Other - Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

My mother is in one and I want to know its past record , good or bad not opinions FACTS

2007-12-05 18:29:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyhting is telling me to do it, but i love him so much .

he didnt cheat on me .
he's a good guy. it's just continuous bullshit .
i believe in compromise & communication for a relationship to work well .
and weve been lacking that really bad on & off .
weve been together 9 months, & through those mnths, have been through a lot of ups & downs .
there was a point in the beg. of our relationship when i didnt get to see him 4 2 months .
+ we live so far away from each other .
i didnt like that, & my friends werent the best supporters, so they kept encouraging me to breakup .
so i told him i wanted to breakup...but in my heart i didnt want to, i even cried over the phone while i was doing it .
he convinced me to stay w. him .
things have gotten stronger .
but yet, our relationship lately has been weaker...due to the lack of trying to connect . i jus feel he has taken me for granted .

i dont want to have to breakup w. him AGAIN .
but i hate going up & down constantly .

2007-12-05 18:24:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 18:07:09 · 7 answers · asked by sukinalee329 2

That my wife has installed a spyware program on my computer to monitor the activities of my 15 year old daughter who also uses my computer.Was she wrong in doing this without my knowledge.

2007-12-05 17:58:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

You see theres this special person in my life whose father has been bed ridden for 8 years or more..i never had the chance to speak to him since Ive been his sons girlfriend for two years now. I couldn't find a way to talk to him because he wont be able to answer me (after he recovered from a comma state, his dad could barely speak). please help..

2007-12-05 16:55:53 · 3 answers · asked by Lesley Ali 1

Ok I am 21 and I WAS talking to this 35 yr old marrid man... yes I know it was wrong so you dont have to give me the lecture. Well we met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked on the phone and did some stuff for about 2 weeks until his wife started to find out and started following him everywhere he goes now. Well he told me that HE CAN NOT TALK TO ME ANYMORE b/c he didn't want his wife to find out and everything and so we stopped talking altogether. Well Monday I went up to the gym to play racquetball and he was up there playing with his friends and I caught him looking at me quite a few times when he thought I was looking away or something. His friends were also STARING AT ME like he told them something false about me, like a rumor!!! I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me???? I am just wondering, thats all... im not trying to pursue him. Guys... can you answer this please?

2007-12-05 16:54:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do we lack of courage to receive a happy life?why don't we take a risk to face a dicey life?

2007-12-05 16:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If not theres still time :)

2007-12-05 16:16:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband had a big argument, i was doing alot of yelling and i told him to get out or whatever, i guess the neighbors heard us and called the police or whatever, well when they came by they asked us what was going on and that someone had called them and said they heard yelling and rumbling we told them that we were just arguing and they asked if we needed counseling he was like well why not because we have trust issues, well they came questioning me and my daughter was like daddy pushed mommy because they kept asking him and did he push me and i said no it seem like they were trying to force me to write a statement, and i didnt write one or nothing but they still arrested him, to make a long story short, is it best if i try to find out when he goes to court and show up and tell the judge he didnt touch me or just not go, i just dont wanna make matters worse, plus they have a no contact order but we have a newborn baby together almost, what is the best thing to do?

2007-12-05 16:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by butter_wife_2b 1

A) They feel happy to give their pictures to some unknown broker.
B) They 'll say i already picked on.
C) They 'll left option to their parents
D) They 'll go mad and prefer not to give
..........................Any more answers?

2007-12-05 16:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 16:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half maybe. im 18, and a senior in highschool, and my boyfriend is just a year older than me. this christmas, or rather, afterwards, he wants me to go with him up north to visit his family. i want to, and my mom is excited for me to go (parents divorced), but my dad is still reluctant to let me! im a pretty good kid, do well in school, going to college soon, mature, never gotten in too much trouble..yet, he is barely budging!!! what can i do to let me go?

2007-12-05 15:18:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i pick up after her and myself, i clean up after her dogs, i pick up their crap and mop up their piss, i cook, i do the laundry, all because she is to lazy to get up and help and bitches when i ask her to do something. she holds sex over my head like i sold my soul for it yet she doesnt even give anymore and cuz times are hard she sometimes holds money over my head she is nice when she wants something but mean the rest of the time she doesnt consider how i feel or the fact that im a person she bitches and calls me names when i try to joke with her yet when she does it im supposed to laugh and be okay with it even though the way she jokes with me (as she puts it) lowers my self asteem when i talk to someone on the phone she asks who it is and i tell her yet when she does she just tells me that sh edoesnt have to say so check the caller id i dont know what to do to improve the relationship she used to not be this way but has changed since we moved here 2 months ago i love her regardless

2007-12-05 15:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by bloodredangel 1

I hate the fact that my bf spends alot of time playing his video games. there are times when i cant get ahold of him because he's too busy playing. there's times when our plans have ended cuz he's spends too much time on it. i hate thinking that im competing with his damn gaming systems. we actually joke that they are more of a priority than me. am i over exaggerating or is there a real issue here?

2007-12-05 15:03:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This weekend my 16 yr old son stole $1000 from a wonderful man that I've been dating for 4 amazing months. The problem is my boyfriend told me he wants to continue to have a relationship with me because he loves me but, he never wants to see my son again and that I should send my son to live with his father. He also states that because of this he should not have any of his things (clothes, shoes, personals) and to let him start over w/ nothing. I've made a plan to repay the money. However, my son is a minor and as bad as this was he should be forgiven if he corrects his behavior. I love my child unconditionally and want to move past this with my son and my lover but right now this doesn't look promising. Should I repay the money and move on now or stay and try to convince my lover to forgive my son? Or since this is still new give it more time and decide later?

2007-12-05 14:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, Im just curious here on opinions of my situation. At work a while back, talk of sexual relationships came up (I work with all men, me being a male as well) and one of the guys took a guess and asked if I were a virgin. I was not going to lie so I said yes. Heres my question, ever since then three of the guys have been bugging me about it almost every other day, asking if I have had sex yet and poking fun at my situation. I am 19 and have not really had any dates, and usually I can take a good laugh, but its starting to get on my nerves and stressing me out at work. What should I do? Is this a type of harassment at work? (seeing as it should be a private thing, I only have been working here for 5 months so its not like im best freinds with these guys, the youngest co worker is 28)

2007-12-05 14:49:47 · 17 answers · asked by tech88 2

My fiance is great my family adores him, we're living together and I don't feel the chemistry I had with him when we first started out, he's always horney when we're in bed but the idea of having it with him turns me off as it's boring and because he's always in the mood for it, I have it with him sometimes but I don't enjoy it, the intimacy is gone when I want cuddles or kisses I have to ask him, and when we do things together... well generally we don't do anything together anymore, I bought a jigsaw puzzle for us to do together and all he could do was whinge how boring it was! he plays his playstation and then whinges because I'm not paying attention to him cause I sit down and do work on my computer because he's not paying attention to me!
not to mention due to his spending habits we're always broke.

What can I say? the relationship is stale

2007-12-05 14:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-12-05 14:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having a horrible time. I am a 4th yr student and currently have a 2.12 gpa which is pretty bad. to top it off i'm going to be failing 2 classes this semseter. I broke up wiht my boyfreind of only 1 month but it is tearing me up inside. I realized that i have a serious alcohol problem when i woke up the next morning and noticed i had cut my wrist! I never do anything like that, or think about it. I don't remember doing it Pretty much i'm freaking out about how to tell my mom i'm doing so bad she is going to be VERY mad. My brother and sister say i'm prob going to ruin christmas. To top it off, I was on the tennis team at my school, i love tennis. and I had to quit because with everything in my life I can't handle tennis, plus i will be ineligible to play next semsetr anyways b.c. of grades. I also have a waitress job, and i'm seeing a counselor at my school, but i haven't told her the truth about everything. Please can someone give me some advice. Thanks

2007-12-05 14:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

my mother was like mi first best friend ever. i saw horror films with her, told her everything about me, my life and the way i look at things. mi dad doesn't live with us and i'm an only child, so our relationship is quite close. but recently it's been different. school's become more stressful and my social life is rocky. but mi mother's no help either. when we get close, she starts to get too comfortable and starts to play-hit me. then she'd get all bitchy saying how i can't handle pain. then when i try to ask her something personal that she doesnt like, she changes the subject or interups me and THEN changes the subject. i get all pissed and we fight. i say something like 'i hate you!' and she'd leave me alone. but when we get back together and everything is cool, she says 'do you really love me? i've done so much for you...' and she reminds me of what i said before. then we get into ANOTHER fight. how can i deal with a mother whose emotions are worse than mine, the 13 year old girl?

2007-12-05 14:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by Luvin Usagi 2

like im a quiet person, not shy... just quiet.. i say things when i NEED to say things, i don't just blurt out random things. and well all my close guy friends aren't quiet, but dont' get me wrong, they aint abnoxious either, they're in the middle, anyways then theres these girls who always ask me why i am so quiet.. like i say im just a quiet kid yet they always say 'why don't you say anything?'.. is there something wrong with being quiet?

2007-12-05 14:21:10 · 55 answers · asked by John 1

For example, if you take a female pornstar or a stripper you'll be able to spot her from a mile away. But if you take a guy like Ron Jeremy, if you don't know who he is, you'll probably never figure out that he's a porn star.

2007-12-05 14:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

my boyfriend and I have been together for a year, we live together, and things are okay, but his obsession with porn is really starting to cause a problem. I know it's a guy thing, and that most guys look at porn, but his collection is immense, and I know he's looking at it more than what we're having sex. I bring it up to him, and he either tells me I'm being too insecure, or that he's getting rid of it, but I still keep finding it on the computer. He even went so far as to photoshop pictures of his female friends to be obscene. We resolved that issue, but I still feel incredibly insecure over it. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, that he has to look at that stuff. I've dated guys who liked porn before, and it never was a problem, but I feel like I'm competing with it, and I feel like I'm not good enough. I feel threatened, insecure, and no matter what he says about getting rid of it, it still keeps popping up. I just wish he'd at least not make it so obvious that it's there

2007-12-05 14:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by venusinfurs66 1

I had my first child at 16 from my first boyfirend in high school. I am now 25 years old and my son is 8. His dad occasionally sees his son, but we don't argue about it. I recently got out of a really bad relationship of 6 1/2 years, he wasn't my sons father, but the only man he was around often. I was introduced to this my brothers friend on New Years this year and kinda had an off and on fling with. When my ex and I called it quits for good, for the past 2 months I started messing around with the same guy I meet on New Years. Well, long story short. I got pregnant. At first the guy and I both agreed to abort it. But now I am undecided on what to do. My bestfriend is a strong believer against abortion and tells me I am selfish. But it's hard to choose since it would be my second abortion; an accident with my ex. And this guy and I never really had a relationship going. It was more about one thing only.

2007-12-05 14:09:04 · 4 answers · asked by girlie99 1

My crush she seems to laugh when i do something stupid she really got laughing with a group of people and today i noticed she was laughing with me and looking at me and sometimes il randomly turn and she will be looking towards me (the looks with the little grin and big eyes).So does she like me she also once told me i was cute. But she acts indifferent towards me like she totaly ignores me (i do to b/c im nervous i think she is the same way but she is not shy)and she has a couple guy friends. Im 18 she is to. I also noticed when im in her presence she is always messing with her hair i dont know if its all the time our just when im around. She acts kinda of flirty with her guy friends but doesnt lead on that there more then friends. IDK if she has a BF. Im confused b/c her and this one guy are always around eachother in school

2007-12-05 13:47:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We sit together at lunch (along with several other people). I would consider us friends but that's all. I am 97% sure that he "likes me" likes me. It wasn't until recently however that he follows me around everywhere! The other day, I was talking to one of my teachers for about 4 minutes, and bound to be late to my next class and he waited for me... I know that sounds sweet but now he walks me to every class and feels the need to talk to me every time he sees me. He's a really nice guy so I don't want to hurt his feelings but he's getting so darn annoying! What can I do?

2007-12-05 13:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by QT Patuty 2

2007-12-05 13:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since January of last year my life has taken a downfall first I was terminated from my job because of discrimination I think my partner and coworkers set me up and told the supervisor they treated me teribly said sexual things about me and abused me in lots of ways because Im christian and they hated me i think they told the boss things I wasnt doing and I got fired which is unfair because another worker crashed a car with the tow truck and didnt get fired and I did for what?I thought I was alright but then my cousin and I liked this girl and about 2 weeks after being fired I found out they were girl and boy friend he told the girl stuf that wasnt true I guess?she was my crush and he didnt even treat her right!then in July my car broke down and had to walk for 2 months.just last month a little girl that had given me hope and actually cared about me has also been taken by her dad and I think is being abused/neglected by her parents Im unemployed people seem to hate me is there hope?

2007-12-05 12:58:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.romantic 1

2007-12-05 12:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 1

than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!

2007-12-05 12:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by CHER 6