okay so me and this guy had sex on a cruise the 5th night. the night before we talked the entire night and he slept over and layed with me and ended up making out. and the first 3 nights of the cruise me and my best friend hung out with him and his cousins. i was a virgin, he wasnt. he didnt believe me that i was a virgin. we had sex, and he didnt talk much at all. he was gentle and i was paranoid about whether or not he had a condom on, and he even let me feel to make sure he did. afterwards, he took care of getting rid of the sheets, and he got pants for me. he then walked me back to my room and had his arm around me..we were about to go into my room but his cousin walked by and the 3 of us went to the casino. his cousin and him were in a rush cause someone was winning money but he kept looking back to make sure i was there. i got tired and told him i was going to sleep in my room, and he said he would come to my room in a little bit. sure enough he did, he came to sleepover and lay with me which was really cute:)
does it sound like hes using me so far..and if he contacts me after the cruise..was he using me?
2007-06-26 12:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by paula r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face it, he's using you, but he's being really nice about it! When the cruise is over you will probably never see him again (unless he, by some freak chance, lives near you, and there is mutual agreement to continue the relationship). Don't obsess over it; you should be happy! You got to enjoy making love for the first time with a considerate man who treated you with love and kindness; you could have done a lot worse! If he does contact you, and he doesn't live too far away, definitely continue the relationship and see what happens.
2007-06-26 12:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not giving much information that screams out that he is using you,but keep that eye open and be careful, remember not all guys are jerks, but most of them don't think! I don't know if he has a negative agenda or not, but since you allowed yourself to go all the away with someone that you don't know; on a cruise then you really should keep you guard up, but don't act physco!! If he does care and he would like to get to know you better; then go girl!!! Still don't let down your guard! I am not trying to be mean
2007-06-26 19:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by sumayyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he was. I hope he DOES contact you tho. He sounded like a nice guy.
Good luck sweety.
2007-06-26 19:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋