So anyways, there is this guy that I like, and today he was like all over me, and we almost had sex, but I didn't really want to because I didn't know what was happening. I asked him if we were going out and he said that we were just hooking up. That made me upset, because I felt used. So then he told me that he thinks I'm cute but his ex left him broken hearted. Should I wait until he's over his girlfriend, or is he using me? I really like this guy..
2007-05-12 12:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's using you to temporarily get over his ex girlfriend...You'll regret it if you have sex with him...
2007-05-13 10:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure hes just using u to make his self feel better and that he might not really like u but wants to hookup. I think u should move on. There are penty of other guys that u havent met yet that u'll probably like even more than u like him =p
2007-05-12 19:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jigoku Tenshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything to physical w/ him . . just hang out w/ him for now . . see if he shows any intrest in you ( meaning you think he likes you , not that he wants to have sex w/ you ) . . sounds like he might just want sex now , but maybe later he'll want a relationship. but don't do anything unless you know he actually cares about you & wait till you guys are going out . =)
2007-05-12 19:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Chante Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved till he's over his ex. hang out with him if you like him, but don't "hook up" because that would really be him using you.
2007-05-12 19:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by carlyray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Just hooking up"?! Uh-uh if I were you - I'd only share myself with someone who thought more of me than just "a hook-up". Leave him alone before you get hurt!
2007-05-12 19:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to sound gay or anything.......but i'd leave him.....people like that are usually assholes......out of all the girlfriends i've had, i've never used any of them, but a couple of them used me to get to my friends
2007-05-12 19:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by silentreaper727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you. forget about him. he probably just see you as a rebound.
2007-05-12 19:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by certified b*tch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋