i am 14 and my mom keep telling me not to ask about sex and this stuff and i am hearing alot of things from my friends about it can you tell me any thing would help
2007-05-12 14:02:55 · 31 answers · asked by milley a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey sweaty i think your mom is right she just afraid About you honey she don't want you to know about this kind of things now i will give you my advice and you have the right to accept it or not don't rush to know detail-es about this things but i just can tell you it is the natural of live because of it we came to this world and this feelings will grow up with you when you love some one sex is really important to us to keep going in this life and we have to respect our body's desire too
2007-05-13 05:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by minney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking about sex is completely normal and healthy. You should ask questions about things from someone you trust and can rely on to tell you the truth. Sure it's difficult for a parent to chat with there kids about this topic but that's where you need to be asking. The things my kids are coming home asking because they heard it from a friend at school is scary. And just because you ask doesn't mean your going to rush out and do it..I applaud you for being mature enough and feel safe enough to ask your mom and I just hope your mom will see that you are just asking because it's a normal time for you and I'm sure she had the same questions when she was at that age...Good luck and if you have questions no one will answer..I will be glad to help
2007-05-12 21:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by ambulancechaser_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 yes, you can ask about sex. Your mom does you a disservice by not wanting to answer any questions about sex that you have. You do her an honor to seek her out for information. What would you like to know? There is so much involved that it would be almost impossible to tell you all in such a limited venue.
2007-05-12 21:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for YOU for asking your mom about sex. Unfortunately it sounds like your mom is too scared to talk about it. She should be GLAD you're asking her about it. It's a shame. Mine would never talk about it when I was your age which made me turn to friends and others. Is there anyone else you can talk to?
My goodness! Some of you people are looking too much into this question. This young teen is simply asking for advice so his/her mom will talk to them about sex. They aren't saying that they want to have sex. They are just curious about it--just as any other teen is curious. It's called life.
2007-05-12 21:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you would like to get the answers from someone trustworthy--from HER, not from a lot of other 14-year-olds whose information is suspect or downright dangerous.
If she still won't talk to you, she being unwise, but you can be wiser. Go to the library. Ask a librarian. They've heard it all before, they won't embarass you, they'll just get you a useful book.
2007-05-12 21:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sheepdog. If your mom continues to push your questions away, you will most likely end up asking the wrong people & getting the wrong information. I definately think you are too young to have sex, & feel you should really wait. If you're thinking of doing it 'cause of a guy...pleaes don't. If they like you, they like you because of who you are & NOT what you're willing to do. I hope this helps.
2007-05-12 21:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mojomoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask but your mother does not seem prepared to answer you. Thats a shame but there is this thing called the Library, where you can go and read books about sex. Librarians are great resources.
2007-05-12 21:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk into your local library, even your school's, find a quiet corner and read all the books on the subject. Even the decade old chastity belt stuff usually has a few tidbits of good advice and answers...
2007-05-12 21:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Silver K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, feel free to ask me anything your little heart desires to know! My mom was like yours and it sux. E mail me!
PS- I am a mother of 3, my oldest is 14, and I am happily married. I am not worried about being"arrested" like one person answered- that is silly! Im so sure! Anyway, feel free to email me, if you want to. Sex is nothing you feel ashamed about, and it is not something that you should take lightly, either. It is beautiful if you are ready; and dangerous if you are uninformed.
2007-05-12 21:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was lucky when I was your age. I could go to my mom about sex. My best advice would be to go to another family member
to talk to. I promise you your friends don't always know what they are talking about when it comes to this.It's better if you go to a aunt or uncle for this.And don't be in a rush to have sex either.It will come in time.
2007-05-12 21:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by dcsteubenville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋