Is there anyway possible way you can capture a guys heart in the future even though he says he doesn't feel the same about you? I really like this guy and I've liked him for about a year and a half. We were really close in eigth grade because we had a class together but in 9th grade we didnt have any classes together and hardly saw each other. If we have classes this year and see each other more, is there a chance I could capture his heart?
2007-06-19 20:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I 'm afraid not no.
I know how it feel, I had the same thing with a guy, I loved him for years, still do in a way, he never loved me the way I loved him. He always liked me, as a very good friend, or as a sister but not the way I wanted him..
I'm sorry but you have to accept and move on.
try to stay friends!!!!!
2007-06-19 20:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this. I know that it is hard and you couldnt imagine it right now. It is really not worth it. You are young, very young, and you have time. One day when you least expect it you will find someone who will like you. I have never believed in chasing after someone who doesn't like you. Trust me I'm a senior in high school. I've been through this before. I was alone for about a year after my last boyfriend. I wasn't looking for anyone, you know, just focused on school and work. One day out of nowhere this guy who was new at work came and asked me where some merchandise was supposed to go. From the moment he left i said "OMG, I have met him!." the next day i went to school and told everyone i had met my future husband. Later on I found out from a friend of his that he did the same...lol.
There was a catch, he was engaged. Everything was so wrong, but in two weeks everything got resolved. It was love at first sight for the both of us. He broke up with her, we got together and have been ever since. We are one of the happiest couples i know. The moral of the story is that you should wait until a great guy comes along and you are both interested in each other. there is no reason to sweat the little things even though you might think they are that important at this moment.
I hope everything works out for you. Best of luck!
2007-06-20 03:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? if people think theyre going to be in love forever and they dont cuz theyve become two different people
...why not see a person differently in the future in a more romantic and positive way?
in life anything can happen
2007-06-20 03:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be ready for failure, but if you were really close in the past then you have a chance of being about to get with him...just be a good friend to him and show him that you care, if you have a chance of getting with him..he will let you know, but if not...dont let it get to you.
2007-06-20 03:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by malaki b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing you can do. If someone doesn't like you or love you that's just how it is. My opinion is that if you have to put energy into making someone fall for you, then it isn't meant to be.
2007-06-20 03:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I wouldn't waste my life sitting around waiting for it. You need to be enjoying your high school years. Once they are gone, you can't get them back!!
2007-06-20 03:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he ever likes you back the way you like him...trust me he is going to look for you.
2007-06-20 03:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by chiple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there is.....it's amazing what happens at 10 year reunions....crazy.
2007-06-20 03:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by needer7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
just show him the same person he met in 8th grade and make him everything he dreamed for
2007-06-20 03:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sean V 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
uhm...just let him move on! he already told you...so leave him alone...and you need to move on yurself.
2007-06-20 03:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by [.ℓove&happiness.]™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋