i liked my friend kenny. i thought we had a thing going, that he liked me and i liked him, then he all of a sudden asked out some chick that goes to this other school. it's been a couple months but there's still some attraction! i don't want to ruin things between them b/c of his feelings, she already thinks we have a secret relationship, but i can't help but really WANT to ruin things between them. all i want to do is just shake him, tell him i like him, and KISS HIM!
er, what should i do??
2007-05-12 14:30:33 · 27 answers · asked by CBP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know your place and respect it u dont want problems with him he will leave u allow before he leaves her just let it happen to throw stones at a glass house i know u like him and u want him as more than a friend but dont be the cause of his hurt be there when someone hurts him be there when others dont want to be bother be there when he realize that love is closer than he thinks u get me (smile) if he is your he coming to u just let it all happen on its own dont force it u are his friend not a back stabber because if he finds out that u ruin his realationship not only will u not get him in the long run but u will also lose a great friend
MAKE UR NEXT MOVE UR BEST MOVE
2007-05-12 14:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by DEFINE WHAT LUV IS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't wanna see you get hurt. Sometimes people on the outside of a situation can see it clearer. It sounds like you have built your bf to be such a great person, and he probably knows how much you 'need' him in your life and love him. He's gotten away with it once, probably tinks he can do it again. he doesn't like your friend cuz she is trying to talk some sense into you. It would be much easier for him if she was out of the pciture all together. Trust me, this will not be your only relationship you ever have. YOu will find someone else who won't cheat on you. I'm sorry, I know this probably isn't the answer you were looking for.
2016-04-01 08:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing you said was Kenny is your friend. Are you truly Kenny's friend? If you were you would want nothing except his happiness. a friend would not seek to ruin another friend's relationship Okay, so you have feelings for him, but he is still your friend. That should mean something. And if it doesn't then you two aren't really friends!!! I don't need to tell you what to do. A real friend already knows the right thing. Take care!
2007-05-12 14:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in pretty much the same situation and we both liked each other but he was my ex and we both wanted to get back together but he had i gf so then they broke up and a few weeks ago we went out for like an hour then he broke up with me because he said he thought we were to good of friends to date and now he has a new gf and im trying not to interfere with them but its really hard because i love him but if i were you i would make a move on him and tell him how you feel but he might not like you like that maybe just a friend you never know unless you try so don't hold anything back
2007-05-12 14:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by /-\$|-|L33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking that you are not going to like this, but the way I see it, doing something to come between them would NOT be a good idea. You need to respect his feelings, he did ask her out, and he must have really liked her to do so. By trying to come in between them, you are disrespecting his feelings and judgement. I would try to cultivate her friendship, as she obviously means something to him. And move on with your life, if you two are meant to be together, it will come in time, but for now, you may just be surprised with who you may meet once you get your head out of the clouds and your eyes off of him! Good Luck!
2007-05-12 14:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are alot of guys out there. If you ruin there relationship you might ruin the friendship between you and that guy. Put yourself in his shoes.... If he did that to you, how would you feel.
2007-05-12 14:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by babywitback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell kenny how you feel about him i mean who knows maybe he is just seeing this girl to get your attention if you do something to ruin the relationship he might hate you for it so dont be immature about it . just tell him how you feel and maybe he feels the same way.
2007-05-12 14:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by lorlor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt. Does he know you like him? If you ruin the relationship he has now...it could backfire and make him mad at you and then if anything happens between you guiys...you'll lose him as a friend. Just slightly let him into know that there are feelings there and let fate run its course.
2007-05-12 14:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you didn't make the "thing" clear enough. If he has been with this girl for a couple of months, then you should leave it alone. If it is meant to be then it is meant to be. If not you need to move on.
2007-05-12 14:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Butt out! This is where you have to put yourself in her shoes and see how you would feel if someone did that to you. What goes around does really come around. If he doesn't want to be with her he will break it off. You need to stay out of it and let them be.
2007-05-12 14:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋