I am 15 and my gf is 16, we are going to have sex, first time for both of us, i want to make it special, like you know condom and stuff so it wont hurt her as much, any ideas or suggestions or tips?
2007-06-22 06:07:22 · 16 answers · asked by A R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 15 and my gf is 16, we are going to have sex, first time for both of us, i want to make it special, like you know condom and stuff so it wont hurt her as much, any ideas or suggestions or tips?
forgot to include shes on the pill, so we have the pill and the condoms
2007-06-22 06:23:05 · update #1
my tip is to wait. i know you really want to have sex right now. But it'll be so much better to wait. Besides, your too young to accidently be a father, condoms do break...
2007-06-22 06:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time is painful and it might not feel that good but as time goes on it will get better. My advice is to wait but you probably won't so just be sure and wear a condom. Oh, and go easy because if it is the first time for the both of you, your gonna look like a couple of idiots because you won't know what your doing.
2007-06-22 13:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....here is some advice....you are only 15 years old...what is the rush???? You both should really re-think having sex. You both do not want to have any regrets. If you are still together when you are 18 then you should think about it. I do not understand why all you kids want to jump into bed with one another. You should wait for the right girl & like I said if you are still together when you are 18 then she probably is the right girl & you are the right guy!!
Remember there are alot of diease's out there that you do not want to have. Not saying that you could get HIV or AIDS! Also she could get pregrant!!!
Hope you re-think this before jumping in bed with one another.
Good Luck!!
2007-06-30 11:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by bortharris@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...my BF and I are in the same age situation...we've been together for a long time and really love each other...we do plan on marriage someday..but sex isn't something that should be rushed into. So what...you "think" ur ready...truth is ...ur not! my friends have before...and they have told me it ISN'T worth it! Yea..I've been told it hurts A LOT more than it is pleasurable. I think that you are being extremely immature about this whole situation! you are young! You have your whole lives in front of you to think about! What if you have a kid? U think that you are ready to be a father? Are you ready to take on that responsibility? You aren't even out of puberty yet! Not until 17 or more! sometimes...even 20! This is something that is a commitment! Something that means more than sex itself...it's what it can lead to. You need to re think this before you ruin your life and hers! Before you ruin your first times...and waste your youth. Don't make a stupid mistake...virginity doesn't come around again...so save yourself until you know you've found your one true love...b/c I doubt if u need sex to keep her...that u are in love.
2007-06-29 22:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Raspberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
condoms condoms condoms condoms lube condoms condoms condoms condoms condoms condoms condoms
now that i made that point
she's going to hurt regardless, just hold on to her and don't move...it will pass
may be rather painfull for you as well (think about trying to push your unit thru a brick wall) but after things moisten up it should be alright
don't expect to be a marathon man or for her to start screaming your name
a little manual help might be good for her too, especially if she isn't afraid to be on top (being on top also puts her in control if she's the nervous type)
edit: and like the guy two above me said, ure gonna look and feel stupid at some point, just laugh about it later and it's all good
2007-06-22 13:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex at 15 or 16 is not right if you get condoms it won't do anything don't tyr sex till your 17 and older and it will be fine
2007-06-22 13:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt like crazy anyway. Just go slooooooooooooow. Don't have high expectations, the first time is usually really uncoordinated and not that much fun.
2007-06-22 13:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by up a tree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest dont have sex. it will just cause u trouble..i think u dont want to be a young father. teenage life can be fun w/out that. try to w8 until u get married.
2007-06-30 05:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggestion.Don't do it.It is going to hurt like hell and contraceptives aren't 100% safe.Wait until you are 18 or until you are married.
2007-06-22 13:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NUMBER 1 RULE FOR SEX!!!!!...(FOR FIRST TIMERS) SAFTEY FIRST, SINCE ITS BOTH OF YOUR'S FIRST TIME, TRY TO START OFF SLOW!..FOR EXAMPLE, A LITTLE FONDELING, THEN SOME "HAPPY FINGERS". AND LET IT PROGRESS FROM THERE BUT LIKE YOU SAID CONDOMS SO "SHE" DOESNT HURT....REMEMBER IT'S YOUR FIRST TIME TOO!..SO ITS VERY LIKELY ITS GOING TO HURT YOU TOO!!..SO LIKE I SAID. SONT TRY TO FROM KISSING TO RAMMING EACH OTHER IN 2 MIN....AND IF YOU WANT TO MAKE IT REALLY SPECIAL TRY PLEASURING HER MORE THAN YOURSELF!
2007-06-22 13:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by DJRULO_07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋