Do you have any stong morals for yourself that someone else doesnt quite agree with?
Do you have standards set for yourself when it comes to your relationship and the decisions made?
Such as; I am 17 and I have never tried any sort of alcohol, drugs, smoked, and I am still a virgin. I believe strongly in waiting until after marriage. I dont care what other people say about what I believe because I have confidence in making the right choices I have set for myself.
What about you?
2007-06-22 04:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm very serious about remaining a virgin until marriage...I was raised that way, but as I got older, I took it upon myself to make it a voluntary personal choice, and not JUST because I was raised that way...I'm happy with that choice...Lots of guys respect me for it, but it's a catch 22 because they don't want to have anything to do with me romantically...lmao..but it's okay..I understand that a lot of guys can't deal with being a girl without having sex...it just means we're not meant to be with each other..lol...I'm not hard on myself, and by no means do I resent the guys for it...that's what's good about being comfortable with yourself! :) I'm a 20 year old virgin, and it's difficult finding a guy (especially being this old) who'll stick around, but waiting for the one who will, will be worth it...
Everybody's different and we make different choices...doesn't matter if they agree or disagree, as long as mutual respect is maintained!
I also won't be with a guy who does drugs...I have a zero-tolerance for that!...lol
Later! :)
2007-06-22 04:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - GOOD FOR YOU!!!! You have made a wise decision - probably the best you could ever make.
Secondly, I can't say that my morals are as strong standing as yours. I make exceptions every now and then when it comes to alcohol. And I have tried smoking a few times - can't stand the taste though. But, like you I also do not believe in sex until after marriage. I'm 21 - luckily my boyfriend has higher morals than mine so he keeps me in line.
2007-06-22 11:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track. Stick to your principals. You will not regret it.
A few of my life thoughts:
1.Don't put up with people that are disrespectful
2.Aim high, at least you will hit something
3.Only do things that your conscience can live with long term
4. Live so you have no regrets at the end of life
5.Live with as much love and kindness as possible
6.Always think of how what you are doing will affect other people
2007-06-22 11:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I have standards but they're more liberal I want a woman who has a brain in her head, who is funny and pleasurable to be around. I can wait for sex if she is a good woman, which I see all over the place getting stepped on by assholes and I wonder why... I digress, if she isnt into me then im not into the relationship.
2007-06-22 11:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me too =)
I’ve already gone pretty far by going behind my parent’s back, but I wouldn’t go as far as losing my virginity to sacking everything that I have learnt for the past 17 years of my life. I’ve told myself that I wont get too far into what’s become incase.. I go into relationship hoping for the best, but ALWAYS always expecting the worse, just so if anything happens, I wont be too disappointed. I don’t plan to “satisfy” anybody just so they’ll stay with me, if not, then too bad for them.. and I always make sure that I can give reason for my parents to trust me (besides this..) ahhh.. hypocrisy!
Lol =)
2007-06-22 11:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dating standards:
1) never date women that go to church or pray
2) Never have sex without a condom unless I know that she is fixed, or that I am ready to have a kid (which I never willl be)
3) No smokers
4) no druggies
5) no cats
6) no weak-willed, prissy, women
7) no women that don't like sarcastic humor
8) never cheat
9) never stay with anyone that cheats
10) never date anyone that is dating someone else
2007-06-22 11:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by timthinks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and I live with my boyfriend, and my goals in life are to be happy and do whatever it takes to get me there. I won't associate with people that don't support me or want me to be happy. It's made me realize who my real friends are, but it's also hurt me because those people who told me they love me and want me to be happy really don't care, and don't believe in me. But it's ok, my boyfriend loves me and wants me to be happy and i feel the same way about him. I don't care what other people think about us.
2007-06-22 11:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Roxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you! Mine are simple.. No abuse mentally or physically, no aggression, no cheating, no sly behavior (which means cheating) No drugs, no excessive drinking, unless im involved. No smokers as they FREAKIN STINK!
And he must love Pink Floyd.
2007-06-22 11:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in marriage before having babies. I wont marry someone who treats me bad - physically.
2007-06-22 11:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie 1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sex until marriage... and I'm 46 and single. And very happy, I might add.
2007-06-22 11:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋