why is that when someone says their only looking for a sex partner someone always get their feelings into it? i had a friend who said she was cool with just getting it in but as soon as i tried to stop the sexually relationship (BECAUSE I HAD FEELINGS FOR ANOTHER GIRL N I TOLD HER) she tried to break up my relationship
2007-05-12 19:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by shitown0567 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can. And I do.
People want someone. Anyone, thats why they are willing to turn a good lay into a marriage.
2007-05-12 19:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by poladottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that few females can have a sex partner and not get emotionally attached. They just say they can control their feelings to lure the guy in, then hope they can make him fall for her.
However, I do know of a couple females who feel the same way about sex as they do about a handshake.
This might sound sexist, but I think that guys are more likely to not form emotional bonds with the people they have sex with.
2007-05-12 19:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course this can happen dont guys call that out for a piece of a.. dont have to say last word as pretty obvious to what this question means. or one night stand meaning next day you wake up and say nothing happened it was just a bad dream. tahnk goodness. if two people get involved in this and have no feelings it is best so knowonw gets hurt. but if one gets emotions attached two things can happen. either the person that got used gets so burned up they are out for revenge and wont stop until succeed. what most people do. and when succeed and hurt them are you sastisfied? do you feel better now? and you can lie and say yes but it will backfire bigtime and it still wont take your hurt away and then all you feel is like the person that did the harm in the first place. you dont come out a winner in this one.i know from past experience. its a waste of chasing and a bigger waste of time when you find out your result did didly. the other way is to stay in your power and not loose your sanity about but bless the person like i gave love out and if comes back then its mine and if does not then never was love . the bottom line is not to get involved with someone who does not love themselves because even if they tried they cannot attach since they have no connection. they are cut off from their emotions and dont even know that they exist. unless of course they were the love that came back and somehow got connected and realized the timing was too late. so believed in same rule that it will come back if meant to be.
2007-05-12 19:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is possible without getting entangled into an emotional relationship..This is what we see in a prostitution. Much depends on the approach of people engaged in the activity.
There are people who use sex just to satisfy their biological desires and to release the tension threrfrom
2007-05-12 19:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by jos c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all have some emotional ties to our sex partners. It is just that one partner ussually has more emotional feelings than the other. So even whe its a booty call both people have some emotional feelings... but sometimes the spread in those feeelings is real big..
2007-05-12 19:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by mpasnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really different for everyone...i have had sex partners and didnt get emotionally attached but no matter who u have sex with, u have to have sum kinda feelings for them, u have to at least be attracted to them and sumtimes strong feelings can build and its hard to stop them but...if u cant...u get jealous...lol kinda like that girl...i just think she was jealous the spotlight wasnt on her anymore...each girl has a different outlook on it...we do try not to get attached sometimes it works...and sometimes it doesnt...u just gotta be willing to take that chance either way...
2007-05-12 19:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Suki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very much possible.
The problem is that some people don't hold their word. That's why it's a good idea to try to avoid sex-only relationships. Or atleast find someone you know will hold their words.
2007-05-12 19:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyone gets emotionally involved because having sex takes more than physical involvement.
2007-05-12 19:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex without getting emotionally involved.
2007-05-12 19:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls get emotionally attached.. that's why it's never a good idea to do it
2007-05-12 19:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by JuDyLicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋