Other - Family & Relationships - 2 December 2007

i wanna concentrate on my studies but wen i cant,i waste my time as if it were a luxury. i cant face my parents n lie on their face wen they ask me wat i was doin the whole day?

2007-12-02 19:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am seeing this guy and he makes me feel so alive all i do is think about him, the last two weekend i have been telling my bf that i am with family ect but i have been meeting with this other guy now he is coming to my home town this weekend i want to be with him so much it hurts but i don't want to hurt my bf anymore that i already have it's just that we have drifted apart and we are more friends than we are together.. I find it hard to imagine my life without my bf.. but i can't get this guy out of my head. what do i do ?? I can't keep lieing but i don't know if i want to stop seeing this other guy???

2007-12-02 19:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have...but the more I thought about it.....the more turned off I became.

2007-12-02 19:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hang out and talk to my family members too much.. and i need other people to be friends with... what can i do to find new people to socialize with.. I not used to making friendships and socializing... can you offer some advice that might help me.. thanks!

2007-12-02 16:29:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom passed away from well being ashamed and took her own life.2. years ago. dad raised us.4. afterdwarsa this woman who s age is.31. she loves my dad and dad is now.52. but he is in good shape. he bowles. hunts. and mostley everything else now can she as well him get along where.s there.a age limit between them[she] shows she loves him from all her actions and dad isnt rich or nothing like that she is a good worker. and wants for nothing can there .be a love life with them due to age difference. thanks

2007-12-02 16:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2

i'm a 21 y.o. exotic dancer, but my family doesn't approve...i really enjoy what i do and feel that it is time for me to be independent, since they're barely able to provide for me anyway...plus i dont want to keep lying to them about where i go on the weekends...i'm already on a guilt trip...i want to move out but i don't know how to tell them i'm ready and able to take care of myself...i go to college and plan to finish in about 3 more years (and i aspire to be a writer/social worker someday)...so how should i tell them this??

2007-12-02 16:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by mizz_strawberry21 2

just wondering

2007-12-02 16:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

you will attract it...does anyone believe this is true? or believe in the book?

2007-12-02 16:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

They live 90 miles from me. They want me to watch their house so they can go on vacation. I get no benefit at all from doing this. I will be going to college 2 days a week and currently don't have a job. They know this, and now expect me to drive 90 miles and live in their house for 5 days out of 7 for two weeks. This is ridiculous don't you think?
It's not like they live down the street. The weather is crappy this time of year (actually they are leaving next month, which is even worse). Should I tell them to find someone else to watch their house?

2007-12-02 15:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm expecting my first experience relatively soon. Anything I should know/ be prepared for? Thanks for the help-- i'm pretty damn nervous, although I hate to admit it.

2007-12-02 15:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by AH 2

WE STARTED DATING WHEN I WAS 16 AND LOST CONTACT IN FEBUARY WHEN I SHIPPED OUT TO BASIC TRAINING. WE RECENTLY JST STARTED TALKING AGAIN AND HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM AFTER ARE FIRST DATE I THOUGHT HE WAS JOKING BUT HE WAS SERIOUS AND I REALLY WANT TO BUT EVERYONE IS MAKING A BIG DEAL ABOUT THE 15 YEAR AGE GAP. I LOVE HIM AND I LIKE WHO I AM WHEN I'M WITH HIM SO SHOULD JUST FOLLOW MY INSTICTS AND DO IT OR LISTEN TO MY FAMILY.

2007-12-02 15:30:07 · 14 answers · asked by Wall Paper 1

So this isnt really a question but i really need advice or just someone to talk to me about this. Well i lost my step dad who i grew up as my father almost 5 months ago We were really close and i was a daddy's girl....and since i ve lost him i noticed i am a different person i get mad over nothing and just brake out in tears. i love being happy thats who i am. I am a happy go lucky type girl. But lately i have not been. Its like i have to force my self to smile. I hate it and i hate this feeling..I feel lost and like i have no controll. Everytime i look at my son i always he never got to meet him and how they would have gotton along and all these things. i am just so confused and hurt. and now my real father who i havent seen in about 17 years wants to be in my life...i really dont know what to do. i just want my dad back......i guess i just needed to let thoses feelings out thanks everyone

2007-12-02 15:26:47 · 1 answers · asked by mommy to 3! 5

2007-12-02 15:14:47 · 5 answers · asked by Evita 1

I really like my new sister-in-law except for one GLARING flaw: she's CONSTANTLY giving the most OBVIOUS advice!! I mean, it really insults people's intelligence. She does it to everybody. It's like she takes pride in knowing everything there is to know about everything (except she really doesn't know all that much) and nobody knows ANYTHING but her. I really don't want to be rude. How should I react? Should I just not say anything, or is there a way to give her subtle hints? What can I do, outside of just smacking her upside the head!

2007-12-02 14:36:38 · 36 answers · asked by gniknus 3

Moved in 2 years ago and have been nothing but nice to these idiots. Heres what theyve done in chronological order:
-Broke Into my garage
- the guy talked smack about me to my 3 year old son (the guy dosent even know me) he even had his daughter repeating what he said so my son no longer plays with their daughter.
- stands out on his porch listening to my conversations
- his girlfrind and sister were talking crap about me so I could hear it.
- blares his music late at night when my kids are trying to sleep.
-watches everything I do.
- throws things at the house
-throws things at my cars
MOST RECENT; last Sat:
- caught him getting ready to throw a ball through the window of my ambulance
-stood outside flipping me off
- filed a fabricated CPS report against us.
I shouldnt have to move should I?
What can I do??? I know alot that he does around his kid thats unsafe.
NOBODY IN THIS NEIGHBORHOOD LIKES HIM.
Please help...email: phantasm455@yahoo.com also..Thanks
Please help;

2007-12-02 14:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by pontiacpowered71 3

I will try to make it short,but also give an understanding of the situation.I am a 21 year old single mother of a 5 yo old son.The father has been in our lives on and off.He stopped talking to me when I got pregnant and I moved across state to my mom's where there was more support.(I was 15 at the time,he was 16.)He joined the Marines when he turned 18 and in the past year we tried to make things work between us but it was too hard being so far away.He comes home for good in a month and says he wants time to settle before actually being a "dad".He does not want to live with us because he would have to help pay rent,he wants to settle down and go to college,get a job,etc. before doing anything else.I know it is a good mindset for him to do these things but I can't help but feel very angry that he gets to "decide" when he wants to be a dad to our son.Our son looks up to him like a hero and I don't think it's fair for him to just take his time until he is ready.I need some advice?

2007-12-02 14:15:33 · 1 answers · asked by Just Me 7

I am only 15(5.8, 135 pounds) but can look like 19. I go to the gym alot and a trainer (not mine) there is always checkin me out......not looking at my body but at my eyes. I can tell you for a fact that i did not start looking at him first and then he looks at me kind of thing. I really try not to look at him back but i can tell he is looking right at me from the corner of my eyes. He is atleast 33 years old.

One time he came walking up to me while i was doing cardio. He was looking straight in my eyes and he came like a foot away from me and turned the corner like he was playing a game with me. I know this is dumb to get weird over but i a, young and im not used to the older guy thing. Your opinion please!

2007-12-02 13:16:04 · 23 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

2007-12-02 12:41:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a close friend mentioned that your daughter dressed immodestly and said that she didn't understand a Christian man being seriously interested in her?

2007-12-02 12:27:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been the best lilgirl in the whole wide world. I never broke a boy's heart who didn't deserve it and I teach my girls not to break hearts either.

2007-12-02 12:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by midnite rainbow 5

i need present ideas for my girlfriends parents and mabye her two sister age 14 and the other 9 any ideas any suggestions would be helpful but im manly concerned with her parents help pls

2007-12-02 12:23:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 10:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 10:47:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i quit with out goin to rehab? should i tell him how hard it is right now trying to quit??

2007-12-02 10:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by life cant be this hard...can it? 1

this is the second time im giving him chances but know i dont know what to do help please !!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-02 08:47:40 · 34 answers · asked by Ms. Sexy Business ;) 1

I am currently in a long distance relationship (not really long, we live an hour and a half away from each other) and we currently see each other around twice a month and talk and text everyday. Now, I love my boyfriend, I really do. So I wanna try to make it work, but he works alot and I participate in a lot of stuff after school. Do you think we see each other enough? Is it ok for him to talk to other girls on the phone? I asked him to erase all his old girlfriends number out his phone. Was I wrong? Should he do it? I found out about him talking to other girls twice. Should I have not got back together with him? Thanks for your help.

2007-12-02 08:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by JustWondering 2

Ok, well, everyone knows that christmas is in like...3 or so weeks, is it bad that im not looking forward to it like i used to? im starting to think that my parents ruin it b/c they get so aggrivated and they complain about how they have no money, so at time i just wish i could tell them to just forget about christmas so they would stop complaing. is that bad that i dont even look forward to christmas anymore?

2007-12-02 08:15:46 · 19 answers · asked by Kimi 2

Umm...i get hit, and i have been beiong hit for 3 years now...and for one of the years, other things were done other than being hit..things were done to me sexually, and once or twice in that year (well tword the end of the year) i was almost raped...the person who does this is in my family and i see him every day, he's my brother...and idk what to do, i told my father that i was being hit and isn't doing, or going to do anything...right now i am thinking of moving out and living w/ a friend if i can find one who's family can take me, or run away...but idk what to do...If you have any advice please tell me and if you know of anything that i can do, please help me...b/c idk what to do...thanks... My Mom is no longer around, she died, so i only live w/ my Father and Brother.

2007-12-02 07:27:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

in front of family and friends or do you feel like sometimes you are being judged by not being who they want you to be and just do or say what they want you to?

2007-12-02 07:04:55 · 28 answers · asked by Only visiting 5

i idk wut to do its coffusing ever sense my last relation ship ive lost who i am and i dont know how to get me back plz give me some guidence

2007-12-02 06:28:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous