my parents love her and we love eachother. However her parents dont feel the same about me. She didnt grow up near any black ppl and when we first met she had no intention of dating me, I dont think she had seen many black people that weren't on TV. It was love at firt sight for me but she was shy around me at first, then she got to know me and we became good friends, then after about a year of close friendship she told me she had fallen in love w/ me and we started dating.
Now when we were friends, her parents were fine around me. But since we dated its changed, theyre reserved and dont like to communicate with me alot, I dont get invted to things that I used to. When my GF asked them about it, they said it was because im black. My GF doesnt care what they think, and her aunts and her other family members tell me not to worry about it and that they'll come around.
this is really bothering me because we are deeply in love, but i dont want to alienate her from her parents
2007-06-26
10:51:15
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29 answers
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Charles B
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