Im over my ex of two years..I Just want a man that is a GROWN A$$ MAN...Why cant i find one that is?! How do i look for it? And what are the signs of a man that has his sh*t together?
2007-06-26 11:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm.... stop lookin and just go out and have fun. when its time its time.... don't force it
2007-06-26 11:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're plentiful enough but you sound fairly angry right now and that may be impeding your ability to see them clearly. Not having a man isn't making you feel empty, but not being at peace with yourself probably is. Work on this to the best of your ability (and be patient with yourself in the process). Negotiating this one obstacle will likely make all others fall into place as well. Good luck to you.
2007-06-26 18:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things happen for a reason that we can't always see at the time they are happening. The two of you may not have been in the same place in your lives. You just need to relax and the right guy will come along, when the time is right, and probably when you least expect it in your life. Don't give up he is out there.
2007-06-26 19:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by shelly e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I understand your frustration. There aren't that many mature men (in both body and mind, and skilled in the arts of seduction) around. Look for confidence in posture and speech, and eye contact (if he can hold the eye contact longer than you - he is mature). You will know it when you see it, but it will take time.
You also have to be more mature mentally to understand and know what qualities that you want. A truly mature man will not be attracted to immature brats.
2007-06-26 18:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is stop looking!, and the right person will come to you. That is the problem, women should not look for a man! But in order to notice someone who has their stuff together, he will treat you with respect, he is family oriented---and treats his family with respect, hard-working and motivating.
2007-06-26 18:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Capri8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he work every day? pay his bills , keep a roof over his head, and have a sense of humor , treat people with respect.help others.?? Generally a good sigh that he's mature enough to qualify as a man worth checking out.
2007-06-26 18:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking in the wrong places!
Maybe you want a man that's a little bit older than you.
That uses common sense.
2007-06-26 18:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go o=to online dating sites cause that is wrong! Just say in your mind thank you for my perfect man and he will come to you baby. Dont look for him!
2007-06-26 18:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ayana A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sannon
you are correct , it is not easy to find this man. But i tell you , this is not rare but common. Yes every man is grown up & a devotee.
The answer is , a man will only be loyal & sacrificing if he is really involved. Even god can not beat the devotions of a man IN LOVE.
What happens is , when a woman approches a man , he may not be involved with her. Unlike women, man never refuses the company (Even sex) of woman , he was not involved with. There begins the problem. For man , a woman is a lottery, if falls strangely in his lap, he takes her as "Gift of god" to enjoy with.He never tells to woman that he is not one she was searching. He keeps on going the drama till he can ( this drama always reaches to its end in a tragic way,) but some times he really gets involved with her with elapse of time.
Women are also not very fair. They usually want the pleaseres at their own terms. They want to get every joy without giving the pleasure of touch even, to man & when man demands it , they consider that he is not "GROWN UP !"
Means , they want a romantic man , bearing charecters of a "SAINT". How they will get like this.
Lastly about you......See your definations of a man of your choice & find what YOU are ready to do for him. (i hope , you dont require a puppet man).
Now Shannon , if you are concerned to your acts then you will get satisfaction (Even you can turn a dis-honest man in to loyal one, by loosing his heart at you). But if you begin with suspecion, accounting for his losses & your gains per day, then you will always find your self at the loss (because you will only calculate , your losses & his gains ).
The simple is.... just do it & let it flow with its own nature then you will find this is river of pleasures, some times Shallow & other times DEEP.
Pleausre is , inside of you, you just enjoy it in reference to the man of your choice (he can be X,Y,Z). Its only your content of emotion that lets you to enjoy... dont calculate the gains (pleasure of gains is only limited to "material world" & your are talking about some thing which starts-, where material world ends).
"Whatever are the references, but pleasures are born inside us."
MOON (INDIA)
2007-06-27 03:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a "grown***man", there are only two types of guys: Good guys and Bad guys...take your pick.
2007-06-26 18:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
There are aspects of personalities. Like, being Serious, Being Funny at times and Being Judgmental and Being Wise
That's our composition, we are just like that. We just can't keep living one way, otherwise life would be so boring.
We all are growing, aren't we ? Take it easy
2007-06-26 18:51:40 · answer #11 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋