Last Night at like 1:30 am this girl I like a lot wanted to go out to breakfast with me. despite being really tired from working the whole day I met her there. she brought her friend too. As we sat there eating the girl I like talked a lot and her friend and i didn't say much. Thats the problem though, I didn't talk a lot and she even said she wanted me to talk. I was tired and shy for some reason last night. Am I overreacting or do you think they won't want to hang out with me again because of me not talking much. I did talk but not a lot. the girl I like said she wanted to hang out again today but I haven't heard from her yet. We have hung out before without her friend and we laugh and talk and usually have a good time, but do you think her friend will say anything bad about me like wow why do you hang out with him isn't kind of boring, or something? I really like this girl and I really hope I didn't blow it last night by not talking.
thanks
2007-06-26 12:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, please tell me you didn't pay for their food!!! she asked you to breakfast and then took her friend. she obviously didn't want to hang out with you. maybe she took her friend so that you wouldn't think that there was something there. you are most likely just a friend. being that you showed up at her request gave her the impression that you will do whatever she wants. her and her friend probably had just ended a night of partying or something with other guys and then they needed someone male to hang out with who they didn't have to worry about. you're the SAFE guy. look elsewhere.
2007-06-26 12:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her anything about being tired. Call up and say you enjoyed breakfast and if she would like to have lunch or dinner or do something else with you. You will freak her out if you start apologizing for everthing you do. Its normal sometimes not to have much to say. Next time she brings a friend over treat them nice too so they compliment her on you. Remember that girls are natural gabbers and if you let her talk, it will make her feel like you understand and listen to what she has to say. Put in a few questions or statements to get her to talk. So far you are ok but the next steps are critical so don't over react.
2007-06-26 12:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by rlld23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you didn't blow it. Infact, this is the time to step up, call her, and tell her that you know you didn't talk much, but that is was because of how tired you were. See if they would like to do it again sometime when you haven't worked. Yes I said they. That would make her feel good that you called and didn't ignore her. Good Luck.
2007-06-26 12:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw i think your thnking to much. it sounds to me like that girl is just really social, even her friend didn't talk alot, just call her up and be like Man i was tired last night, i can't believe i made it through breakfast. an icebreaker that lets her know the reason you were so tired.
good luck.
2007-06-26 12:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, come on. I'm practically famous for the way I can keep a conversation going...and I'll forgive my boyfriend for not talking a lot. You didn't blow it, trust me...just let her know that you're tired when that happens, mmkay? She'll love you anyway.
2007-06-26 12:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Explain you would like to hang out again. Apologize for not being too social the other night. Explain you had a long day at work.
Then hang out again.
and don't freak out.
2007-06-26 12:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by mypersonaldeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that you were tired that night, and since you guys usually have a good time i'm positive she's not gonna ditch you just for that one time! i mean i wouldnt have even gone out at 1:30 but i guess people do crazy things for love! but don't worry, you didnt blow it..not yet at least ;)
good luck.
2007-06-26 12:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine....(At least you didn't say anything stupid.) Just tell her you're sorry you were so wiped out last night and that you usually prefer more intimate gatherings. (She'll wonder what you mean by that, so you have all day to think up an answer).
2007-06-26 12:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you're rested up, give her a call. Don't just sit back, take action.
And be sure to tell her how much you like TALKING with just you and her......................also explain to her why you were to tired to talk last night. she just might understand. But if you don't tell her, then she won't know. Give it your best shot....go for it.
2007-06-26 12:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by catira1953 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying not very much is a lot better than saying too much. Dont worry about it, your probably being paranoid because you like her. If you like her, ask her out.
2007-06-26 12:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by peaco1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋