i trust my gf so much. tonight she told me that she had a 3 way kiss with her friend and her friends bf. this makes me feel uneasy, she said it meant nothing. we been together about 6 months. should i be worried at all? am i not allowed to display any displeasure on my part because thats the "control freak, jealous bf?" she did tell me about it so thats a step in the right direction. what do you guys think? By the way shes my first real GF, and I'm like her 4th bf, if that matters at all (so this is all new to me....) i'm 20 shes 21
2007-06-19 20:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by college student 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't mean anything. Girls think nothing of this type of behavior, so just let it go, man. Tell her you appreciate her honesty, and that she respects you enough to let you know so you don't find out about it from someone else.
Or, if you are feeling VERY brave, you can tell her that you are very hurt and disappointed, and that the only way she can possibly make it up to you is by sharing a threeway kiss with you and the supermodel of your choice. *grin* With any luck, she will take you up on it!
2007-06-19 21:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a 3-way kiss? if it makes you uneasy then you definitely have all the right to tell her. it's not about being the 'control freak bf'. but it's about respect in the relationship.
i'm not saying that she's a bad girl for doing it. so you shouldn't be worried. but maybe she should try to put some limit on the things that she does. it might be ok if she doesn't have a bf. but she does and she has to respect the feelings of the other person.
also if you don't tell her about it, she might think that everythings ok with you as long as she tells you about it.
2007-06-20 04:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably meant nothing if they were joking. If you are concerned, tell her that you don't appreciate being disrespected, and that if she continues to act that way, she can find herself a new boyfriend.. By the way, cheating is cheating even if you tell the truth about it. You never know what she is going to do next.
2007-06-20 04:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend shared a kiss with two other broads, I'd be put-off, as well...even if it didn't mean anything. Don't worry. You have a right to feel this way.
2007-06-20 03:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u got a problem, u seem very unlikely to be able to accept wht she did. so just try to talk to her about it. if she cant change, may be u should ask for a break for your own good.
2007-06-20 04:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that you get a get out of jail free ticket now.
2007-06-20 03:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by this g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋