the time if a guy picks a movie it is for two reasons, he wants to make out during the movie, or he really wants to see it. Take the fact that he is letting you choose to be a good thing and just choose!
2007-07-16 09:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately, choose a movie you would like, and be honest, don't worry wether he likes it or not and don't try to pick one you THINK he'd like, he'll like just spending the time with you. It's nice that he wants you to pick, it's a good sign that he's not a controlling person and he cares about what you like. What's the worst that can happen, he doesn't like the movie, so what, that'll give you something to laugh about and it will give yyou a reason for him a reason for him to pick the next movie!!!
2007-07-16 09:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could care less about the movie. Its the point of taking you to one. If the movie sucks, oh well, he still got to spend time with you. Pick something funny (License to Wed) or scary (Captivity, 1408) good date movies.
2007-07-16 09:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by dancinggopher01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the movie. One of the most annoying things to some guys is when women don't or can't make descions themselves. If he's asking you to choosing, he's at least thinking of your feelings and wants first. He could just say, let's go see "Transformers".
2007-07-16 09:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Wash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try to pick a movie that BOTH of you might like. If you stick with the classics you usually can't go wrong. Sometimes award-winning foreign films can be pleasantly surprising, and sometimes surprisingly sexy - which most men like! And you could ask him what he wants to see, and if it happens to be one that you want to see too, then pick that one and you both "win".
2007-07-16 09:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem...What I like to do to compromise is say this..."okay, I'll choose, but you narrow it down for me"...He gives you a few selections, and you go from there...That way you both are really choosing...
2007-07-16 09:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by That Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what type of movies he likes!! Does he like comedy, suspense, horror, etc. Then pick one and ask him does he want to see it. Simple as that!!
2007-07-16 09:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by MonaLisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just pick a movie that you want to see. Maybe next time you can have him pick one. Or... you both can chose one togeather...You can just stay home and watch movies togeather on the couch... yuo probally wont be watching much of it anyway...=]
2007-07-16 09:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sammm. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and choose the movie. if he wants you too more than likely he knows there is a chance he won't want to see it. but maybe that just shows he doesn't care if he doesn't want to see it, he just wants to be with you.
good luck!
2007-07-16 09:44:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋