Is a cheater always a cheater?

Question

If my man cheated on his significant other with me, then how can i be sure hes not going to do the same to me? Hes wonderful. Hes the guy whos got it all, the looks and the personality. He completely swept me off my feet and still continues to. How do i know hes not just runnin game on me as well.......

Answer 1

wow what more can be said it looks like everyone here has the same opion of this so called boyfriend of yours he is a BUM so get out while you still can

Answer 2

No, a cheater isn't always (i.e. all the time) a cheater. Yes, a cheater is always (i.e. the possibility is great) a cheater. But he/she can come to his/her senses and be cured in his/her cheating ways.

Based on your logic, he can do the same to you. He completely swept you off your feet and still continues to. He completely swept only you off your feet and still continues to. Is there a difference between those two statements?

So how would you know? The best person to ask is his ex-significant other; that is, if she has gotten over her hurts. She's the only one you know so far whom he has swept off her feet besides you.

Answer 3

I speak from experience. I have been cheated on and I have been the cheater. More than likely once a cheater always one. A person really has to look closely at themselves....step back from the dating scene and work on themselves. They have to really take a close look at what caused them make that choice. No one ever causes that ... it is a choice made by the one who cheats. I would just be really careful. If there ever comes a time when you have that feeling then it is best to just get out. Hope it works for you....

Answer 4

please don't be upset if I am wrong, I am going only by what I see which is "If my man cheated on his significant other with me. . . "

I can only assume that means he is already involved with someone or married and is cheating on them with you.
I guess in this situation it would depend on if he intends on leaving said significant other and starting a relationship with you.
I know that it is ussually true that once someonce cheats they will do it again. Now wether that is the case I am not sure. It all depends if you really want to wait around and see if that is what your going to deal with or not. If it starts getting complicated or his actions start not making any sense you may want to get out while you are ahead.

He could either be looking for someone truely ment for him or he is just bored with who he is with now.
If he is just bored and that is how he handles it then you will more than likely be the one getting a game run on you.

Be cautious and don't put more on your plate than you can handle, No matter how great he is.

Answer 5

Yes, unfortunately cheaters go on cheating. It is not even an if but a when will he cheat. Relationships are built on trust and he doesn't have a foundation to stand on. A female friend of mine who always dated men who had it all looks, money, houses,etc. just got married to an average guy. She told me that loyalty was always an issue because the men who have it all don't ever learn to appreciate whom they have. Have fun with guy but don't ever think of him as a long term partner.

Answer 6

You know what they say about a tiger.....can't change its' stripes. Unfortunetly there really is no way to know, but usually once a cheater, always a cheater - you tend to realize how easy it is to cheat, and get away with, it's difficult to break the habit. Just dig deep and ask yourself if it's something you're comfortable with?

Answer 7

once a cheat always a cheat to answer your ? from experience yes . they may stop for a while but always return to old habits, cheaters are a breed of there own, its the thrill of getting away with it and getting caught, they always return to the one they cheat on saying i never meant to hurt you or this had nothing to do with you, if there cheating now they will continue.

Answer 8

That is a lesson that you will learn, very soon.. sorry but usually the myth is true, Once a cheater always a cheater.. and when you learn that go to the bible and learn something else which is very true... DON'T DO ON TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T WANT DONE ON TO YOU...

Answer 9

its good that you are thinking this way, but you should ask him about it and see if his response includes remorse over cheating on her and if he recognizes that it was a bad thing to do. If he is totally okay with himself for doing it, I would expect it to happen to you too, when the newness wears off of your relationship. If he seems to have dealt with some guilt over cheating and come to understand it wasn't a good thing to do, then I would say you have a better chance of not being the next victim

Answer 10

look baby , u r at same stage as i were ,first of all try to trust him if u have any problem with him, try to resolve the same, if uhave any doubt about him try to solve the same at ur end.Looks n personality does not matter dont ran behind it. if u have sum physical relation then be slow in that might be he is using u do not trust him blindelly and if he creats the seen when u ask something dont force him.Aur time ke sath sath sub kuch thik ho jata hai ......LOVE ALL TRUST FEW

Answer 11

You don't know. Nobody on this planet can answer your million dollar question. I bet 'your man' doesn't even have a set plan either. If you REALLY want to have a long term relationship with him, don't have sex with him. I know you already have, but don't have sex with him that often, because sex ruins everything. Don't let him get tired of your sex till the day of marriage.