I fell in love with my best friend. He told me he loved me, lied and got back with his ex. I was left alone to pick up the pieces. I was so in love that I still continued to be there for him. I still had sex with him, hung out with his fam, went places with him. It was just like a relationship only he wouldn't leave his girl. Well after 5 mths of games I quit. I moved onto someone we both know. Now he is blowing me up. Out of nowhere he tells me he misses me and is calling me baby. Where was this guy mths ago? And why is he doing this now??? He's admitted he is jealous, but why does it take this for men to come around?
2007-05-12 12:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. life was good for him, sex with 2 girls??..a girlfreind and another loving person on the side ..wat more could he ask for?(sarcastic but true) then you finally realize your better than that and he wants to bring you back down again for his benefit. guys loooooooooove options, and the fact that you are no longer one is causing him to throw a hissy fit. im glad you found someone new and moved on, but you should be too! he has no right to blow up on you because he was never interested enough to make you his girlfreind, and he was never your boyfriend. get with someone who misses you because they havent seen you all day, not someone who says they "miss you" because they abused your love for five months and no longer has you as a resource anymore. dont let this guy string u along ever again. if he was really that into u, he wouldve been trying to call u baby since you both met. i say, stay with the new guy and be proud of yourself for knowing ur better than that and moving on. best wishes!
2007-05-14 03:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had the answer to the games that men play with us and the games we play with them. Nobody wants to reveal the honesty within themselves because they don't want to be hurt, so the game goes on. Think about men as hunters in the wild. They see the waitng , beautiful female and they go after her. When they have conquered her, they want to move on to other game. But, here comes another lion in the jungle - a new lion and the conquered female turns her attention to the new lion, seeing as the the gamer has left her alone. The gamer continues to conquer, but he finds his conquered female has eyes for a new lion and he wants back in. Why? Competition. Your best friend can't stand the fact that you would desire someone else. He wants to know that he has "you" locked up and "his girlfriend". It's all in the game.
2007-05-12 12:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh goodness gracie woman! How do you fall in love with 3 men? Edward, your husband, he cheated on you! two times! the 1st suspicion of untrue-ness is while that guy ought to have long gone. once you provide him 2d opportunities, he looses admire for you reason he's conscious he can love yet another woman and additionally you not care. He needs to appreciate that not your not likely to tolorate this cheating he doing and as long as your around it wont be happening. And did you assert you the two produce individuals you're seeing?! it quite is the main messed-up, strange, risky relationship issue I even have EVER herd. Im sorry yet come on woman, Make up your innovations! This isnt extreme-college, those arent little boys and additionally you cant play with their hearts like this! that's the actual international and those are GROWN men and it shocks me that somebody could cope with it the variety you're. My suggestion, overlook all of them. as quickly as thats over, you ought to circulate into your heart and additionally you will discover which guy you want to spend something of your life with. regardless of if its one in all them or not the time to make a determination became a longggg time in the past. i wish i helped hun (: -Chelsea
2017-01-09 17:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always been a basic law of relationships!! People want what they can't have. Now that a guy you really wanted sees that you were able to get someone besides him, he feels threatened. When your focus was on him, he just thought he was the center of everything. Now that you gained the sense to move on, you're attractive to him. Stay with the guy who wanted you no matter who else did. The guy you were into's attraction for you isn't real, its just he's threatened by this other guy not knowing what the other guy has over him. It was little to do with you
2007-05-12 12:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've taken away his free booty call, and now he sees that you can lead a perfectly happy & normal life without him.
His ego is crushed.
You did the right thing and he is just playing more head games. Enjoy your new life--don't go back to him for anything or you'll be right back to getting used again!
2007-05-12 12:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by anon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Because actions speak louder than words!" "We always want what we cant have." Just be careful, once you are back, he may start this game all over again. Be careful.
2007-05-12 12:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, I've followed your questions...you need to let go of him honey. He is bad medicine for you, and you need to refresh. Stop obsessing over him, he doesn't matter anymore. Stop referring to him as your best friend, because he is not. He is slime.
2007-05-12 12:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by I can only imagine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋