Singles & Dating - 26 June 2007

What I mean is that she wants me to take my time getting her "there"but as soon as she does,she wants me to get "there"as quickly as possible.I want to take my time and enjoy her body,because she is very good in the bedroom,but she keeps complaining that I take too long.What should I do?I feel cheated when she rushes me to finish,advice please.

2007-06-26 19:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a sociable person...loves to socialize and talk; to anybody! he likes to drink while he's at it. everyday, probably a total of 4 a day (beer, wine, vodka, margarita) but he does not get drunk. he drinks with friends and with meals. he says that he is not an alcoholic, yet he talks about drinks as if he can't wait to drink again. and he bragged about a time he drank everything the bar had and won a trophy...which he is very proud of. it seems like everytime we talk, he'd mention having had a drink or someone who has a case of beer. i do not want to end up with an alcoholic. i love him, but how long shall i wait for this 'addiction', if i may call it that, to end? i also dont want to waste my time.

2007-06-26 19:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by hwngirl 5

is being single better than being married..........?

2007-06-26 19:49:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...

how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???

2007-06-26 19:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by John A 1

2007-06-26 19:47:52 · 5 answers · asked by jessica m 1

i am rephrasing my question.
i was at a party last thursday and i had tons of fun. when it was just girls around, we dared each other to go streaking. so i went and it was totally fun!
some guys showed up later and we had tons of fun with that too. we didnt do anything except talk and play like 10 fingers etc.
so this guy texted me later on about the party. i let it slip that we went streaking. he didnt believe me cause he said that i was too much of a good girl or whatever. he wanted me to prove it by sending a pic over the phone. i kinda like him so i did. he said i have a nice body.
bad or good idea? will it be totally weird next time i see him?

2007-06-26 19:43:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you go have a relationship with an asexual girl (i.e. no sexual activity ever) but a girl that allowed you to have sex with anyone else that you wanted to instead? could a relationship like that last?

2007-06-26 19:39:19 · 18 answers · asked by Andrea C 3

Okay, I broke up with my ex about a month ago. The night we broke up, he threatened to kill himself. I asked him if he was serious or not and he didn't respond. So I called 911. He got mad, because the cops came over and was angry at me for calling. Anyways, I talked to another ex of mine, and he said that men do this all the time and never mean it. His mother has had exes that do this to her a lot. Is that true that a lot of men do this? And if they do, why do they do this? I mean, just because we don't want to date you doesn't mean we want you dead! It's a really awful thing to do to someone.

2007-06-26 19:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

have sex evry night? we do live together and are serious

2007-06-26 19:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by jessica m 1

2007-06-26 19:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seein this guy for 2 months, from the start I said I didnt want a relationship and wanted to take it slow as just got out of one, the more I have gotten to know him the more I have fallen for him but he doesnt know this.
I asked him the other day where is this going, he replied with where do u want this to go and I want a relationship but dont know if thats what u want.
I asked him to call me last night about this and he wanted to know if I want to see others or only him as its been playing on his mind. He apparently doesnt want to see others as is happy with how the situaton is.
Does this sound like I have really got this guy and he really wants me as his girl or its nothing?

2007-06-26 19:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 and never had a g/f?
hey im 19 and iv never had a girlfriend its starting to really affect me that im not with somebody every girl i try to pick up either already has a bf or isnt interested and im starting to feel really lonely all the time and that i dont exist. for years whenever me and all my friends go out im always the one thats there alone there always with there bfs/gfs and it upsets me c ause i want that also the main reason why i want a gf so badly is so i can care for somebody and be there whenever she needs me and spoil her.

i dunno maybe its just bad luck or i havent met the right girl yet or girls just dont find me attractive

2007-06-26 19:26:14 · 20 answers · asked by whattooodooo 1

i met this guy whom i really like and he really seems into me but he keeps sending me mixed signals, when we first started seeing eachother he told me go with the flow and not get serious, then he calls and wants to hang out everyday, he also wants to know where we stand (when he was just telling me not to label and make it serious), makes comments like well one of us has to be smart so are children arent retarded, then the same day he sits at home watching a movie by himself and doesnt invite me over, is there somthing im not getting its one extreme or another is he scared of getting hurt?

2007-06-26 19:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal? I've never felt a connection like this over an internet relationship.

2007-06-26 19:20:19 · 17 answers · asked by Rain. 6

i have a younger sister who is 16 almost 17, and she is afraid of everything that comes near dating. her last relationship was a few years ago and lasted almost 4 months. she wouldnt kiss, hug, or hold his hand or anything like that. they would go on dates though. shes afraid of commitment, dating, growing old and alone, kissing, making out, hugging, sex, just anything and everything in that general area. i dont know what to tell her.what could be wrong and what should i tell her? also she likes a few guys, and she like getting attention from them. but when it comes to dating, she avoids it and makes up excuses that she cant.

2007-06-26 19:20:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what's your take on this?

2007-06-26 19:20:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my current girl riend lied about everything ing the beginning and its been 2 yeays now she has told the truth about it all i still don't trust her at all am i wrong

2007-06-26 19:16:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have dated since we were 14 and i'm 20 now.. i love him so much but i get mad a lot- i dont know if its me and i'm wrong or if i have a right to be mad he says i need to calm down and stop getting mad all the time over nothing... “examples“ he promised to spend time with me today after being with his friends he was with them for 8 hours n graced me with 10 min to say goodnight.. we went to the movies and it was my turn to pick he decided he didnt wanna watch the movie i wanted to see and got two tickets for some dump movie that sucked.. on the way back home it was raining n we were stuck driving behind an idiot he decides to pass him going over a hill i told him not to cause its raining n u really cant see n he just did it anyway- i was mad cause what if something happened n he was mad cause he said "nothing happened" dont get me wrong he is a wonderful guy n would give me the world he just has been having his jerk moments- so am i over reacting? Am i right or being a b@#?

2007-06-26 19:09:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my girlfriend says she was drunk and some guy raped her.....what do you consider rape?..cuz honestly i consider it cheating.....she says she was drunk and she didnt know what was going on ......she says she didnt enjoy it........she wont tell me who it is....i think its a friend of hers.....what should i do?

2007-06-26 18:50:54 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years We have had a rough couple of weeks since I returned from 3 months of studying abroad. He recently told me that he never wants to have a family. I told him that I do want to have a family when I get older and that it is very important to me. Is it too early to be thinking about these things? I know I'm young but I have always thought I would have a family someday. I love him very much and we've even talked about getting married someday. I don't understand why he changed his mind. He thinks that he would be a bad parent and couldn't balance it. He is the most organized person I know and is wonderful with kids. He actually used to tell me he wanted a family until recently. I am afraid I will find out 10-15 years later that he doesn't want a family and I will be left unhappy without a family. Is it more important- having a family or being with someone you love? Should I break up with him over this?

2007-06-26 18:50:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 18:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i really like this guy.. and im pretty usre hes at least INTERESTED. he was at least. then the trip happened. i hate camping. he was totally fine the first day, then a slut got into his mind, and that was over. but is it over? should i continue pursuing this?? cuz the slut thing wont work out.. shes way to easy. what should the hell should i do? wait and see what happens OR just STOP?

2007-06-26 18:35:13 · 6 answers · asked by theresa 1

i live in australia. i'm 17 years old and i was repetitively raped by my ex-boyfriend (20) for five months. i was ashamed and terrified and i thought i was in love until i met another guy (18) who convinced me to ditch him, tell my family and friends, and call social services and the cops. now that i've done all that i don't know whether to take him to court. my friend said he'd probably get off since the court would probably drop charges because it would be really hard to prove i didn't consent. my dad set up a hidden audio video system in my bedroom and recorded two of the times when i was raped and the sperm samples i took afterward prove the sex was forced but my friend said the court could consider that 'entrapment' and acquit him. i want my rapist to get the maximum but i'm so ****ing scared that after all this he'll just walk! what should i do?

2007-06-26 18:34:34 · 20 answers · asked by His Highness The Asker 1

I'm 26 years old and am completely independent. I have a boyfriend that i have been with for 7 years. I have a career and work a second job. He has a career where he makes the same amount as my career. I bought a house for us, i pay every bill, and i keep up the house(i haven't been on a vaca in 2 years, since i bought the house). I give him massages when he gets off of work and i always ask him if he needs anything in which i will provide. I never get a cent from him, i also don't ask. All i want from him is commitment, he still pays his sister to live at their apt. (sometime he sleeps there) It's been 7 years and there is nothing else i can give him. Why won't he move in (officially)? why won't he propose to me? Why won't he help me financially? What would you do after 7 years and your partner will not make a decision?

2007-06-26 18:30:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...

how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???

(In person or on the telephone)???

Thanks.....

2007-06-26 18:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by John A 1

2007-06-26 18:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by joyce yoon 1

So there is this guy. ive known him since i was 5, im 16 now and hes 17. we didnt talk for 6 years because i moved. but then because of a wonderful think called myspace we started talking again about a month ago. we havent hung out yet but we are planning on it. i like him and he likes me back, but he still has a gf. i know he wants to hook up, but i wont do anything sexual, just make out. my question is whether it is okay that we are hanging out even without hooking up.

2007-06-26 18:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by ellie rae 09 1

I've been dating my gf for 11 months (I broke up with her for a month because she was completely ignoring me and I thought she didnt care but she was so heartbroken or at least she acted like it that i realized she did care, so I went out with her again and forgot that she ignored me) now she keeps ignoring me and I only get to talk to her once every two weeks because (she insists) important things keep her from talking to me, and I keep believing her.I love her, but if she cares enough to get that hurt when I broke up w/ her, then why doesnt she talk to me? I want to break up with her but I dont want to break her heart, because I really do believe she cares. I'm so confused...

2007-06-26 18:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by hlotavin 2

this really shy girl (but hott) knows that i like her. she looks at me a lot. are any of the following telltale signs that she is into me and not just flattered/lookin4attention:

-one time i caught her staring at me, then she looked away and started smiling when caught
-she knew where i was, turned around and looked at me, and the eye contact was very intense.

do you think that i can put it in the textbook that she likes me?

2007-06-26 18:15:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, so I have this guy friend I like and I wasn't sure if he liked me so (first mistake) I told him i liked him. His answer was 'ok whatever' (this was over text messaging, and was my second mistake) then, because bad things come in threes, i ended up making the mistake (thats three!) of asking him what that meant (even though i was 99% sure what that meant, i mean duh) and he answered "well, life goes on and yeah" (again over texts) so now i don't have the nerve to text him again just to chat, even though thats how we became friends in the first place, just talking nonstop over texting, and then at school all the time (so much that people think we're dating adn ask all the time, because we're always together!) and I haven't talked to him in about a week, because I feel like because he knows I like him, we won't be able to have a real conversation....thoughts?! Would a guy even think this complicatedly?! Anyway, thoughts and advice? Help, please?!

2007-06-26 18:11:08 · 6 answers · asked by cambrexia 4