I had my first child at 16 from my first boyfirend in high school. I am now 25 years old and my son is 8. His dad occasionally sees his son, but we don't argue about it. I recently got out of a really bad relationship of 6 1/2 years, he wasn't my sons father, but the only man he was around often. I was introduced to this my brothers friend on New Years this year and kinda had an off and on fling with. When my ex and I called it quits for good, for the past 2 months I started messing around with the same guy I meet on New Years. Well, long story short. I got pregnant. At first the guy and I both agreed to abort it. But now I am undecided on what to do. My bestfriend is a strong believer against abortion and tells me I am selfish. But it's hard to choose since it would be my second abortion; an accident with my ex. And this guy and I never really had a relationship going. It was more about one thing only.
2007-12-05 14:09:04 · 4 answers · asked by girlie99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It probably would look bad if you told people all about it, but frankly that is no one's business but yours and the baby's father. If you choose to have an abortion, you have that choice and it is no one's but your own. I would strongly urge you from this point on to get an IUD or some sort of contraception device that doesn't require daily maintenance so that you don't become pregnant again until you try to. Good luck.
2007-12-05 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♀Redheaded Sunshine☼ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its bad. Ever heard of condoms, pills, contraceptives? If you're sexually active but you don't want to get pregnant, you could have at least used something. Abortion is only an option if you were raped by a deranged man. If you can handle two kids, have the 2nd one. But if you can't provide for 2 kids, I suggest you have it adopted or something but never aborted.
2007-12-05 22:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy is NOT an accident.Sex makes babies and killing a baby who was not at fault for its conception is just evil and wrong.Give it up for adoption and get your tubes tied woman!
Get your life straightened out , look at yourself and be honest with yourself for a change!The best place to start is in prayer.GOD loves you and wants you to be happy, but you have to do things HIS way if your ever going to be happy.Another abortion will just be more guilt and regret to carry around for the rest of your life.GOD WILL forgive you if you ask HIM to.Then get in church stay in church and GOD will send you a decent man.Try the United Pentecostal churches theyre great and there other people who made mistakes and come from worse backgrounds than you hon.
2007-12-05 22:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it looks real bad, and most of society does. At least they still have their mom To look out for them, it's important to love the children so they know they are loved, and they shouldn't be made to feel they have to choose sides.
2007-12-05 22:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by dearmeohmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋