i have been with this boy for 5 yrs. since i was in the 9th grade and like any relationship we have had our problems but now its different we are always mad at each and its like the only thing we could agree on is when to have sex and lately i have not been in the mood for that. i perfer to go to work... (lol) i know that sounds bad but thats the way it is but then when we are in the public theres is a big smile like everything is ok. we were seperated for a while and we both cheated and i got over that, but after we got back together we vowed to never cheat again then one day i came home from the hospital and caught him in the bed with somebody else but after awhile i forgave him but that throught is stuck in my head and he is trying to tell me when to get over it and that im tripping when i bring it up. am i too good for him or what?
2007-06-19 20:10:51 · 11 answers · asked by mslady318 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are too good for him he betrayed you
i ve an idea you can seek help from any of your friend
call your boyfriend one day at ur place and manage your timings with any of your friend such that when ur BF comes to ur place at same time you are with ur friend in some critical situation like kissing r nude or any thing else according to ur comfort. then when ur BF catches u watch his reaction
i will work all the best
2007-06-19 20:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. The relationship has probably come to an end. Your only chance is couples counseling, if you think that it is worth it. Do yourself a favor, and do not marry him or get pregnant until you have resolved the feelings that you have.
2007-06-19 20:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he chated on you once, u forgave him, then he cheated on you again.. Just think about that.. Who knows wats on his mind.. Just figure out do you really love him.. Because if you do u can forgive anything... You're dating with him for a really long time.. since teenage.. People are changing... im sorry about everything..
2007-06-19 20:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too good for him
dont let him do that to u
stand up for yourself
that happen to a girl at my school and now she is a wreck and the boy can make her do anything
she had a bright future too and it was ruin by that dick
stand up for yourself
dont tolerate that
it will just hurt u more emotionally in the long run
2007-06-19 20:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sean V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a very similar experience.......most likely he is still cheating especially if he is stressing you to leave that situation alone. You are too good for him. If ya'll arent getting along anymore its just time for an end. Do it before you wind up hating him
2007-06-19 20:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by HeArtBr0Ken... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, if you guys cheated on each other and you caught him cheating again, it's not meant to be. if you were being faithful, from a promise you made to each other and he broke it....imagine if you two go married, then what, would he sleep with other girls? i think so! you deserve much better!!!!
you know what they say....once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-06-19 20:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just go your separate ways it is not going to get any better just worst. More cheating and lying and eventually abuse.
2007-06-19 20:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break your heart, but 95% of relationships in high school fail, you'll see!
2007-06-19 20:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Thinksalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're too good for him, girl...
in my opinion, if i were you, i wouldnt forgive him *in the first place* if i caught him in the bed with...someone else..hmm..
2007-06-19 20:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by linlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all over, except for the "goodbyes."
2007-06-19 20:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋