Singles & Dating - 26 June 2007

I said that i didnt want to just yet because i'm not ready and i'm not even on the pill..and he said that it's okay and he understands and he was like 'really since its you i would wait forever for you' , and i was like awe hes so sweet he does care.. but i know he wants to and we both love each other but im a virgin and im pretty sure he is too.. he asked when i think im gonna be on the pill and i said i dont know, cuz i dont know.. lol me talking to my mom about that makes things right weird.

this is my first time with this kinda stuff..what if soon we were to do this with no pill but a condom??
i just really now changed my mind after he said that to me for some reason
.. ADVICE? also we are 16/17 which i don't think matters that much... also we have almost done it several times,, so like next time i don't know what to do?

2007-06-26 03:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for many mos now. We seem to have the perfect relationship. Long story short, I found out that while I was on vacation his ex bought a ticket and flew down to see him for 4 days. He swears that he never had sex with her. He says he wouldnt have anyway(sure) but that she was on her period. She says that they did have sex once, the first day. He has sworn on everything important..his life,his parents, my life he even said that as a Marine he swears he never had sex with her. He said that he is willing to take any tests to prove he didnt. To show me how much he loved and trusted me he gave me a key to his apt and called her in front of me at 3am to tell her that it was a mistake that she came down and not to do it again. The other issue is even if they didnt have sex, she still was here for 4 days,he said that she kissed him and he didnt stop her. He told me he is inlove with me and could marry me and so scared of losing me. Im in love with him.Im so Confused

2007-06-26 02:58:33 · 32 answers · asked by paisley 1

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2007-06-26 02:57:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to buy nice lingerie when I was with my boyfriend, but he wasn't into it at all and said it was a waste of money. One time, on holiday, I bought a lovely little two piece, and pranced infront of him, but ended up sat down next to him while he watched Sky Sports News and got stoned. I ended up texting my best friend feeling like a failure that I hadn't looked enticing enough. I'm slim, and have a good figure.

He said (when we got home and I asked him) that he'd rather me naked than in something sexy.

Is this normal? I don't know wether to bother with the next one... I thought guys liked things like that?

2007-06-26 02:42:16 · 38 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

Should you believe a man who you've known for seven years and who suddenly comes back into your life and tells you that he's ready to commit to you?

2007-06-26 02:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by nc 3

From watching porn i've seen that quite a lot of black guys are 11,12,13 inches long!

do you pick black guys like that up off the street or are they just 1 in 100,000??

just curious how many black girls have taken 11 or 12 inches before and are black chicks built to take that much?

if so i would be put off from black chicks because I would think I couldn't satisfy them.

2007-06-26 02:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by aztekka07 1

I told a guy friend of mine that sometimes I wish I was the right girl for him. He responds by saying "well we live in different cities, I have done the long distance thing before and hated it." What should I do? I backed off and quit contacting him yet he still contacts me

2007-06-26 02:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

My boyfriend and I split up 4 weeks ago and he came down at the weekend for a visit and to help me fix the shed roof. We had the best weekend we've had for a long time.

On the Sunday we were having a real heart to heart, I asked him to stay another night and he just said yes. He then told me he'd wanted to stay but he wouldn't have asked me, what's that about? On the Monday I got the feeling he wanted to stay longer, he's on holiday, and he fought against what he wanted and left. He later admitted he'd wanted to stay longer, and he may even be coming back down later in the week.

But my question is why do men do that? It's very obvious he wants to spend time with me and yet he's ignoring his feelings. It's also very obvious there's more than just friendship between us and again he is fighting it. I actually think if he just went with what he wanted we'd be back together. No one looks at you the way he looked at me unless they really love you.

2007-06-26 02:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy thats on my tennis team and i dont know if he likes me or not? here are some of the things that have made me thinnk he likes me.

1. told me i had pretty eyes
2. drew a picture of me.
3. I heard one girl ask someone else who he likes and that person wouldnt say so she just gave the other girl hints and the hint was he either liked me or two other girls.
4. another guy that was always on the tennis team that has liked me since 5th grade made sure we werent near each other. and if we were he was right there.
5. he was attempting to talk to me but couldnt cause of the guy who likes me.

2007-06-26 02:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by Morgan A 3

I'm 20 and never dated. I'm very depressed about this. I'm shy and not aggressive. How do I approach a girl I dont know? How do I make a move? How do I get what I want (a girlfriend) without appearing rude? I dont know why anyone would go out with me. Am I hopeless? I feel like everyone else can do this effortlessly and I never learned this and have passed the time to learn. I'm expected to know how to be suave with women and I have no idea. I'm nice to women and I dont want to bother them. Am I a loser?

2007-06-26 02:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by jblack988 1

After every 5 hours of operation check the adjustment of the mixture screw by rotating screw clockwise until seated and then rotate screw 4½ turns back counterclockwise.

********dose the above mean four 'HALF turns or for and a half turns

2007-06-26 02:09:27 · 2 answers · asked by James E 1

I enjoy going out to clubs or bars only on weekends because during the weekday I am busying throughout my work day. I work from 6:30am up until 5pm for 5 days a week so that leaves no room to enjoy my week. Im from the states but stationed in Germany for a few years. Other activivies I play on a community basketball team, I watch movies, and like to sleep when nothing else is going on.

2007-06-26 02:07:24 · 20 answers · asked by Femme 1

theres this guy I still have feelings for and hes 20 n im 17.we were together about 7 mnths ago and I miss him like crazy and want him back but hes really hard headed and never thinks about the things he does.and on the othe hand his 15 yr old cousin likes me alot alot.I wanna get back with him more then anything!HELP me figure out waht I should say to im!remember we havent talked in over 5 months!thanks alot

2007-06-26 02:00:51 · 8 answers · asked by imhiscindarella 1

I told a guy friend of mine that sometimes I wish I was the right girl for him. He responds by saying "well we live in different cities, I have done the long distance thing before and hated it." What should I do? I backed off and quit contacting him yet he still contacts me

2007-06-26 01:57:47 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

2007-06-26 01:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by Femme 1

Explain how it was and how it ended

2007-06-26 01:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Femme 1

I'm in a living situation with my mom who is disabled. She is divorced and I am single, never married. Until one of us has a life change we live together because we enjoy one another and I help her. I am intelligent, cute, outgoing, fun and have many great qualities, no trouble getting men interested in me. Problem is that my mom is extremely conservative about men & women- she doesn't think that two people who make a date from the internet should even meet for drinks together (b/c that's drinking with a stranger, very bad according to her). It seems like drinks is the common way people first meet up from the internet--you know who forbid me meeting for dinner with someone (a stranger)- In her book that equals major romance- well not in today's world and she doesn't get it that it dinner is a common first date!
She says that she won't live with someone who does internet dating. I'm stuck, because if I do it, it will bring an all out war and she will cut me out of her life. Advice ?

2007-06-26 01:44:02 · 17 answers · asked by tiger1 1

whick part should i attack back on him?

2007-06-26 01:30:42 · 11 answers · asked by moonrider 6

My girlfriend is slowly gaining weight. I don't like it. She has gained 50 pounds over two years. I have told her a few times we need to work out together and we need to get in shape together but she is not improving, she is getting worse. What do I do?

2007-06-26 01:27:19 · 28 answers · asked by HoboJones 3

2007-06-26 01:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like one guy from the uni, he's one year older than me, and he's on another faculty. as far as i understood he's a very shy one. we don't know each other. i've noticed him only because i thought he noticed me. he usually tried to be around me, and watches me. especially when we were at the canteen, he sat with his mates silent and watched me. He sometimes feels uncomfortable when he looks at me, coz it's hard for him to look subtle coz of his height. we have one coomon friend, but he only says hi to him, nothing more. and i'm not THAT close with that other guy to ask him to introduce us.
DO U THINK HE LIKES ME?

2007-06-26 00:51:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 00:41:19 · 23 answers · asked by Invincible! 3

So, how do I make sure this guy I am gonna marry is agreeable to my condition?

Indian people act like your a freak for not having a baby as soon as a man is secured, but glare longingly when they hear about your recent trip to Rome or amazing new sex, or night out with the girls--or the promotion, or new degree, or new painting you just finished, or the family member you flew to see- or when they see the smile on your face each day while they seethe over the husband who constantly cheats and how their teenager is stealing from their purse to buy their boyfriend clothes, or why didn't they go to college--considering the over population of the planet, the fact that 75% of people walking around are unplanned and /or unwanted, the fact that 50% of marriages end in divorce and 44% of men cheat---is breeding really all there is to a real life experience? sometimes you have to love your child enough not to have them----------------
So, how do I make sure this guy I am gonna marry is agreeable to my condition?

2007-06-26 00:38:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating this guy (well only twice in about a month) he doesn't call me but when I call him he will stay on the phone with me for at least a half hour to an hour. When we do get together we have so much fun together. i just feel like since he doesn't call me that maybe he is not thinking about me......

2007-06-26 00:37:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 00:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by Ghiacy 2

I mean seriously, I'm the kind of guy that gets girls heads turning but I never seem to find the right kind of girl to have a decent relationship. I know I am intelligent, kind, talented, attractive, funny, wealthy and everything the right girl looks for in a guy. But, for some reason, I just end up having a lot of beautiful female friends, but none I am able to go that extra inch to be more than just friends. I've been told it's because I am nice. Why is that a problem? After all, I'm the one they go to when their boyfriends treat them horribly. I take them out to dinner and a movie and I make them feel better. I tell them beautiful things about themselves. Is that why I don't get anywhere? Should I stop doing that? And I've also been told I should at least act like I'm a jerk so the ladies would think I'm attractive? What is the whole deal behind that? I don't want to do that because that would mean I'm just being fake. I hope someone can give me a good explanation.

2007-06-26 00:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by Joe T 3

I ended my relationship of 5 years 4 months ago. Since then he has not been bothered over the break up that much to ask me why or say he wants to get back. He has just gone out and drank and taken drugs and behaved like a child (he is 29) I left him as he was a bad drunk. The thing is that now I have moved on and been seen with a new man, he calls me crying saying he wants me back and he is devastated. he wasnt before, life was a big party without me until I started dating again. what is this about???

2007-06-26 00:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by Abigail 3