Singles & Dating - 22 June 2007

i need some help i love this girl with all my heart but she has a 1 year old boy now we went out before but then broke up cause we needed a brake but now i want her back cause i love her but now she has a kid and the father left her so wat do u i do how long do i wait untell i can ask her if she wants to go out again plus did i say that i was 17 and c we still talk to each other and i help her with her boy but i dont know if its the right time to ask her if she wants to go back out so this is y i'm posting this so if anybody can help please do

2007-06-22 23:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Chrais N 1

2007-06-22 23:59:41 · 26 answers · asked by abbs 3

iv been feeling quite low for quite a while now its like feeling unwanted no one will talk to me and I'm feeling unattractive and alone.

is there anything i can to to help myself?
i just want people to talk to really.

2007-06-22 23:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Nevermind 3

really like this girl and for a few weeks have been sending texts saying things like i miss you to each other and stuff and last night i went to a party at her house and we kissed and held hands most of the night but she said she didn't want to be in a relationship with me as she doesn't want to hurt me and loose me if it ends. (she said this before we kissed and stuff) anyways today i can tell something has changed she's being colder with me and i text her saying i miss you and she didnt reply and things i can just tell something aint right and i really like here but what should i do? we're going out tonight with a bunch of people and i dont know what to do when i see her, i have a feeling she aint gonna be holding my hand and stuff like last night, please help me what shud i do tonight? or just in general?

2007-06-22 23:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by Nicola 1

I have a boyfriend i met online and we've been together for 3 years already. But I have never met him yet. Although our relationship is going really well and we do love each other so much. Until now we still don't know how to meet because I don't have a visa and my parents wont let me go there. His parents won't let him go here either.He lives in Australia and I live in the Philippines. I don't have a visa and my parents wont let me go there. His parents won't let him go here either. Our only hope is to meet after graduating college but we still have years before that happens. HELP!

2007-06-22 23:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by farhorizon 2

2007-06-22 23:56:34 · 27 answers · asked by abbs 3

2007-06-22 23:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

2007-06-22 23:50:34 · 6 answers · asked by bluegoldwing@verizon.net 1

Ok, I will try to make this short and to the point.....I am in the final process of my divorce and as many who have gone through this hell on Earth, it has made me take complete stock of my life and the people in it. During this process I have realized that I am in love with the my best female friend of 11 years. Its not much of a realization as I have known this for a long time but because of the way our lives have unfolded I never acted on it. I have always played it off and I really think that she would be shocked if I were to tell her. She lives 3 hours from me and has an incredible life where she lives and I am unable to move due to my family and job. We are often in contact with each other (not as frequent as I would like) So the question is should I take a chance on letting her know how I feel? I f so how do I do it?

2007-06-22 23:42:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're both 17.

in april i spent 1 month in germany. i met this guy there. he is so nice. we spent like everyday together and i suppose we starting going out, even if it wasn't for long. i really really like him. so it's been like 2 months and we still keep in touch. we'd call eachother everyday and talk forever and i still love it.

even though i still really really like him soooo much, is there any point in continuing this? even if we did come to see eachother it'd be like once a year. should i just stop and move on? because sometimes it really hurts and in the end, is it worth it?

his english is perfect, his dad is american. so, there's no problem there.

2007-06-22 23:30:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-22 23:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by michael e 1

I've liked a guy for ages at dancing lessons..lately he has been giving me heaps of attention(hugging me, hi-fiving me, asking me to dance heaps)...my best friend likes him too and dicided to tell him she likes him..So she did..He said that he didn't like her and that he likes a girl at his school...I didn't hear this and dicided that I would get one of my friends to tell him that I like him...Then he started ignoring me and not talking to me...then, I found out what he had said to my friend that likes him too..I was mortified and didn't know what to do, so i ignored him too..Now he's on a four week holiday...do you think he was lying to mey friend that likes him about him liking a girl at his school and likes me, or likes the girl at his school? i'm so confused and love him so much! please help! =(

2007-06-22 23:14:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-22 22:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean, is it normal? me and my ex didn't end up in good terms.

is my reaction just normal? because I really feel depressed.

I want to call my ex after over a year of not communicating with him just to see if he's doing fine, and let him know how much I care about him... should I do it?

we didn't end up nicely... I said so many hurtful and damaging things to him... I feel terrible...

2007-06-22 22:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never ever have the guts to go up and talk to her, Like today I was at dimple records and I saw this girl that I found fairly attractive. I know me and her would of had a few things in common since she liked music and video games since she was browsing through those section. I kept looking at her, hoping she would notice my existence. When I looked at her, she looked at me a few times, but didn't seem very flattered about it or anything, also didn't smile about it. She also didn't tell her friend.

Sometimes when I stare at girls, I get a much better reaction of them, they would smile and laugh and also tell her friends that the handsome dude(which would be me) is looking at them

But I never ever have the guts to actually go up and talk to them, I get so nervous and when im nervous I stutter like crazy and don't pronounce my words right, making me hard to understand,

So anyway, back with the girl I saw at dimple today, I really wanted to go up and talk to her but had no idea how to approah her. I don't know if the signs she was giving me were good or bad. When I looked at her, sometimes she would glance back, not much of an expression, probably more like "huh? why is this guy looking at me?" or maybe she suspected that I fancy her but didn't care that much..

But now, its too late, she is gone out of my life forever. But I need to know how I can approah someone inside of dimple records or at the mall or anywhere in general.

2007-06-22 22:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1

it was a quickie haha so not an ideal first time but he said he enjoyed it very much a couple of times but when i asked for details today he said he didnt want to talk about right then. he instead wanted to talk to me about how he wanted to get buff and quit smoking (please see my other posts if ur confused). how come he doesnt want to talk about it? this is the first man ive slept with that doesnt want to. did he not enjoy it?

2007-06-22 21:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im from Russia
My friend went to USA for work and studing. He is a Christian

He wrote me that there are a lot of perversion and crazy things in USA.

Loads of masturbationists, and onanism became socially acceptable !!! 95% masturbate (but no one like to work hard)!!!
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SO I WANNA ASK YOU, WHY IS IT BETTER FOR YOU TO MASTURBATE THEN TO WORK???
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Children in 12-14 have sex !! But crasy thing - if a guy is 22 (was virgin before), and a girl is 16 (had 1 sex in 13, had tons of partners, so she is more than mature in that stuff), he will BE PREASONED FOR STATUTORY RAPE !!!

Homos advertise their sick sins !!!
My friend studies IN CHRISTIAN UNIVERSITY, AND HOMOS CAME TO THE TERRITORY OF UNIVERSITY AND TRY TO PERSUADE STUDENTS TO ATTEMPT HOMOSEXUAL SEX!!!
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WHY CRISTIANS DO NOT MAKE EFFORTS TO PROHIBIT (BY LAW) THE ADVERTISING OF HOMOSEXUALISM???

WHY THEY DO NOT MAKE LOBBY IN PARLIAMENT LIKE DAMNED HOMOS DO ?

2007-06-22 21:50:00 · 11 answers · asked by larsen R 1

Ex is now in prision for murder, had used drugs, alcohol, broke into houses to feed habit. Cheated on me, had a baby with other woman, right after I had a hysterectomy, and the list goes on and on. So I have not even dated in the four years sense the divorce, I now think I am ready to date, but I don't even want to deal with anyone who drinks (at all) and drug use is a deal breaker, the other stuff I know that I need to have some kind of way to compromise. HELP! I really do not want to be alone the rest of my life

2007-06-22 21:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by booper 3

2007-06-22 21:31:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl is interested in sex and sex alone with you, and you were the only person she's ever slept with, would you write her off as a whore/slut/skank or whatever or would you understand that girls want it too?

2007-06-22 21:26:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl I used to like have broken me and I stop talking to her for about 8 months. Things been great without talking to her until one day she ask me this question and it was " Was everything you said in the past, was it true?" I answered back with a question "What do you mean? What part of everything do you mean?" She said "you know" I said "No, I don't know." She said "Never mind." Then after she said she left.
Days have past and I ask her "What do you mean by that question you ask?" She didn't respond to me and I got upset and left her. After that I haven't talked to her since.
Now I'm wondering if I should ask her again even though it have been months since she ask that question.

2007-06-22 21:25:30 · 12 answers · asked by Berties 3

2007-06-22 21:24:23 · 18 answers · asked by Ali 3

So my best friend has this cousin. We have been friends, but I saw him recently after a long time. Long story short, we really connected. He started telling all of his friends he liked and I was the best thing in his life tc. etc. (but keep in mind we are not going out). So my friend asks him if he was gonna ask me out and he was like totally, yeah. So I was told by many people to text him, which I did. He didn't text back. and a week later he said Don't talk to me. However, he is still saying all this stuff about me I mentioned before, and is still planning on asking me out......
Oh yes I forgot.....
he went out with another friend of mine and cheated )but after she cheated on him)
My friend who's cousin he is is worried he'll hurt me.
So what do you think?

2007-06-22 21:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by /\/@/\/@ 1

I had an arguement with my lover about us having sex. She is very demanding and likes to try new things, We tried food on her body and she got a nurse uniform and I was happy with all that. But sometimes she just wants too much and I think she does it to push me. She keeps talking during it and likes to tell me what i am doing like she is my boss.

2007-06-22 21:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i'm in love with a girl that is in the worst relationship ever, her fat coke head boyfriend he hits her, controls her life, he pulled a gun on her, and yes he has even tried to rape her. Her family knows but they turned their backs to the situation. He pays her bills and her dad stays with them so if she leaves they both will be homeless. So right now she is in bed with him and i'm here thinking about her, i wish she was in my bed but i go to college and stay with my parents and she could stay with me but not her father and she wont leave her father. So tomorrow i will talk to her all day while shes at work and then around 4:30 she will tell me that she loves me and she will talk to me tomorrow because she has to go through her phone and delete my text messages and phone number because he goes through her phone when she gets home and if there is a number he doesnt know even if it was just a wrong number he will hit her. and i will spend the whole night thinking of her.

2007-06-22 21:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just lost my girlfriend whom i love like no other. I was going to ask her to marry me in two weeks. But she ended it. My mom wants me to die and has wanted me to die ever since i started thinking for myself because i cost her money. And even though i have two jobs and work my *** off she still wants me dead. I have an abusive/alchoholic stepfather that likes to get drunk and come home and beat me till i can barley breathe. I have no postivley suppportive friends and i am completly alone in life. I have nothing to live for plain and simple.

2007-06-22 21:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this girl for a couple months. Me and this her have been off and on for a while but no matter what happens we can't get over eachother. I'm always thinking about her and have never cared for someone this much before.

Is it really love or am I to young?

2007-06-22 20:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We met on myspace. The situation is that I'm 18, and pretty much in love with this girl. She lives in California, and I live in Las Vegas. Main issue right there i suppose. We are very good friends, and we talk on the phone everyday. She knows how i feel about her. But she doesn't feel the same way, at least not completely. She says that she can see herself with me, but just not now. Her past relationships haven't been all that great and as for me, I have not really had the pleasure to have a relationship yet. She told me 3 months ago that we would only be just good friends. Afterwards, she got into a relationship, and we didn't talk 4 a while. It ended badly, we started talking again, and now she says she is starting to develop feelings for me. I feel like im close to being with her but i don't know. I really do care for her. But i have distance, her not knowing when she wants to be with me and reality working against me.Is it possible this can actually work out for me, or us

2007-06-22 20:58:36 · 2 answers · asked by brandon_mcduff 2

some people i know really care about having only a few partners who they've shared their bodies with. however, some other people i know have been safe and have had many partners. they just see it as recreational. what do you think?

2007-06-22 20:57:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Quick history. My girlfriend and her kid have been living with me for a few months. Her sister moved in a couple months ago. We have been having an affair ever since. I love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her but I have also developed feelings for her sister. I have had alot of affairs in past relationships and I was open and honest about that with my girlfriend after we were dating for awile. I told her I wasn't sure it was a good idea for her sister to live with us and that I was afraid I would fall into to old bad habits. She said she trusted me and all was good. Well here we are two months later and my life is more complicated that ever. What do I do? Part of me wants to come clean and ask them both to be my lovers but I don't think my girlfriend will be cool with that. I think her sister would be down with that arangement. Should I go for it and hope for the best?

2007-06-22 20:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous