Singles & Dating - 16 July 2007

Is it a way they feel/act to get more attention/affirmation and love they are lacking inside? Or is even the girl with the best self-esteem will be emotional?

2007-07-16 02:38:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf is 26, but he always complained to me that he's lonely after work (FYI: we are in long distance relatonship - 5 hrs driving, but we get to see each other every other week). he feels insecure when he's alone. he feels like nobody cares about him when he's by himself. last week, he called me up and told me he's lonely and bored. i told him to find something to do (in fact, he's not a game person and he likes to hang out with people), but he said he doesn't want to do anything....i don't know how to help him. for me, i always can find something to do like rent a movie and get on internet to kill times. you know he's a guy, i feel like i'm babysiting him (please excuse my words). i'm just wondering if many guys in mid 20s can act like that...if there's any suggestion, feel free to drop a line...thanks

2007-07-16 02:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by MoniJ 2

I like 3 different guy on 3 different level- I don't have a boyfriend and I'm feeling this one guy a little more than the other 2 but all he wants is sex and I can't jut turn my feelings on and off what should I do before its too late? I really like Dorian!

2007-07-16 02:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs.Carter 2

They all claim to be free, until you register and find out that you can't actually do anything without paying a fee. And when the odds of actually meeting someone are slim & none, I can think of better things to do with my money.

2007-07-16 02:36:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it good going with her

2007-07-16 02:33:49 · 19 answers · asked by supreme 2

i read somewhere that patting people on the back during a hug is a sign of friendship, but whenever i hug my female friends they never do it, whereas my boyfriend is constantly patting my back when we hug. i'm quite confused can anyone help?

2007-07-16 02:33:39 · 17 answers · asked by beatrixface 2

My boyfriend is an incredible guy. He is sweet, good looking, funny, and smart. He is a musician and creates the most beautiful songs, some of them for me! We have been together about a year. We moved in together almost right away. I work and take care of the house while he works on his craft. Once he makes it big, he promises he will take care of me. The thing is, I love doing all this stuff. I love him and I want to take care of him, so I like doing stuff like his laundry and cooking for him. My mothers says he is using me and I should leave. I would just tell her to butt out, but she is paying for my schooling. I pay for everything else, but she pays for that and she is saying she won't anymore because I am dating a no-good. How do I explain he is not a no-good, but a rock star on the rise??? Help!!! My heart is breaking!!!

2007-07-16 02:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your a young fairly attractive, tall slim woman and you happen to be a single mother would this fact alone put guys off ????

2007-07-16 02:31:25 · 25 answers · asked by Josie A 2

do guys find this unattractive..its not like i have huge muscle..like im skinny with muscle but yeah theres defiantly some muscle defintion going on with my arms..and i kinda feel gross cauz people are always commenting on it...its not like my arms are huge though..but do guys find this a big turn off or is it good or bad?? i dunno what to do..cauz i dont think i can just get rid of it like that haha. in fact...i dont think its ever going to go away..this is sad.

2007-07-16 02:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl i like, im courious if she is single or what not. I have seen her around the building, we have spoken hey whats up a few times. she does think that Im sweet and very charming bc of how i hold the door open for her. I havent seen her with a dude since i have moved her but one time along time ago. We have spoken when we see eachother leaving or coming in from work. On numerous occassions her car is at the apt durin the evening or friday and sat nite. Im not stalkin her, Im just mentioning that i have seen her car at the time at the lot. does that mean shes single? thanks again
J

2007-07-16 02:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years (since I was 18) and I have been thinking alot lately about leaving him. He is not a bad guy, he is really sweet and funny, and he is my best friend in the whole world. I really do love him , but I feel like we just don't connect on the level that true love is supposed to . He is not romantic at all. He never wants to have sex, and when we do it is good, but not passionate. He never holds me or touches or caress me. I am the kind of person that needs passion and romance, I just feel like we are good friends. We have been through so much together, and he has never been anything but good to me. Does true passionate love exist? Should I be grateful that I have a man that loves me, won't cheat on me, has a job, and all the basics, or Do you really truely deeply "connect" with your true love? I don't know what to do....

2007-07-16 02:27:46 · 20 answers · asked by sugarplums 1

Im not in a relationship with the father of the baby but with another guy, whom i haven't told im pregnant yet. My tummy isn't really showing and enjoys having sex with him..

How do I tell him about the pregnancy and have him not leave me because of this...?Im beginning to ignore his call and avoids seeing him, I make excusses all the time as im afraid his gonna notice this...I make him switch off the lights during sex and he hates it...but i cannot risk him seeing that im pregnant.
What should I do???

2007-07-16 02:21:18 · 20 answers · asked by Lwando 2

Me & my friend are in school on the computers, please leave us a message about anything, we are kind of bored.
ENTERTAIN US =)
Thank you, all messages will be appreciated greatly
K & A x

2007-07-16 02:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm newly back in the dating scene and I have a question. If you went out on a date with someone and had a really good time, but were not at all physically attracted to the person, would you go out with them again?

2007-07-16 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 6

i was told that i am always the friend. i date guys, but i always end up being the "FRIEND"

2007-07-16 02:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by melanie w 2

... he left the phone in his friend car or it was dead and he lost the charger but there are other ways for him to call me. the first time it was okay but he has done this two other times. i would call off other phones or get friends to call and he still dnt answer so it's not like he's dodging me but i want to know what should i do? oh and this wkend he did it and txt me this morning on his way to work saying he would call me on his break. whats going on?

2007-07-16 02:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by brown eyes 2

I used to have a boyfriend. We split up in April. I know he's still fond of me; he'd probably agree to get back together (if that was what I wanted.) The problem is that I figured out that I wasn't romantically interested in him - he was a great guy and a great friend, but not what I wanted in a boyfriend.

I'm so lonely lately. All I see all around are happy couples.
I want a boyfriend. I want to feel wanted and needed and special and appreciated and like a person again, not a rejected piece of garbage.

And I feel guilty for this, because the one and only guy in the whole universe who actually wanted me, I was too picky and I rejected.

Do I have a chance at finding someone else?
And where should I look?

I'm not that pretty. I'm not that great, period, but I'm so sick of being alone. I wake up alone and wish I hadn't awakened at all.

2007-07-16 01:59:50 · 2 answers · asked by sunspotflares 1

but i need a girlfrind am 23 yrs old,my hair is black,am christian,6ft and in love listerning music,watching movie and studying,

2007-07-16 01:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by Dr.Manuel 1

Spoke to my ex this week end and it was quite a nice conversation. We talked for a while and he had to do something so he said he would ring me back from his work phone cos he had no minutes or txts left on his phone, this was saturday and he didnt. So last nite I txt him saying that I read somehwhere that if some one says they will ring you and they dont you should CO OPERETE with them and not call them, and that it was quite funny that for some one who sayd he never rings any one that he has no mins on his phone, so obviously he must be calling SOMEBODY and my bad for ringing him! i JUST GOT ANNOYED COS HE DOES THIS ALL THE TIME and he says he doesnt have a gal or is not seeing any one. I think I have a right to be annoyed cos he does it all the time!

2007-07-16 01:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you girls like in any mans physical apperence.
bascilly what do u find hot

2007-07-16 01:45:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a guy bestfriend who is married with a kind wife. Cant find reason to cheat her but my best friend does most of the time. Lately I can sense that he is affected in everything that I do specially on going out.. im separated with 4 kids by the way. When we are together i cant hear him say anything bad even if we go home 4 or 5am but when im with our friends he says things that really hurt. He cant say direct that hes jealous but he seems very angry and would even look for an outlet to his anger... creating a fight with other people. I told him before that i think im falling for him but he said that will be best friend forever thats it. then i stop seeing him 4 a while but would find a way to communicate with me even a simple hello to inviting me to accompany him. I would say i still like him but im feeling that he is falling for me but cant just tell me. Do you think he does like me or not.

2007-07-16 01:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by miga 1

My ex still lives with me and i told him he has 30 days to find a place. He is taking all of this very hard. But atleast im giving him time so he has somewhere to go and time to save money. thats fair warning right??? or am i wrong?

2007-07-16 01:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes maybe the guys I'm dating are not a good match, but sometimes I also wonder if I might be saying the wrong things early in the relationship.

I didn't get a lot of guidance or modeling for good communication when I was younger, so often I just don't know if something is okay to say. I tend to share my feelings pretty openly, so if I'm unsure about someone or something I'll usually say it. I never say things rudely or insensitively, but I guess I am thinking that maybe some things (worries and inner questions) are better left unsaid?

I'm wondering how I can learn more about what I should or should not say early in a relationship? This is SO hard for me to do, as I'm just a very open person when it come to these things. (But I don't want to be so open that I scare others off!)

I really want to find the right person and am willing to look at my own behavior to see if I'm making mistakes.

2007-07-16 01:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

We have been together for 7 years but recently been through a real rough patch that we are comming out of and i really want to treat him to something nice to show how much i love him. Any ideas please to make it special for him because he has been a real diamond to me and deserves something nice. Thanks you all

2007-07-16 01:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by HeatherzFeatherz 4

2007-07-16 00:43:04 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

i read that it is scientifically proven that guys and girls often fall in love with people that resemble theyre parents ( the dad in case of u being a girl , the mom if u'r a guy) i know it's sounds strange , but i thought about it ...and my girlfriend kinda reminds me of my mom lol ...
so what do u guys think?

2007-07-16 00:35:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I'm only 17 but I'm extremely ready to settle down... I know I know I'm to young right??? Well I've totally thought this through! I got married when I was 16 but we split up in February of this year because he was way to immature! So I figured that a man that has a kid would be a bit more mature! So if you know anyone please let me know.... Please no one reply to this if your going to be rude or try to lecture me because yes i'm only 17 but I'm most positive that I have been through alot more then most people do in there lives! So I know that I am ready for a serious relationship with a young mature man! My email is st_or_mi@yahoo.com so if you would like to contact me that way you are more then welcomed to!!! Thanks for your time!

2007-07-16 00:20:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous