I know I am beautiful, smart, and have a great personality. Is that intimidating to a guy?
Cause I know guys like a girl who is confident, but what if the girl has to much confidence?
2007-05-12 11:51:44 · 9 answers · asked by Katy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Misti Court- This is me I guess and there is no prey. I just wanted to know what guys thinks.
To Andrew and Singer.. - You guys have been the best help so far thank you!
And to the rest of the people who say I am a little to full of myself- I really am not. I just got this confidence from other males, friends, and family. I know I have my moments where I am conceded, but I am a good person.
2007-05-12 12:06:42 · update #1
to some guys , yes there is nothing wrong with being confidence. those who thing it is ,is jelous because they wish they felt like you ,if you were ungly and confident the still would be saying the same thing, pretty, ungly or in between people will always have something to say the same with men, so stay as you are, because you will find someone for you, and if you think knowing what you want and going after it, being successful, beautiful, not worrying about bills and can aford the finer thinks in life make you confident or intimidating then thats a good thing you don't need someone around you who wants you to be someone other than yourself, the only one you have to thank is god, because everything you have and who you are came from god so you are a very blessed person, so the only person you have to please is god, so why sell yourself short to to please someone else and make them happy while you be misarable, just remember please god and everything else will fall into place. once again be you and do what makes you happy, an strong man or real man can handle all things.
2007-05-12 12:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a line that can be crossed, Confidence / conceded.
I would say if you are telling yourself you are Beautiful, smart and have a great personality then you maybe on the line of the conceded.
See its one thing to be proud of who you are and how you view yourself. But if you are telling these people thats what you are then well you realy arent. To me you would be conceded and not pretty at all, if that is what you are doing then I wouldnt concider you smart at all, and the personality realy would be some figment of your imagination.
But if you are mearly proud and know it deep down but dont boast about yourself. Then I would think your pretty darn cool and I am lookin for a confident woman who knows they are Beautiful, smart, and has a great personality.
2007-05-12 12:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I wanted to respond to your question. Most men are intimidated by women period - confidence or not. Women have been reared for the most part by women and we have seen the progress of women in the workplace, in schools, in the media, and all they have had to fight for and self confidence is a plus in any person. You can't have too much. The problem I think with us women is that we tend to 'lord' it over men and that makes them even more uncomfortable and feeling displaced and awkward. They don't know how to compete with us - they are used to competing with each other. It is a dilemna that I don't know will ever end. I keep meeting men who are 'confident' but when they find out that I am a teacher and a performer, they back off....as if they have nothing to offer and they do.
2007-05-12 12:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you and I are the same age, I am wondering if you have the same problem carrying on conversations over the computer. Are you having this problem just talking face to face and on the telephone or is it all the time? If it is all the time, I would suggest trying to carry on a conversation with someone online. If you can successfully carry on a conversation, then you should be able to use the same steps in a conversation with a friend of group of people. BTW- I am pretty sure that your dance skills do not affect your every day life and is probably not that important to the people you are conversating with. Best of luck, Jess
2016-05-21 05:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now Kat eh which female are you talking about?
Yata? You think of yourself in that way? Or
U know your so called prey? Would that be possible? That the prey has too much confidence??
signed
Misty court
2007-05-12 11:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is a bit intimidating. Espiecally if they know that you are super confident in yourself and they're not so confident in themselves....
2007-05-12 11:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by reemstar123181 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah you seem like a conceited *^&% so id say thats repulsive rather than intimidating to guys
2007-05-12 11:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not intimidating, just repulsive. you come off like you're into yourself. stuck. full of your "great personality" and beauty etc...
2007-05-12 11:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is a) a reality check..b) a visit by a couple of black hung rubber lips
2007-05-12 11:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋