k my bf said that i am to hot and that he isnt the right guy for me. and everyone at my high school told me and him that he is so lucky to go out with me and that we make a perfect couple. and now im so confused. he doesnt know to love me as much as my hotness. im so confused. just say anything that can help. plz
2007-07-16 19:57:04 · 15 answers · asked by *rockstar* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he ain't interested, he ain't interested. You may be hot but that isn't everybody's cup of tea. It's possible that your 'hotness' intimidated him and he's afraid he won't be able to meet your expectations. But that's OK. Now that your free of him you can try me.
2007-07-16 21:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look. He already feels that you are way out of his league. He is worried that you will find someone way better looking then him and fall for them. He is scared of losing you but wants to be the bigger guy. If you really like him then you need to show him that you don't care about anyother guy except for him. Try this. If you see a hot guy or you feel his hand squeeze tighter because he notices the guy checkin you out. Then stop and pull your bf in for a kiss. It will definatley raise his self-esteem. Also it shows him that you aren't afraid to show what you got infront of other guys. Good luck and hope everything works out.
2007-07-17 03:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by CODENAME: Zoolander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your hot doesn't mean that everyone wants you. Sure it makes things a lot easier but sometimes relationships just dont work out. Maybe he felt that maybe you just wern't the girl for him. Maybe you had different interests or he gave some things up to be with you. Who knows!!! But just because you are hot and EVERYONE says you should be together doesn't actually mean you will.
Good Luck,
2007-07-17 03:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by boscatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would have to agree, I once dated a really beautiful girl and at first i thought it was great but i then realized that all the pressure of having to try to make sure i can keep her interested in me wore me out and i didn't feel like the relationship wasn't worth the effort of constantly trying to fend of the competition. So after about a month I broke up with her. If you do like your boyfriend then you need to reassure him occasionally how into him you are or eventually he is gonna thing that he might be out of his league........hope this helps
2007-07-17 03:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey rockstar. Find a guy who is confident enough to be with you. The guy should handle the relationship so he should be stronger than you are. You can't lower your hotness for him. He should make a move to level his hotness to you. A real guy will take it as a challenge. A guy should also love you not because you're hot but because of who you are.
Hope my answer helped you. Keep safe!!
2007-07-17 03:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by allanrockz8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's cheating or is seriously getting his self-esteem trampled for some reason, and doesn't think that he deserves you... you have to find out what it is... don't press him too hard on the cheating though... I could be wrong....
I think he can't understand why a chick like you would date a goof like him.... try something to boost his confidence a little that might help... or ask you girl friends to lie when they talk to him and tell him that he's just as hot as you are then... maybe that'll help....
2007-07-17 03:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure with himself. Maybe you don't give him enough attention, in relation to other guys. You make him feel jealous, maybe. Maybe you think too highly of yourself? He is so lucky to go out with you? Someone or people are making him feel insecure about himself. Maybe he needs to date someone who makes him feel like he is the #1 guy in her life and that what other people say doesn't matter.
2007-07-17 03:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke.
You have posted 4 questions in an hour or less. And they don't seem like you're talking about the same guy.
2007-07-17 03:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the second poster. There's the chance of the first poster being correct too, but I'm going to go with the latter.
2007-07-17 03:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to tell you in a nice way that he's sick of being with you and wants to date someone else.
2007-07-17 02:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋