Singles & Dating - 19 June 2007

2007-06-19 23:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend/boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over 2years now.

I'm 17, he's 18.

Things had been going really well up until a few weeks ago. Now he just drives me completely insane! I can't talk to him anymore.

I am beginning to think I don't love him anymore. Although it should be the opposite because we will be together soon.


Why has our relationship changed and why cant I talk to him or want to love him anymore?

2007-06-19 22:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

i want to tell my boyfriend that i think theres no connection between us anymore and that i think he's losing me because hes not trying

any better spin i can say that?..

2007-06-19 22:44:58 · 21 answers · asked by xoxocean 3

putting people on blast (calling them out) when they cross you, cutting people off when you feel that you don't need them anymore

2007-06-19 22:27:44 · 6 answers · asked by shykell718 1

2007-06-19 22:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by S H 1

My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together 2 yrs (we broke up for a month 6mnths ago) and don't usually go out together to clubs and stuff that much.... and he likes to tell me the numbers he’s gotten from girls... I wouldn’t care but he keeps them in his phone!!!

Is he just doing it to make me jealous? Or show off to his friends (who are all single) I already said we can try being single for while, (thinking were only young) but he said no... I want to hurt him

2007-06-19 22:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy we have a lot in comman with and he likes me and every thing but he talks like a gurl and hes a bit yunger then me hes 14 will his voice change....it really bothers me... what shouls i do?

2007-06-19 22:11:29 · 5 answers · asked by Alisha 1

I have a public exam in November. I tried studying alot but my marks are still just average. I dont know what else i must do. Pls help

2007-06-19 22:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1

During our 1sr date, he kissed my cheek and even hold my hands.I don’t know what does that mean…I’m not a very social person..maybe it’s to show affection,but maybe it’s more towards lust..he told me yesterday that he wished he could do more than juz a peck on my cheek..hmm..what kind of situation am i in?

2007-06-19 22:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by hopelessqueen 1

I'm going to get right down to it and say, overweight women, 'fat chicks' if you will, have absolutely zero sex appeal. So how do they get by?

Even a pimply-faced 90 pound male nerd can envision one day being rich, succesful, and confident, and thus having scores of desirable women within reach.

Not so with fat chicks. All they can look foreward to is watching endless reruns of friends on their couch while gobbling ice cream, after hours of slaving away working as a librarian or something.

So I guess my question is, how do fat chicks cope with that knowledge? And why don't more do something about it? If I was a fat chick you can be sure as hell I'd be hitting the gym twice daily.

2007-06-19 21:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 21:08:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you judge a girl you've just seen ,
give a point by point answer
what will you search for first
what next
how'l you know as much as you can about her personality if you only got to see her for ten minutes....

2007-06-19 21:02:20 · 19 answers · asked by sean 2

i trust my gf so much. tonight she told me that she had a 3 way kiss with her friend and her friends bf. this makes me feel uneasy, she said it meant nothing. we been together about 6 months. should i be worried at all? am i not allowed to display any displeasure on my part because thats the "control freak, jealous bf?" she did tell me about it so thats a step in the right direction. what do you guys think? By the way shes my first real GF, and I'm like her 4th bf, if that matters at all (so this is all new to me....) i'm 20 shes 21

2007-06-19 20:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by college student 1

I have ex which I been loving for years.
At beginning she was the one who wanted to get back, however after finding that I was interacting with variety type of girl after we broke up it became opposite situation.
Now I am still here been rejected for estimate 2 - 3 times during the period of 6 years. Again, we are meeting occasionally, maybe once a week or two, having great time together. Problem is it is so difficult for me to let her know what I feel because of all the turn over history I dealt with, matter infact I am scared to not even get to see her by letting her know how I really feel. Werid thing is, she never calls unless I dont call her for monthes and always expect me to call and there are reminding word for me to call her. I dont know what she is thinking or what she actually want. And I dont believe she is coming out as a friend after all the serious relationship we had. In other side, I dont think she is comingout because she likes me cuz she never calls. wut isit?

2007-06-19 20:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know many girls when they are young say that. However, do many girls use this line just to reject the approaches of a guy?

2007-06-19 20:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nearly all of my friends are married, they are now about 24-25 yrs old and Most of them are already pregnant.
Now i am already 23 with no Bf yet. I am feeling so weird, well ofcourse i am happy for them. But i am having this strange feelings right now.. I am still not ready to get married.. and they are having babies already. Things around me are moving so fast, i can't catch-up with it. Do you think i am too slow with the world? or am i not matured enough? I am still single and wanted to have more experience with life, but the people around me are already parents.

2007-06-19 20:20:58 · 12 answers · asked by Bruu 2

Is there anyway possible way you can capture a guys heart in the future even though he says he doesn't feel the same about you? I really like this guy and I've liked him for about a year and a half. We were really close in eigth grade because we had a class together but in 9th grade we didnt have any classes together and hardly saw each other. If we have classes this year and see each other more, is there a chance I could capture his heart?

2007-06-19 20:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I slept with a married guy and now I've stressed myself sick with guilt. I feel awful and I want to move just to get away from the town (I would hate it if anyone found out) I don't know what to do... should I forget about it and move on (learn from my mistakes) or just face the consequences that I may have ruined my reputation. I was drunk when I slept with him, but I have a had a crush on him for a while....

2007-06-19 20:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by jo 1

i have been with this boy for 5 yrs. since i was in the 9th grade and like any relationship we have had our problems but now its different we are always mad at each and its like the only thing we could agree on is when to have sex and lately i have not been in the mood for that. i perfer to go to work... (lol) i know that sounds bad but thats the way it is but then when we are in the public theres is a big smile like everything is ok. we were seperated for a while and we both cheated and i got over that, but after we got back together we vowed to never cheat again then one day i came home from the hospital and caught him in the bed with somebody else but after awhile i forgave him but that throught is stuck in my head and he is trying to tell me when to get over it and that im tripping when i bring it up. am i too good for him or what?

2007-06-19 20:10:51 · 11 answers · asked by mslady318 1

there are different reasons why people say they're in love. and yet nobody can answer if it's a matter of science or just a flow of emotions.

2007-06-19 20:04:30 · 13 answers · asked by Aefer De Luxe 1

i could prob lose a few pounds but im in the normal range for my height, i have hips and boobs..thats my bodyshape. He used to date asian girls , i told him he cant expect me to have the same bodyshape...he said sorry after, but he's sorry because i got upset, he still thinks im overweight. I dunno if i can ever forget...i dont feel comfortable eating a bar of chocolate in front of him anymore in case he's judging me..Any advice?

2007-06-19 20:02:39 · 40 answers · asked by spdy 5

This guy i used to like would always pick on me and tried to get my attention. But acted all shy when it was just me and him and he would keep staring at me. But when he with me and his or my friends he acts like a jerk to me and embarrasses me. And now he talks to other girls who are his friends and talks to them all nice and he is always mean to me. I don't get this guy...is he weird or what?

2007-06-19 20:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

UGH! Okay..wanna hear something really messed up? My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years dumped me for my MOM! Yeah..seriously...MY MOM!!!!!!!! Ugh..what should i do?

2007-06-19 19:59:15 · 21 answers · asked by YoungLove 1

so i am 17 (girl) and i really havent had a real boyfriend let alone i havent had a kiss before too..
so does that make me lame???
i dont want to just kiss a guy just do have done it ya know?
i want it to mean something but should i just find someone and kiss them???
and even if i had someone i wanted to kiss i have no clue on how to....
so i would really like some tips on that too please...
thanks

2007-06-19 19:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by Mary Cakes 1

It has been five years, since my ex left me.We were having a kind problems about....our relationship that he can never protect it! he's selfish. He never saying two words for me! He should be thankful for me because I'am the only one who really cares. He never loves me, doesn't care about me! I did everything what he wanted but wasn't enough for him? When Im crying he was not there!. He just playing billiard with his friends. His friend loved me so much, so I said yes. I got two bfs. Even though I said yes to my no.2, I ddn't love him. He knew i stil in love my bf # 1. My no. 1 found out that his friend were together. He asked me to let my no.2 go, so that we can be together again. Yea, I did b cuz I loved my no.1. Hhahay, your no.2 loves u, but I dont have a feelings on him. Your no. 1 did not love you much, and you love him. That's hard, some one is getting hurt.

2007-06-19 19:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jane 1

How do you know if a guy likes you if ya'll don't really talk but he's always looking at you and his pretty cute.....Oh and how do you know if he's is already taken

2007-06-19 19:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by Birdie 1

I told my sorta of casual bf (we are tested together regularly and dont see anyone else) that I would give him oral last night but that is all.
As I was giving him Oral he said he had to have me.
I said NO I did not want sex at all that night and I was enjoying giving him oral.
He then said for me to lie on my chaise and he would come on me. Instead he (gently) grabbed my knees and got on top of me.
Again I said no and tried to squirm away but i was cornered and he was on top me.
He then pushed himself up against me and said he would just rub a little on the outside. I said NO sex inside me. He then wriggled between my legs part and immediately start thrusting i said no again.
He is foot taller than me & finally i gave up.Plus he parted my legs and i couldnt turn awaybecause I was cornered. i feel guilty because I ended up enjoing it.
but i told him no and wasnt playing around (he wasnt wearing protection)
He pulled out before he came but he looked so wild and excited Im afraid he mightve had some preC/
we're both around 30 btw
what upsets me the more i think about it is that I WAS serious, we did not have condoms and i was in mid of fertile cycle.
I cared about him but he shouldve respected when i said 'seriously no'
Also he is only the 2nd man Ive ever slept with because I m old fashioned.
I took Plan B today and I have decided to never speak to him again.
My family is private and wont allow me to make this public and since I enjoyed it and had already given him oral it would be too hard to prove
What I want to know is HOW to handle him ?
I live near him and both he and I are rooted in this community for the rest of our lives.
Should I just ignore him in public ? Should I avoid places he goes for a while while memory is fresh ?
Should I seem cool and calm and happy ?

Advice please

2007-06-19 19:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs and he treats me too bad, he lives with me and i can't take him anymore..he has said so much hurtful stuff to me i don't even wanna repeat it...i need to know how i can break up with him without a huge fight blowing up or him laying a big guilt trip on me, which he has done before...please help me figure something out!!

2007-06-19 19:46:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 19:44:18 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren Y 1

Say you meet a girl and she told you that she questioned(past tense) her sexuality? Would you date her? She's identify's herself as straight but she let me know in her past that that was somthing she dealt with, however she's never been involved with a another woman, or man sexually. And Lady' s if a guy told you that his idenity was questoined in the past would you still consider dating him?

Im just curious and no foul responses please Thanks

2007-06-19 19:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by Roger B 3