Singles & Dating - 22 June 2007

My bf and I are getting married in less then 5 weeks. When we first started dating we told each other how many people we were with before we got together, he has only been with a handful, where I have been with triple more then him if not a bit more. I am not a slu* or anything, he is just very shy, and I have always been popular and have always had a bf. I was also younger then as well, so I started before him. We have been together for almost 8 years, 2 children later, should I come clean before the wedding or just never say anything. If I say nothing he would never know, but I don't know if I should come clean or not? Please HELP!!!!!!!

2007-06-22 06:39:00 · 14 answers · asked by Erin 2

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2007-06-22 06:18:54 · 7 answers · asked by LindseyVegas , duh ! =) 1

The girl I have dated for the past 4 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, she said she wanted to stay friends and all. But latley I get the feeling her boyfriend is telling her not to talk to me, because all of a sudden she won't answer my calls, emails of myspace messeges. She won't even look at me when she is around me, she just...avoids me... What the heck is going on, is she just pulling away, or what is it?

2007-06-22 06:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by Indian Boy 2

I am 15 and my gf is 16, we are going to have sex, first time for both of us, i want to make it special, like you know condom and stuff so it wont hurt her as much, any ideas or suggestions or tips?

2007-06-22 06:07:22 · 16 answers · asked by A R 1

I'm a really shy and down to earth person , i have a crush with a guy from my class since november. He talked to me and made copliments for my appearence quite often. I was confusedbecause he was probably seeing me only as a friend and the last day of school i diid sth irrationaly mad i told him my feelings and i left without waitimg for his reaction. Now it is holiday and i don't see him. Was it wrong ? Will he make fun of me ? What can i do? I don't want him to feel sorry for me ....

2007-06-22 06:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by ....................... 7

I've been involved with my boyfriend for about 17 months now, and my mother will NOT back off. I had to go through a very serious personal experience, and ever since then, my mom has been talking my boyfriend down, saying that I need something better,etc., etc. Now if this were anyone else, I'd be like forget you, I love him, but it's my mother and I have to have her approval. So I'm just so confused. What should I say to her? How can I say it without totally dismissing her opinion? How can I get my boyfriend to stop hating her for doing this to him? Help!

2007-06-22 05:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by vickirocks37 1

Is it wrong for me to want my friend to move in with me? I have dated him for 7 years off and on and he was living with his son mother, but for some odd reason we kept coming back together. He just recently moved out off her house and I belive that she asked him to move out and he's been at his mom's house. He's been over to stay the night but that's all and he said that he wants to come everyday but he hasn't. Is there something that I can do to change things? What should I do? I need real advice like a brother type of advice!! Thanx!

2007-06-22 05:21:01 · 13 answers · asked by sweet p 3

Haha, I'm just curious ;)

2007-06-22 05:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by Kahsee 2

what part of the human body turns you on when u see it or touch it. for me its nipples guys or girls i love them all and they turn me on

2007-06-22 05:14:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my ex bf went out with my best friend and then he went out with this slut and is still going out with her i dont get why boys would like such a sluty girl

2007-06-22 05:12:21 · 41 answers · asked by Br☺☺ke 2

can you forgive after you've been cheated on? or is it just going to happen again and break your heart?

2007-06-22 05:04:56 · 36 answers · asked by almost17 2

My ex cheated/abruptly ditched me. (We really had a great close thing for along time, (obviously not close enough!), I was the longest relationship she's ever had and we had big plans, but she got weak and fell back to the old guy that she admits she had a 4-yr breakup/makeup, toxic, addictive, unhealthy relationship with and just can't get out of her head.) One day, she just went from waking up next to me to stuck back in the old slump again. Just ran off on me.

She's a stubborn, stubborn type and will never admit to being wrong. She wouldn't even talk to me to say good-bye (probably a little guilt and not wanting to admit she was wrong there). It's been 2 months. She's still with the guy and of course, as far as everyone will ever see from her "everything's going just fine".

I don't talk to her beyond the "hey can I get my jacket back?" She will call now or text with just stale, unnecessary things every week or so. "Hey, thank you for my earrings back." (I didn't plan on ...

2007-06-22 04:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by rlfesty 3

Should I call him? Or just forget it...or am I just overreacting?
if a guy you have been talking to asked you to call him later first, but since you are tired of calling him all the time...you tell him to call you later instead. what does it mean if he hasn't called you in a week even though he told you, " yeah, you are a very attractive girl." after asking him if he even likes you?

i stopped calling b/c he told me he was talking to two other girls b4 he started to hang out with me. i was mad about this. do i have a right to be mad? or am i overreacting b/c we were not exclusive. i want to call him, but if i do, then he wins. what do you guys think?

this past weekend I sent him a msg on myspace that said "someone is too busy to say 'hi'. can we say 'whore?" and he wrote me a msg that said 'hi'. i commented him back by saying "smart ***".


yesterday I finally called him and played it cool, as if I didn't even remember what our last convo was about. he asked where i have been and how come i have not called him in a while. I just told him i was busy and had things to do, which was true. i told him i got a new job and the only thing he really wanted to know was if i was talking to any guys and if so what their name was. i mentioned i got a new car and he suggested i come over to his house sometime after work during this week. I told him if i have nothing to do and if im up for it. Am i doing the right thing by still talking to him?

2007-06-22 04:52:26 · 17 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2

2007-06-22 04:43:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is really attracted to me and always seems to want to spend the days "together" in bed, etc. She is a great person and is there whenever I need her. A lot of times she's just suddenly "in the mood" when she comes near me, and it's great. The intimate times are a total thrill...she seems to get very loud and "vocal" with enjoyment every time. We really care about each other, but I can't stand being with someone under false pretenses...I HATE having a skeleton in my closet and I hate to feel I've manipulated a girl, so.......

..should I come clean? What I mean is:

.....should I confess to her that I use Axe body spray for men and Herbal Essences shampoo?

2007-06-22 04:25:21 · 18 answers · asked by rlfesty 3

Am I wrong. I'd never cheat or even let it get to that possibility. But occassional flirting when I'm at school is fun for me. I guess I'd be considered a tease in that regard, but is it normal to like that attention or should I avoid it???

Thanks everyone. :)

2007-06-22 04:19:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do with my bf that is free or less than £5 for the 2 of us. that involes being out the house. only problem is we dont have any parks or nice areas to walk round that is safe so dont suggest taking a walk or picnic in the park

2007-06-22 04:16:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm getting married in 6 weeks. my whole life i've always looked at my boyfriend as though there will never be a permanent fix in my life. i think i must have that ingrained in my head pretty deep cuz with my fiance, i sometimes forget that this is for good. he's the one i;m going to grow old with and it's scary sometimes.
sometimes when we fight, i find myself thinking "that's ok. it's not like he'll be around forever." and i'll catch myself thinking that and it shocks me why i think that still towards a man i'm about to marry.
what's wrong w/ me? am i thinking like this is 'cuz i've had this way of thinking for over 15 years of my dating life? or am i thinking this way is cuz he's not the one for me? but i know i love him more than life itself? i really do.
i'm confused???

serious answers only please

2007-06-22 04:15:34 · 6 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3

This guy I have been dating for 3 months and I like very much banks probably $500 a month after paying his rent. So after food transportation expense, he doesn’t have much. He is foreign and he doesn’t have debt but he doesn’t really have any assets either like house or car or savings of any kind. I’m frugal but I do make good money and I want to do normal stuff like a movie or dinner once a week. I didn’t grow up rich so it’s normal for me to find fun things that are cheap but he mentioned “our going out to restaurants and him paying each time” the other day and it made me really upset because the last time we went out to eat was a month ago and I just got a Cesar salad (not because of money, that’s the only thing I wanted)

2007-06-22 04:13:21 · 22 answers · asked by simplegirl 2

The sun is still not shining, so fed up with mundane chores, lonely ,got no money need a laugh, any ideas

2007-06-22 04:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by CAT7JUBILEE 1

Since I'm giving up on women, I just want to know what went wrong and what do I do from this point? How can I live knowing my lovelife is a failure? No rude comments, please. I'm already suicidal as it is. Be humane!

I don't get it sometimes. I feel every single woman on this planet would want me as a boyfriend, but women can not appreciate me or see that I am the perfect boyfriend because my face is the ugliest face on this planet. I would be perfect any woman. Here are the reasons why every woman on this planet would want me as a boyfriend:

-I'd serve breakfast in bed every morning.
-I'd give foot rubs before going to bed.
-I'd cook whatever a woman wanted for dinner.
-When I go out shopping I'd buy a girl whatever she wants.
-I'd grow a rose garden so I will always have a rose to give.
-I would offer a box of chocolates every time a woman wanted chocolate. I would make sure the box of chocolates was always full.
-I'd write at least one love poem for a woman every day.

2007-06-22 04:11:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have any stong morals for yourself that someone else doesnt quite agree with?
Do you have standards set for yourself when it comes to your relationship and the decisions made?
Such as; I am 17 and I have never tried any sort of alcohol, drugs, smoked, and I am still a virgin. I believe strongly in waiting until after marriage. I dont care what other people say about what I believe because I have confidence in making the right choices I have set for myself.
What about you?

2007-06-22 04:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my locker and one of my best guy friends came behind me and yelled that through the rush of people.....so I don't know what to think....if he meant that as "I like you as a friend" or more than that......he does flirt with me a lot but still I'm not sure what he meant by it

2007-06-22 04:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by problem_girl 3

2007-06-22 04:08:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any really free dating sites out there. Very bored older single parent cannot afford over priced fees

2007-06-22 04:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by CAT7JUBILEE 1

This guy in my college went to visit is family in China over 6 months ago. (He's never had a girlfriend before.) He was shy, but I could really tell he liked me by his actions. He always stared, smiled, looked me in the eye, was sincere, teased me, etc. (but often looked shy when coming by me).

I gave him my number for him to call after his trip since I've been wanting to know what China is like (since my grandparents are from there.) This seemed to break the ice when I gave him by number. He excitingly said he'd call to tell me all about it. He never did.

Can I assume he lost interest over time or met someone in China? or just too shy? or maybe never knew that I really liked him?

2007-06-22 04:05:39 · 11 answers · asked by china doll d 1

What's one way to tell if your on myspace if yout talkinn to a rapist or if your talkin to the real deal. I know its probably hard to tell but what might be one way?

2007-06-22 03:59:33 · 18 answers · asked by badluckhaunting 1

my boyfriend is turning 17, and i have been with him for a very long time and i have no idea what to buy him anymore? any ideas?

2007-06-22 03:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by ericarivera19 1

ok i work with this guy who is a lot older than me I'm 18 and he's 35 i look a lot older and he looks a lot younger I think something will end up happening but if it did it would just be a one of thing is there to much of an age gap...We somtimes work together on a farm and he is one of those rugged good looking types...? i know it is just lust i think its the same for him as well so here are no crossed wires! deep down i know he is to old for me bu i just want him thats not wrong is it???

2007-06-22 03:54:00 · 32 answers · asked by %getupkids% 2

well this guy keeps on telling me he has strong feelings for me ,likes me aa fair bit ,what does he mean ?

2007-06-22 03:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous