Singles & Dating - 12 May 2007

My wife won't have sex with me or anyone! I tried talking to her, caressing, doctor's, all kinds of stuff. She loves me and is not messing around. She asks me to wait. I am but its to the point now when i see a woman i get wet. I can only "slap the monkey" for so long. I really need some kind of relief. I thougnt of buying some "things" but I would have to hide it. Some friends of hers are willing to help if you know what i mean. I don't think that's a good idea. If I had to I would prefer a stranger with no strings attached. I am going crazy!

2007-05-12 12:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

a cool car, a bigger house than yours and may be being hotter than your gf/wife? And if your gf keeps groaning on about how you don't even know driving and you don't give her enough money to buy exclusive clothes...etc. Will you divert your angry to this female neighbour, trying to get her in bed as a revenge to reclaim your manliness back??? because I suspect this guy gave me the booty call for those reasons. Is it possible for a guy to do that for those reasons? Guys' true opinion please.

2007-05-12 12:39:42 · 3 answers · asked by lily on pool 2

Broken English = More Chicks?

2007-05-12 12:39:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

So anyways, there is this guy that I like, and today he was like all over me, and we almost had sex, but I didn't really want to because I didn't know what was happening. I asked him if we were going out and he said that we were just hooking up. That made me upset, because I felt used. So then he told me that he thinks I'm cute but his ex left him broken hearted. Should I wait until he's over his girlfriend, or is he using me? I really like this guy..

2007-05-12 12:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it cheating when you are flirtying with people on the internet?

and if it isn't to you would you still stop or minimize it if you knew it was hurting the person you were with?

2007-05-12 12:30:19 · 31 answers · asked by xxteenage_wastelandxx 2

Under my exboyfriends phone he had me listed as his cousin D... Why would someone do that?

He let other people look into his phone but he wouldn't even let me touch his phone...

He would always tell me to "go over there" when he was on myspace. I knew he was talking to other girls...

but do you guys think he could hace taken it beyond that?

2007-05-12 12:28:21 · 5 answers · asked by xxteenage_wastelandxx 2

i have a friend who has a friend who will be tweenty five in Septmber who is trying to get a girl who is about to be fifthteen in September pregnant?

2007-05-12 12:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-12 12:16:46 · 6 answers · asked by Rufus121 2

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=60163308
i want to know because i think i am and i want to ask this girl out but i need to know this first. yes i am a bit unsecure about my self but o well thanks in advance

2007-05-12 12:15:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, me and my ex-boyfriend of 16 months broke up about 6 weeks ago. Between now and then, I've had two boyfriends (one was just for the rebound and only lasted for 25 hours, and the other one I'm happily with right now). When we first broke up, the ex acted and told everyone that he was SO over me, and at first that hurt me. But I'm fine now and have moved on to someone better. A week after the split, I'd catch him going out of his way to get a glimpse of me, smiling at me randomly, and just recently he's been trying to make eye contact with me and walks distantly behind me in the halls. And ever since I've gotten the new boyfriend, I've noticed it more and more. Every time I mention this guy, my ex makes a face and turns away, even though his "boys" new that he liked a different ex (not me) and wanted to ask her out, but then he ended up not wanting to anymore. And just some extra info--my new boyfriend is one of his friends. My question is--what's going on here? What's his problem?

2007-05-12 12:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by The Prep 4

2007-05-12 12:10:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend was raised Christian and still is. She managed to avoid sex until date raped at 19. Didn't report it to police, or tell anyone until her parents found receipts from a clinic STD test. A month or 2 l8tr hooked up with a guy who was her boyfriend, at least once, maybe twice or more, don't remember, but then dumped him cuz she didn't want to do it anymore.

Since then she has had three boyfriends, none of whom she had sex with. She did fool around with one like she and I have fooled around (dry sex). Her last boyfriend she DIDN'T fool around with.

Here's what bothers me. She expects me to wait until marriage but she ain't no virgin! I'll admit I ain't either and have had more partners than her. But the difference is that I was not Christian when I was having sex, she was.

She had dry sex with me a couple times because she didn't want to lose me, but days later regretted it and said no more. I feel like the other guy was worth going all the way to keep but I aint...

2007-05-12 12:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by ben b 1

I fell in love with my best friend. He told me he loved me, lied and got back with his ex. I was left alone to pick up the pieces. I was so in love that I still continued to be there for him. I still had sex with him, hung out with his fam, went places with him. It was just like a relationship only he wouldn't leave his girl. Well after 5 mths of games I quit. I moved onto someone we both know. Now he is blowing me up. Out of nowhere he tells me he misses me and is calling me baby. Where was this guy mths ago? And why is he doing this now??? He's admitted he is jealous, but why does it take this for men to come around?

2007-05-12 12:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I"ve known this guy for almost 8 years now. we talked almost daily, three or four times a day. he's driven 800 miles to see me twice. He's married of course. His wife knows me, his son knows me. I've spoken with all of them. this last time he was here, his last words to me were "I love you", so I haven't heard from him in 8 weeks, I heard from his wife though, so finally, I can't stand it any longer, I had to call and make sure he was okay, we are friends, he drove 800 miles to see me, twice even. Anyway, I called, wife answered, told her I needed to speak with him, and he called me back, he stated we were on speakerphone, said he told me I would 'probably' never hear from him again when he left here, I told him he did not say that, he said he did, I said I guess I just didn't listen then, he said don't call again, don't call 'here' again, am I reading something into this? why did he inform me of the speakerphone? and 'probably'? what's up with that?

2007-05-12 12:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by sickittyt 1

I know I am beautiful, smart, and have a great personality. Is that intimidating to a guy?
Cause I know guys like a girl who is confident, but what if the girl has to much confidence?

2007-05-12 11:51:44 · 9 answers · asked by Katy 2

i was walking to my aunts house and i left w/ the bus ppl. as i was coming up the crosswalk i saw my ex's bus coming up the road and i saw a girl i knew that rode his bus and i waved at her then i looked back down and then i heard something thump and my ex was flipping me off through the window. why is he acting like im shyt. b/c when he broke up w/ me he said he wanted to be friends but has acted like i dont even exist. wat do i do?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-05-12 11:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by sec_cogley 2

Ok i like this cute funny girl named Alex but she's shy….we talk allot on yahoo because she is busy with her job and life i told her i liked her she's cool with that and I have made an impression on her with my talents not on purpose though i am not a show off. she told me she wants to meet in-person more i agreed we need to do that any way she's very shy in-person and kind of closed off though. So how can i tell she is interested she posted a interesting comment in response to my Blog i was writing a poem and the verse was "why can you feel the way i do" she left a comment in response to it saying "why cant you just see the truth in front of you" how can i tell if she is interested in me and wants me to ask her out we just met a few weeks ago well almost a month ago and are getting to know each other better can some one tell me the things a shy girl will do to get your attention and let you know she feels the same way about you please help :) ????

2007-05-12 11:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Paul B 1

ok i already posted a question but yea myspace is da problem wit me and my boyfriend i broke his password and i found out that he has been flirting wit other girls and gettin their phone numbers and **** and i did lock him out his account and he got so angry wit me and so i decied to give it back to him cuz for one he has two pages he has a music page and a regular page and i had da password to his music page but i couldn't find out the password to his regular page so it really wasnt gone make a difference and i asked him to delete his page to make our relationship better i don't mind deleting mines cuz to me he is more important than myspace but he wuz like he can't delete his page cuz of his music and sh*t and i think thats a bunch of bull, i do so much for him, we don't stay together or anything but i basically take care of him cuz he doesnt work, and told him if he had a damn job he wouldn't have time to get on myspace cuz i sure in da hell don't i only get on there 1 every 2weeks

2007-05-12 11:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by sexichica 1

Did you initate it? Was it quick or a long kiss? Was there anything special about it, besides being your first kiss? What's your story about it?

2007-05-12 11:44:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me!!! I'm crying upset and not sure WHAT to do!!!

My boyfriend and I had plans for a week to hang out on Friday. Thursday night my best friend in the entire world Mark whom I've known since my freshman year of high school so
(6 years now) just came home from college. He really wanted to see me and I haven't seen him since we were home for Christmas break!

I phoned my boyfriend and asked him if we could reschedule and go on our date on Saturday night. He got a bit upset and told me he was angry at me for breaking plans and that he had a frat party to go to Saturday night. When I realized he had plans Friday night I agreed to see Mark on Saturday and see my boyfriend Friday night.

Literally 20 min. before I was supposed to be at his house my boyfriend sent me a text message asking me if we could reschedule because he did not want to stay over night at this party Saturday and there was another party that his best friend was hosting Friday night. (to be continued)

2007-05-12 11:44:14 · 2 answers · asked by LiLPinkCherries972 1

He works at a tire recycling place. And says his boss called him this afternoon to 'meet' the truck that got delayed on the way here. Last night he went out to dinner with his mother and her friend.

2007-05-12 11:43:20 · 25 answers · asked by inquizitive 1

Because the guy I'm dating only likes to talk on the phone for about 5 minutes. And it's not like we have nothgin to talk about, we allways do!

2007-05-12 11:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by Juls 2

how come random guys always stare at everygirl they see passing by?
just to check them out...well thats stupid. if u already have a gurlfriend and all..

2007-05-12 11:41:56 · 30 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2

And what if you calt him twice but he did not have sex with thim? and when u go to dump him he begges you not to and he say im sorry. BUT i dont no if he is still doing it .

2007-05-12 11:41:32 · 4 answers · asked by emily 2

right this is a kinda long story but, there's this guy at my dancing group and he's really cute n we're kind of together now but no one at dancing can know and i want to know how to make him really want me, do you have any flirting tips or anything i can do at dancing and / or just in general? inot being modest but i know i'm quite 'sexy' as he puts it i just need help to work with lol thanks!!! xxxx

2007-05-12 11:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to hear what males have to say about this.

2007-05-12 11:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by lexxy l 2

Imagine if your boyfriend (girlfriend... or for some, you can go as far as husband, wife) cheated on you for about 1 year and some months, and you finally found about it. And not only did you find out about it, but you had a talk with the girl he was cheating with, and she too had no idea about the cheating. And to top it all off, he had a son and his future wife pregnant. Neither both girls knew about you, and you didn't know about them 'till you found out.

Now the question is: will you try to some way get revenge on him/her? After he led you on believing that he loved you and wanted a future for months (without harming the future wife or kids, since they don't live together, they are 'thinking' of marriage for the kids). Or will you just let it go and move on?

Tell me why or why not.
The questions may not reflect my real life, so don't bother saying "you should do this and that.." I'm only asking what would you do and why.
Thanks

2007-05-12 11:33:38 · 20 answers · asked by Iceshowers 2

2007-05-12 11:30:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

all i want is somebody to care about me and would want to cuddle with me whenever i felt low.. does anybody else have this wanting?

2007-05-12 11:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by xoxocean 3

I'm going out with my first boyfriend and we dont live really close so we talk on the phone alot. but the problem is that im quiet and dont talk much, so often we just don't talk which isn't very comfertable. Any suggestions on what to do?

2007-05-12 11:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by c d 1