Singles & Dating - 12 May 2007

You have 5 roses to give to any of the charming and lovely ladys of Answers.Who are you going to give them to? Oh and guys...I won't say no to a star or two.

2007-05-12 15:27:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well theirs this girl and shes talking to a guy right now, and were also talking, how do i win her? she sees me more then the other guy

2007-05-12 14:55:25 · 1 answers · asked by dj dell 1

When I was in high school I was fat, nerdy with glasses. In college I am now the man I have the biggest toned muscles and the baddest urban wear. When I came back home to visit I turned those same girls who never noticed me in high school. How great is this revenge?

2007-05-12 14:54:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently started seeing a guy, who has told me he still has contact with an ex-partner and does not care how I feel.
He has no children with this ex-partner and from what he has told me his ex partner had left him twice. When he told me he did not care about my feelings I tried to break up with him and stated he needed to sort himself out. He got scared and said he wanted to be with me, and that his feelings for his ex where dead and buried but he still continues to discuss his ex then accuses me of not puting any effort into the relationship or opening up to him more, He has continued to discuss what he did in his past with his ex each time they were together then compares me to her and has a huge smirk on his face each time he discusses her.. My confidence and self esteem are truly gone. Each time I have told how I feel by the way he treats me he just looks straight through me and tells me to stop carrying on. what should I do?

2007-05-12 14:50:50 · 18 answers · asked by lou20 1

it's been 3 weeks since i've asked this really nice guy out. and he hasn't answered me. what do i do?

2007-05-12 14:47:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 46 yrs old, single, employed, drive a decent car, and am not even a penny in debt. I've been told I am not bad looking, I have a good sense of humor, and despite my efforts to keep from learning them, I have good manners. I was raised to be a gentleman. That dosn't mean just opening doors for ladies, but it includes treating them like equals, with respect, and with compassion. Women aren't a plaything or a servant. They are a companion, a confidant, and a friend. I don't drink, don't use drugs, and don't believe in organized religion. What am I doing wrong?

2007-05-12 14:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Leroy H 2

i liked my friend kenny. i thought we had a thing going, that he liked me and i liked him, then he all of a sudden asked out some chick that goes to this other school. it's been a couple months but there's still some attraction! i don't want to ruin things between them b/c of his feelings, she already thinks we have a secret relationship, but i can't help but really WANT to ruin things between them. all i want to do is just shake him, tell him i like him, and KISS HIM!

er, what should i do??

2007-05-12 14:30:33 · 27 answers · asked by CBP 1

but to make him happy u have to sleep with him just want to know what to do.

2007-05-12 14:21:41 · 29 answers · asked by sexyslim 1

Heres the deal! Me and this girl have been talkin 4 a while now and me and her brother became like bestfriends! Now we think that we should talk more seriously but she wants me to tell her brother about it first !

2007-05-12 14:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 14 and my mom keep telling me not to ask about sex and this stuff and i am hearing alot of things from my friends about it can you tell me any thing would help

2007-05-12 14:02:55 · 31 answers · asked by milley a 1

they keep calling when you told them...i do not understand...i gave it to him straight out...it is a nice way to say NO, NO, and no....why don;t they get it????

2007-05-12 13:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 4

2007-05-12 13:49:33 · 4 answers · asked by bubbles 1

Even if and when you do leave the bad boy for the nice one sometimes it comes off like settling, then you say something like " he's stable" or "he's a good provider" stuff that never matters with the ahole. Insights? Observations? Feedback? Are any of you with good guys your truly hot for? Do you still wish you could have turned the bad boy you were with before your good guy?

2007-05-12 13:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 31 and a mom of two. He is 39 and has a kid. He says that he likes me and wants to be my friend and see if it goes somewhere. We are just friends. He obviously likes me... it is very obvious in his manner, eyes and the way he is around me. He wants to be friends because he thinks it could become more. I am not like that at all. Either you think I am worth the risk or not. At least think I am worth it enough to date me casually and take a risk. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. I spent 6 years of my life waiting for men that I love and now believe that if it is meant to be, it will happen without anyone resenting the other for waiting around. I am not interested in having 'guys friends'. I dont' do that well. And I am not introducing my kids to single guys. So I just don't do guy friends. To me, if we are not dating, at least casual. Then you are wasting my time away from my kids. Why 'just friends'. We are ALL scared. But isn't the potential of love worth the risk?

2007-05-12 13:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

it has to be a woman

2007-05-12 13:35:55 · 39 answers · asked by ben d 2

ok now i REALLY like this guy and i think about him alot. but my best friend likes him too. but i don't know how much she REALLy does. so yeah this guy likes me enough to ask me out, but apparently he likes my friend too. and me and my friend talked about this but we just end up saying no u can have him, no u take him. or i want you to be happy so i won't go out with him. and idk who he likes more! plz help me!! oh and plz make it an answer where EVERYONE is happy if possible. :-] spanks!

2007-05-12 13:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by Freckles 2

I'm 16 and am frustrated because I've never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, blonde, thin, smart and the nicest, most compassionate person you'd ever meet, but I am very quiet and that may be one of the reasons I've never had a boyfriend. But I just get upset because I don't know why a guy dosen't come up to talk to me or do I just have to wait until I'm out of High School? Please help!

2007-05-12 13:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-12 13:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by Billy Dowson 1

2007-05-12 13:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by mrcarl92807 3

and now she decides to look my way..heard from people she is with someone..i dont know what to do.im having alot of mixed emotions now

2007-05-12 13:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by aloof 1

I have been living with this guy for almost three years. We've broken up, taken month-long breaks, and always end up back with eachother. I thought that he wanted me back as much as I wanted him, but lately I am not so sure. He has been doing things behind my back. NOT MAYJOR THINGS, but lying about little things that make me wonder. He bought himself a cell phone yesterday, but last week he said we would get a shared plan together. I found it, and he said that he wasn't going to tell me about it because he doesn't want me calling him all the time. Today is my bithday, and although he is completely aware, he doesn't care. He even told me that I shouldn't make such a big deal out of birthday's, and they're just another day. He doesn't seem to want to devote ANY time to me, not even on my birthday! I wouldn't consider myself high-maintiance, but he just doesn't seem to want me around anymore. What do you think?

2007-05-12 13:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever liked someone or was interested in someone and when you told your friends they thought you were crazy or that that person wasn't good looking? (or some other reason)

2007-05-12 13:09:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have a guy friend who is in his 50's. He has a live in girlfriend that he says he is not in love with but has been with for 7 years. We have been friends since last year and we talk constantly on the computer. (He's a musician and rarely home.) We have great conversations and are physically attracted. Sometimes he talks sex, but I shoot him down and he changes the subject. We have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, but he always backs away from it. We still talk inappropriately, and we used to cuddle in public, but not anymore. We went out shopping last week and even though he called his girlfriend his wife, he still grabbed my hand when we walked in the store. My question is, what does he want with me? If he's got one thing on his mind, how come he won't allow sex? Does he want more? Is he just talking to me to get off? We are very close friends and we listen to each other's problems, and I don't want to ruin that. If any guys can help me I'd appreciate it!

2007-05-12 13:07:29 · 21 answers · asked by Runaway 2

Do Yahoo have a free dateing name where single people can meet other single people?

2007-05-12 13:06:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

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I feel ugly because no guy has ever asked me out. Please tell me what you think. I would appreciate it if you could tell me your age and if you are a boy or a girl.

2007-05-12 13:03:27 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

he keeps flirting with girls and sitting nxt to them and even ditches me sometimes the girl he flirts with the most he always hangs out with should i be worried?

2007-05-12 13:00:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I'm 5'9 and I'm seeing a guy who is a little over 5'4. He is really great, but we get a lot of laughs for the height difference. Should I keep dating him and put up with the jokes from my friends and family or just be friends?

2007-05-12 12:57:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend love each other deeply...and im pretty sure she feels the same way...but she just doesn't seem affectionate..like at school...and we dont appear to be dating....but after school...like at her house...she's in my arms...and she kissed me for the first time 2 days ago...so at times i feel confused about are relationship...Am i being too ancy....or should i look into this...thanks in advance

2007-05-12 12:47:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this guy at school that i really like. and we flirt like every day 4th pd. i want to ask him out but i am affraid if i do he will say no then it will be akward to be with him 4th pd. what do i do?

2007-05-12 12:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by messytrissy 1

I am 31 and a mom of two. He is 39 and has a kid too. Well he says that he likes me and wants to be my friend and see if it goes somewhere. We are just friends.... I think that is a cop out. If you like someone, you take the risk and try being a couple for at least a month and spend time togehter that way. He obviously likes me... it is very obvious in his manner, eyes and the way he is around me. But he wants to be friends because he thinks it could become more. I am not like that at all. either you think I am worth the risk or not. I like to move fast. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. I spent 6 years of my life waiting for men that I love... I don't wait anymore. If it is right, then it would happen. He wants his options open, then he can have them open.. but I am not interested in anything more then just seeing him very occasionally on a friendship level. I intend to be a VERY casual frind. Am I wrong to feel gilted? I don't 'do guy friends' very well at all.

2007-05-12 12:45:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous