this is the second time im giving him chances but know i dont know what to do help please !!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-02 08:47:40 · 34 answers · asked by Ms. Sexy Business ;) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
break up with him.if he cheated on you once,don't believe on his excuses because he's gonna cheat on you again.he thinks that your so gullible because u let him get back with you and cheat on you again.i nevur had a boyfriend but i know this stuff.Sweetie guys these days are so untrustworthy,immature,self-centered,conceited,inconsiderate a**holes.he isn't the right man for you. break up with him and dont try to get back with him understand?
2007-12-02 09:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmadefunof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love him if your going to give him a second chance. But the phrase once a cheater always a cheater is more than likely true. Don't get me wrong I don't won't to will you what you should do. You should listen to your heart. But a word of advice he probably will do it again. And if you let him go know it will spear the pain for later.
2007-12-02 08:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either stay with him and expect this to keep happening, or you find somebody else.
If you have been together a long time and it is really serious, I would suggest counselling and a lot of talking and thinking first.
But it sort of sounds like you are both pretty young and - well, my adivce would be to find someone who doesn't cheat. You deserve to be treated better than that. And I think that he has now had plenty of chances.
2007-12-02 08:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, this is important- He will cheat on you again. You can do better! Seperate yourself from him completely. Join a club or a team, or anything to meet new people and when you have a new guy - you will discover that the CHEATER was NEVER worth it. I've been there, I know what I'm talking about. You can do it. Life will go on without him.
2007-12-02 08:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by sher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Haven't you ever heard the saying Once a Cheater Always a Cheater? This guy doesn't love you. He is playing with your heart girl. If he really loved you he would keep himself only for you. Besides, these girls that he is sleeping with might have some sort of STD'S and he is bringing them home to you. Get out of that relationship as soon as possible and get yourself tested.
2007-12-02 08:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing with you not at you 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie Please Leave Him and Don't Look Back!!!! As long as you allow him to or keep giving him chances he will continue because he knows that you will give him another chance. It will be hard but you have to do it. There is someone out there for you that will treat you how you DESERVE to be treated and you don't deserve this.
2007-12-02 08:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by chrisjj003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please just leave him. he's not right for you. no guy deserves that many chances. i've done this before and it never turns up good. do not try to change him either. what you could do is break up with him and see if he comes back. maybe if he comes back then he'll be more commited to you. but don't let him come back the next day. tell him to wait. if he can't wait, then you know it just wasn't meant to be.
2007-12-02 08:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by alyssa ッ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it's over .Guys do this and they hurt you.They wont stop it will just progress and you have to accept that it's over because i know it hurts and you want to stay with him because at 1 time you might have loved him but you just going to get hurt again and again.Make sure that he's not some syco thats gonna hit you or somthing.
2007-12-02 08:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie once a cheater always a cheater. if they can do it once they can do it again and again. leave him you definitely deserve better. when a guy cheats on his girlfriend, that is a red flag that he doesn't give a **** about you =(. I'm sure there is someone much better out there for you! good luck hehe
2007-12-02 08:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do what l did and wait untill the fifth time!if he does it he doesn't love you.Leave and find someone who will love you and treat you properly and actually ,leave and spend some time on your own because that is better than wasting your love on a waste of space.good luck x
2007-12-02 08:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋