it happens everytime somone who i am in love with, i end of feeling why cant i open up to him? i ended a relationship becuz of that. why cant i get over the fear of opening up to him in being myself
2007-07-16 02:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by I_wuv_you! hehe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you are not in love ---like crazy Eddie said and i agree ---you are not comfortable and ect----you do not end a relashionship because you do not open up ----- be your self know that there is going to be hurt even in marriage--- you got to work with it ---start thinking a positive note nothing negative positive brings positive negative draws negative ---but you need both to balance out --how would you know what to chose from
2007-07-16 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you have not found someone you can trust enough to open up and share your true self with. It's fear of rejection of the real you. Are you sure you are happy with your self? That would be the first step. To get in touch with your real self and learn to love who you are. Then you will be strong enough not to be afraid of some knowing the real you. Also, start of with the real you and not the "diva". And lastly, anyone that doesn't like the real you is not worth being around.
2007-07-16 09:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is what i would reccomend... When you really start getting into a guy. Write him a note. Like a big long one. Tell him how much you love him and how your so into him... just say exactly what you feel. Then just give it to him. It will make it easier to open up to him. After that you will see it will be so much easier.
2007-07-16 09:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of him as your best friend so you can open up to him.
2007-07-16 13:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋