in front of family and friends or do you feel like sometimes you are being judged by not being who they want you to be and just do or say what they want you to?
2007-12-02 07:04:55 · 28 answers · asked by Only visiting 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think a definite answer is hard because i have always wondered that how people, including me (and if this is wrong let me know) have almost different personalities towards different groups i mean obviously you are'nt going to act like a lad infront of grandma etc but i mean towards girls and bosses you act differently but what i have come to realise all those different types of personalities are all you, they are just different sides to you so i think no being true to yourself is hard however it is easy to loose faith in yourself which i think can lead to not being true to yourself x
2007-12-02 07:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fred mate 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 04:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be self conscious and worry about what people thought...but then I gave up. Family, I'm stuck with them and they're stuck with me. So I'm gonna be me. Friends, if they've got a problem with the real me, then I'll get myself some new friends. I'm much happier that way.
2007-12-02 07:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Question. You can be yourself, However, there are certain situations such as family functions where you may not speak your mind entirely(aka sugarcoating). Which is okay, just as long as you are aware that you are doing so.
As long as you are not acting like a certain way to impress or embellish yourself, than you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
2007-12-02 07:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem being myself in front of my family, but around my friends it's a little harder sometimes.
2007-12-02 07:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its taken an awful long time, but I am now ME infront of my family. If they dont like it, its their problem and not mine. Friends tend to be far more accepting, but that is probably because they see the person I am rather than the person my family want me to be. Just be honest with yourself and you cant go wrong.
2007-12-02 07:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dory 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have in-laws that are always judging me and I finally decided, after 20 years -- waaaaaayyyyy too long - to just let them go. I don't need that in my life anymore and ya know, I am a much happier person now.
2007-12-02 07:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be yourself.As long as you act with respect and are civil to the next person.Waiting for the person to answer and accept their opinion as valid is also important.You don't write you age, which can be a factor to the answer.Remember not answering is also okay.Yes you probably avry being judged,but does that really upset you?You can't please everyone, all of the time,
2007-12-02 07:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I think that is true for alot of people. Sometimes it is best depending on the circumstances, and you have to be tactful. Yet in the long run you need to be yourself, just know when to tell people, and when to just be mellow.
2007-12-02 07:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dragonfly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! If you cannot be yourself with your family, that is their problem not yours!
To thine own self be true is how the Bible put it. Stated a bit odd but good advice to live by!
2007-12-02 07:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by B. D Mac 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋