i could prob lose a few pounds but im in the normal range for my height, i have hips and boobs..thats my bodyshape. He used to date asian girls , i told him he cant expect me to have the same bodyshape...he said sorry after, but he's sorry because i got upset, he still thinks im overweight. I dunno if i can ever forget...i dont feel comfortable eating a bar of chocolate in front of him anymore in case he's judging me..Any advice?
2007-06-19 20:02:39 · 40 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would dump his sorry ***!! omg thats so mean!!! if he dont like you why dont he leave you is what i would ask him, tell him at least you arent 400 lbs or something!! you wont look perfect forever you know! :) i am sooo sorry.. dump him he is an asshole for sure!!
2007-06-19 20:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
although that could sound really mean on the first thought,maybe u should give it a try..im not saying loose weight desperately to please him..maybe he is concerned about you...and in fairness to him,he might have said it in a manner that he never thought would offend you...girl,i am overweight,i know that for a fact and my bf jokes about it all the time...but he still loves me and i guess, he would like it if i loose some pounds,but im sure he wouldnt leave me if i wont... lets just try..in a healthy way w/o forgetting that GIRLS COULD BE REALLY BEAUTIFUL ANY WEIGHT WE ARE IN. also, chocolates are girls' bestfriend these days..dont be shy,be yourself,if u cant loose it,it doesnt matter,but if u do,good for you..all i wanna say is that, try to listen but dont reach the point that its drivin u insane..be yourself... thats what makes us all gorgeous... ok?good luck... give it a try =)
2007-06-19 20:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let someone else tell you how you should be. If you feel you could lose a few pounds then do that but for yourself... after you dump his a$$. If you can't even be comfortable eating in front of him how can you really do anything??
2007-06-27 19:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would slap his face and then i would have to thank him for being honest about your weight as most men are not. Most men will lie, just to keep from having an arguement. If he is comparing you to another girl then that is just wrong, but if he is just speaking the truth, then maybe he is just trying to get you motivated. Not trying to be mean, but they say the truth hurts. Maybe it's incentive to loose a few pounds and then find a hotter guy that WILL lie to you about your weight?
2007-06-19 20:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a hike! If he doesn't accept you for who you are, then forget about him. Life is too short to punish yourself by being with someone like that. Girlfriend, there is someone out there that will love you for you. If you feel you are overweight, then for you an your health's sake, eat healthy and exercise. Good Luck to you!
2007-06-26 18:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kizmetkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i would definitely dump him! if he really loves you, he wouldn't care whether you're overweight or not. unless, he's just concern about your health and your eating habits. but if he says that you're overweight and compares you to his past asian girlfriends...you should think deep and hard about his intentions. when guys really love a girl, they learn to accept the girl as a whole. not because she's pretty, she's sexy and not overweight. just go eat that chocolate bar, it'll make you happy...he won't...especially when he keeps bugging you about your weight then compares you to other gils
2007-06-27 19:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by kittykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you can show us your body so we can judge if your fat or not. If he told you your fat that means that's what other guys would think about you too. Start walking on a treadmill or eliptical machine. At least if your in good shape you can find another one easily. Don't listen to them to dump him they're probably bigger than you. Thats why their all mad.
2007-06-27 17:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose weight for no one. If you are comfortable the way you are then stay like it. I think he has been watching to many programmes with Victoria beckham in. Curvy is much better. Good luck to you and next time he tells you to lose weight ask him to get his penis enlarged, im sure he wont ask again.
2007-06-19 20:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he really loved you he wouldnt care about how much you weighed or nothing. So if ur happy and like the way u look then dont worry bout it.
2007-06-27 15:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by kelsie h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you don't need him. If he cant accept you for who you are then you don't need him. You need somebody that will be there for you and accept you for who you are. If hes gonna ask you to lose a little weight and you do it then just think about all the other things hes gonna ask you to do.
If he really loved you then he would love you for all that you are as well..Good Luck!
2007-06-27 13:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is wrong. If you're happy with your body then so be it, and if he really loved you he wouldn't care if you were as big as Queen Latifah, he would love you anyway. I completely understand how you would now feel uncomfortable eating in front of him. I think you need to dump his sorry a.s.s. If my boyfriend told me something about my weight, I'd probably smack him then dump him!
2007-06-19 20:07:20 · answer #11 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋