Singles & Dating - 12 May 2007

to respect your self you need to know what you are then change any thing you dont like then respect it then love it
BUT HOW TO KNOW WHAT YOU ARE

2007-05-12 19:49:05 · 1 answers · asked by hanan s 1

My girlfriend thinks tat sometimes i don notice her.
what can i do to change that and make her feel more secure with me??

2007-05-12 19:38:15 · 20 answers · asked by lucas 1

My boyfriend of over two years and I are only able to see each other Friday and Saturday because of our inflexible schedules. I'm completely fine with this and I always look forward to the weekend. My boyfriend has been fine with this arrangement, but recently he's been acting like he'd rather be doing other things. Since school is coming to an end and his friends are coming home from college, he started to complain. He doesn't like that we have a "set time" to hang out. This always seems to happen in the summer. It seems like his friends come home from college and he neglects me.
Next weekend, his friend (that's a girl) is coming home from college and she "MUST SEE HIM!" He told me today that he was planning on hanging out with her and his friends next Friday. He feels like he can't tell me these things because I'll get upset at him and overreact. Am I overacting? Is it wrong of me to get upset that he'd rather hang out with his friends than me on 1 of the 2 days we have together?

2007-05-12 19:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by Creme de la Creme 2

On a scale from 1-10, (10 being the highest) how would you rate your beauty?

2007-05-12 19:33:59 · 8 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1

2007-05-12 19:32:15 · 20 answers · asked by undhyu 2

All guys wanna know, what do you like for your man to do to you to get you in the mood? Every woman has different turn-ons. What's your weak spot(s)?

2007-05-12 19:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1

i have a friend and and we were at a kerokee bar like every saturday night and he was singing a song and when it came to a part that said i love myself he skipped over that part now i am woundering if i should call him and ask him why he doesn't love himself and see if he needs to talk to someone also i didn't see the girl he normally has at the bar and he didn't talk about her should i call or should i let it go

2007-05-12 19:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is like being really rude. She like's tell's me off like I asked her if she wanted to see a movie and she said "Not with you" and she was all like just playing. She keep's doing that. and when I tell her I love her she usually tell's me she loves me back but now she don't say it and she tell's me she don't believe me. WDF is going on? why is she doing this?

2007-05-12 19:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get offended when someone calls me hot, but I love when someone says I'm beautiful...do you distinguish between these as well?

2007-05-12 19:27:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

what to do , then he comes in late he turns his phone off or wont answer and i have no idea what hes been doing. he tells me before he leaves and he doesnt go out every night , only once a week but when he does he screws with my head.

2007-05-12 19:26:55 · 8 answers · asked by linseynicoleharmon 1

i have a friend that has no answer for his warmth. its really weird. could there be something abnormal?

2007-05-12 19:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by Stinky 3

Hey ladies, I know a lotta guys try to hit on ya all the time. Many guys only have one thing on mind. How long would you wait before getting intimate?

2007-05-12 19:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1

ok i am a 17 yr old mexican female and i am 6 weeks pregnant ...the baby of my father is black..my family is against me having this baby and every one is so mad at me and tellin me what do do with my life! they say i should have a abortion at first i had no problem with it...then i thout about it and if i go thru with this i will never forgive myself my moms mom *grama* dont even want to talk to me and me and her have such a great bond it hurts me so bad she would ignore me like this i was her baby until now and im goin to graduate this year so i got my school done but dang is it that serious i want to have this baby?? i kno im not ready but i dont want to make the biggest mistake of my life and the baby father wants to be there he just got out the army and has a job and is a real koo guy.... but everybody put him down cause hes black what should i do ...go with what my heart tells me or listen to my family so i will be exepted by them im so confused

2007-05-12 19:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by DeeDee 1

Would you still date a guy who you found very attractive ( physically/ intellectualy) if he told you that he doesnt make much money?

2007-05-12 19:18:33 · 24 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1

my bf wants to play the nervous game whats that ??? (please answer seriously)

2007-05-12 19:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4

So I have this guy friend, we've been very good friends for about two or three years, our tightness going off and on through fights and so forth. This last Tuesday he expressed to me how he feels for me more than just a friend, he knows that with school and everything I am not interested in a relationship right now. I've never really been attracted to him, he's not very good at grammer or writing, and I'm an English major, and he doesn't have drop dead looks to make up for it...yet I just recently found myself falling really fast for him. We could never spend our lives together, our careers don't match. What do I do? give it up and fall in love with him? or buck it and continue with my old dream?

2007-05-12 19:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

I feel messed up. I love my girl but we fight alot and don't like the same things. We have a kid 2gether. The weird thing I have to ask is. Is it weird that I don't really like her sister at all but man I want to have sex with her? It feels kinda wrong but, I get all weird and I stare at her chest and well. I can't really stand her as a person though. WTF?

2007-05-12 19:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by L-roy 1

Ok So I have been in a completely monagamous relationship for three years. We're engaged. About two years ago I met my boyfriends roomie. He was nice and funny and he liked me but nothing happened.

On Sunday I called my bf's roomate who now has a gf for a few months to tell him I have a crush on him(told my boyfriend and he told me to go for it).
We talked and I asked the roomate to reject me so I could get over the what if feeling, he laughed it off and said we should talk later(we talked an hour before about everything but the crush and him not being able to make a woman happy and to break up with my bf, he called me pretty etc).

He is an ARIES man and I am a Libra. Why hasn't he called me yet? Why didn't he reject me? I also sent him an email telling him why I think he's a good person. Can someone help me out? I am really confused.
He went today to his gf's house like he does every weekend is this a rejection? Why didn't he just reject me on the phone?

2007-05-12 19:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, here is the problem...

I used to love my best friend but thats all changed now. She likes me for who I am and I loved her for who she was. Now that im not crushing on her 24/7 I find myself looking at other girls.

I think im a resionably attractive guy and im pritty easy going. I do have a scarcastic side that can be killer but I think that people take life incredibly too seriously so I just try to make fun of life and have a good time with it. I smoke and I drink (not heavy) Im 420 friendly for special occasions but not often at all.

All I want in a girl is not a cow but not a stick, I like girls with a bit of meat on em, I want a girl with a mind, I dont want some dumb blonde. Just someone that I can hold a conversation with and someone that loves me for me but I cant seem to find anyone thats even interested in me weither they fit the criteria or not. Am I ugly? am I asking too much? I just dont understand, any ideas ppl?

PIC OF ME:
www.myspace.com/glimdoom

2007-05-12 19:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

is that ok\? lol i am a male!

2007-05-12 19:11:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really liked this girl at my school, but never really did anything for most of the school year. About a month ago, I started saying hi to her, and we'd wave at each other whenever we see each other. Things were going fine and friendly until this one day that I decided to make a move and talked to her about studying together for an upcoming AP test.

She said she didn't have the time but offered to exchange emails. Then, when I got home, I emailed her and talked more about the subject. After about a day or so, I asked her whether she'd be able to meet another time, and she replied to both saying that she just can't meet.

Alright, so that's a turning point. From there on, things just got extremely awkward. All the greetings suddenly stop, replies to future emails sounded less friendly, etc.

The question is - how do I steer this back to normal? Did it become awkward as she got an obvious hint that I like her? What's the best thing to do?

2007-05-12 19:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by excelblue 4

She says she wants to be friends, she says that I must be hurting and I tell her I'm not. If she's trying to make me jealous, what's the best way to handle it? Stop talking to her, or make her feel comfortable with me again by saying that I think it's great and I'm ready and willing to just be friends? I have already admitted what I did wrong in the relationship, which was not spend enough time with her, not make time for her, and not hold up my end of the relationship , if I say that I think it's great and I'm happy for her, and I'm glad that we can be friends. Won't that look better than flipping out and saying that I never want to talk to her again. I love her and I know I love her, I want to spend the rest of my life with her and I want her to see how serious I am, in an extremely subtle way. Hopefully she doesn't read this or I'm not being very subtle, but you get the point. Look forward to your response.

2007-05-12 19:07:15 · 3 answers · asked by Gary G 2

With all the cheating and extramarital affairs going on, I want to be sure my bf feels free to tell me about all relationships he has with other women. He had one one serious relationship before me, he want's us to marry, but I feel he hasn't really "been there done it" with other women and I'm afraid that one day he will "discover" women and leave me. (forbidden fruit syndrome) I told him it's OK if he wants to sleep with other women so long as he lets me know. He got upset and said that if I loved him I wouldn't suggest that and that being with another women my cause him to stray from me. If he hasn't been with other women how's he know im the 1? Do you think it's risky to marry a man with so little "experiance." Or is it riskier to let him have other women too? I love him deeply and don't want to loose him. Am I just paranoid? Help, PLEASE.

2007-05-12 19:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would that turn you off? Is is better to bring up the fact you are a single father from the very start as I have done prior (I believe honesty is the best policy) or wait until later to let a woman know? I ask because the fact I have a 5 year old was described by one woman as "too much drama" she did not say that to me but to others I know. I get the impression from the questions and answers I have read that nice, stable men are not what most women seem to want, (sorry but read some of the posts on here and that is what it seems like) and having a child seems to make me less in demand. I ask the question to see if that is the general feeling with women or have I just been unlucky with those I have met? Please be honest with your answers. Thanks!!

2007-05-12 19:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by Spartacus34 2

In December, I got back together with a boyfriend who cheated, so I already have trust problems with him. One of the conditions was that we have 100% honesty, and he's been doing pretty well with it, 'til tonight. Of all things, he lied about how many drinks he'd had before driving home. (He's underage, but it would upset me even if he weren't.) It's not a huge deal, but a lie is a lie is a lie. I feel like he's testing the waters to see how much I'll put up with. I told him tonight if he lies again, even about a small thing, I'm out of here. But is asking for 100% honesty asking too much? I'm talking about when he lies on purpose- I can tell if it's just a mistake. I've gotten over alot to salvage this relationship, so maybe this is minor. But I also feel like after everything, I shouldn't have to overcome even more of the petty behavior. We've been together 2 1/2 years, he's always had truth problems. Are there "small" lies, and are they dealbreakers?

2007-05-12 19:03:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is that when someone says their only looking for a sex partner someone always get their feelings into it? i had a friend who said she was cool with just getting it in but as soon as i tried to stop the sexually relationship (BECAUSE I HAD FEELINGS FOR ANOTHER GIRL N I TOLD HER) she tried to break up my relationship

2007-05-12 19:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by shitown0567 1

my friend whom iv know since i was 14 came to my house to visit.
so she gets sleepy and i gets sleepy so i took a nap and both of us where in the same bed.but nothing happend, and then my gf comes home gets mad at me and thinking im cheating on her.
and it doesnt help that im always pretending to flirt with her.

but my gf knows ill sleep any where and our clothes where still on i didnt really feel like telling her what really happend so i just told her to leave.
i dont really know how to talk to people and be nice.
but i really want to tell her but i dont know how.

i dont even see why my gf thinks i woukld sleep with my friend.

how can i tell my gf what happend ?

2007-05-12 19:01:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

mean!!! j.k but seriously man they dont believe men when we say we have blue balls. they dont know the pain!! do you think blue balls are real or not?

2007-05-12 19:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by jason m 1

in other words getting a little action, without a relationship happening?

2007-05-12 19:00:45 · 18 answers · asked by scorch_22 6

Okay, well I was watching a movie with my ma and I fell into a deep sleep. I dreamt that I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on out wedding night or something. I'm not a perv or anything so lol I don't normally have dreams like this. I normally have nightmares. But is there something wrong with having dreams like this? I need to know! Help me lol = (

2007-05-12 18:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by Kerryann S 1