My girlfriend thinks tat sometimes i don notice her.
what can i do to change that and make her feel more secure with me??
2007-05-12 19:38:15 · 20 answers · asked by lucas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show her that you care. pay attention to her.
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2007-05-12 19:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are together, look into her eyes and smile. Maybe you just don't look at her enough. Be romantic! Some guys forget how to persue a woman. Do anything you can to make her feel special. Hold her hand in public, touch her back, just easy things.
2007-05-13 02:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one... It could be that she wants you to listen to what she has to say. In this case, one thing to do is to surprise her with something she mentioned in passing that she would like. If, in turn, she thinks that you are not spending enough time with her, surprise her with a romantic gesture where the two of you spend time together (a picnic, a play, something she likes). The details are very important, but easy to overlook
2007-05-13 02:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by manano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A common problem in relationships. My suggestion is to do some little things like giving her a gift, dining at her favorite restaurants, giving flowers, doing activities she likes etc. Do these things unexpectedly so that it surprises her and hopefully it will ease her insecurity.
2007-05-13 02:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Calvin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you appreciate her, she is truly beautiful and you can't see how anyone thinks differently, you appreciate everything about her from her (color) hair, to her legs (long, light colored, tan, etc), her full lips, wonderful eyes, and you can't get enough of her personality. Tell her things and mean it, not because you are looking for brownie points. Most importantly, HAVE A BACKBONE!
2007-05-13 02:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Peter C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cliche but flowers all the way. Those things are magic, I can't explain it but a girl gets a rose and suddenly everything is better for awhile. but do other things too, make it obvious that she comes first.
2007-05-13 03:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice her more. Talk to her and listen to her. Give her gifts, take her places. Ask her opinion on things.
2007-05-13 02:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she looks nice or smells good, if she asks for attention maybe she is insecure, try and reassure her, because you don't always say something does not mean you do not love her. My husband and I have been married for 17 years he always says nice things to me but I very seldom say things to him, I don't know why he is very good looking, but I have to really make myself aware to say something, you may need to do that yourself. Good Luck.
2007-05-13 02:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell
2007-05-13 02:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
just randomally call or txt her telling her to have a good day, and do some things that she likes. like get her some flowers on random days. or something like that.
2007-05-13 03:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Janha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋