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2007-06-26 11:49:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay stop answering it because im getting to many
2007-06-26 11:57:47 · update #1
Not How but "why"
2007-06-26 11:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking of yourself as a total loser, first of all. Losers don't have anything to offer anyone, so understandably they don't get the results they want. The perception of being a loser is a state of mind, and you can change your state to a healthy, life-affirming state as surely as you developed an unhealthy one with a little practice. God made you, and He doesn't make mistakes. When you can truly believe that simplistic little truth, you will have arrived at a better place and things will inevitably change. Try it. Good luck to you.
2007-06-26 18:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can not think of yourself as a loser. Confidence is really the major thing you need when approaching a woman. Start out with some small talk and eventually ask for a phone number and if maybe you could go out some time.
2007-06-26 18:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dahouseman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if your a loser then dating you would make her a loser too dont you think? maybe you should define loser, are you abusive? or crazy? or just unemployed? cause there are jobs or are you just too lazy to want to do anything for yourself thats a loser. but if your not any of the bad things then hey ask her out and treat her well and smile.
2007-06-26 18:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by thoosa22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i fyou think youre a loser you just gotta take a leap of faith.If theres someone you really like and want to go out with,just work up the nerve to go and talk to them.I know how you feel.im not great at all when it comes to asking ppl out or even talking to them.Im not considered the pick of the litter.But ppl like us just have to say screw everyone who ever made us feel like losers and try to make it past that.
Just do it(but do it right)
2007-06-26 18:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not all about looks, or if people call you a loser. Just ask the girl out. If she if some cheerleader and ur a guy who never gets detention and had big round harry-potter glasses.. IM SORRY!- but forget it
2007-06-26 18:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by []Aspen[] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nobody is a total looser. But why not starting something like this?.......... Hey wanna go out with me sometime? I don't know for sure, but this might just work! Now grow some nuts.
2007-06-26 18:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to show them that u can be more that a loser.
U have to be cool. crack jokes. laugh when she laughs.
Make urself noticed in a way that wont make u look stupid
2007-06-26 18:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by coolkat3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get some confidence in yourself and make your move. When you find that person you wana ask out do it, and if they turn you down then forget em and move on, their loss. Good luck.
2007-06-26 18:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that way of yourself how do you think other people will see you. (There is no one that is a loser)
2007-06-26 18:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by letitbeyou1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go "I really like you, will you go out with me?"
it doesnt matter if you're a loser. If she likes you then great, if not then move on.
2007-06-26 18:52:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋