Other - Family & Relationships - 3 December 2007

I picked up my husbands phone one day and hes best friend had sent him a message that read "Do you suck D!cKs?" Please tell me this is some weird male sentiment and not phone sex. Maybe it was a joke or sarcasm. I also found text messages on the phone bill between them at 5:30 in the morning, my husbands at work by then. And they text each other a lot. Hes also been caught doing things on the computer he promised not to do anymore, so I really don't trust him anyway. Maybe my lack of trust is causing me to see things that arnt there?What do you think?

2007-12-03 22:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

in your fiance's coat pocket that\ was unopened what would you do?
He says a friend asked him to buy them for him? What would you believe?

2007-12-03 21:03:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi
im 15 . 16 in 2 months but i recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend.. the thing is we moved a bit quick & have both decidd to slow things down.
i want t do other stuff, but im reallly nervous about... my ... area...

& i really need help because we want to do more.
i feel so stupid but i no i was ready before anyone judges me on having sex. we used proection & we have been out 9 months..
Ummm
Help..

xxx

2007-12-03 20:39:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a healthy loving relationship and i am sure that this isn't going to be some kind of mistake, my boyfriend was going to wait but he couldnt and i said yes. We dont plan on getting married until i finish at least 2 years at skool and get some kind of degree. My mother is divorced and we live together with her recent boyfriend. We have a good relationship except when it come to discussing how i should live my life and so on. Shes not understanding to the fact that i will be turning 20 next month and i want to begin living my life the way i feel i should and can. We dont speak about my relationships with friends or my fiance. We've had a bad history when i was in my early teens i've left home because of terrible physical fights but after sometime we have moved on & nothing such has happened since. I just dont know how 2 tell her and its been stressing me for the last couple of days.. Should i tell her or should i let her be.. R there anywebsites that can help me cop with my issues

2007-12-03 20:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by Missy 1

the dad of an eight year old girl that is a friend of mine wants to report me because he says I play with his daughter and I shouldnt the pastor of my church talked to me and told me that he wants to accuse me of sexual abuse and he wants to do it because he doesnt belong to our church and wants to hurt us I dont see the girl anymore because he doesnt let her go to church how much damage could he do?I talked to the mom and she is ok with everything but hes not and I understand and backed off.I care about this whole family and about him because when he used to belong to our church he used to help me alot he gave me a ride home one day when Imissed the bus and I lived an hour away.should I send a letter to him explaining everything?or tell him everything Im thankful for what he did for me and I admire him and like him as a friend and dont want any problems?or even apologize?please give me some advise thankyou.I have prayed and know god is with me I just need a different point of view.

2007-12-03 19:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Mr.romantic 1

I was contemplating if I should continue an intimate relationship with my daughters father when he comes to visit on the weekends.Thanks to you listeners out there I have decided that I am better than that and should wait for a real man to come along. So what I need from you guys, is words to give me confidence to stand up to him and say no (and actually stick with it), because like you have said in the past.I deserve better.
So bring on the words of wisdom

2007-12-03 19:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister called me anti social the other day, I asked what she meant exactly, like shy and withdrawn ?

She said that's a different thing, someone who is anti social is often the opposite and uses that to screw people over to get what they want, without any feeling of guilt or remorse.

I was like 'WHAT ? do you think I am antisocial ?'

'Maybe a little'.. she said, but I could tell she actually meant world war six.

So it got me thinking, maybe she is a little right there, but despite my deep love, respect and affection for humanity can I still be called anti social ?

I don't lie nor tell the truth, I only keep the balance.
I might make you hurt but never make you cry
I might use a fool but never cruel
I might rob your car but never your home
I don't start fights but I will finish them
I help the weak come stronger
I help the peace last longer.

What I mean is I might look you in the eyes, screw you over and make you sad to get what I need, but I'm still sorry and I still love you.

2007-12-03 18:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by AxeThem 2

im in a long distance relationship, well kind of a relationship. were officially not together. she says she wants to fully trust me to "get with me" so there wont be problems. we've had our ups and downs. live 3 hours away, been talkin for 7 months, see eachother about 2 times a month and talk on the phone for hours everyday. my quesion is, how would i know shes really into me? besides her talkin to me on the phone and welcoming into her home, is there any other signs cus i have doubts, probalby cus she has me waiting to get with me and cus the distance. yes we been intimate and gone out but she also keeps us a secret, mainly cus were not together and duznt want ppl to think she messes around with ppl shes just "talkin" to. is it all in my head or somthing to worry about

2007-12-03 18:00:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im am going 2 move out of my house and move in with my fiance soon like sometime in january of next year and your anniversavy is january 1 on new years day and he was looking around for some apartments and im am taking everything with me when me and him do move and he is going 2 pay da rent 4 both of us and im am still going 2 look 4 a job through so that we can get da things that we needed for are palce.

2007-12-03 17:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it exactly? is it dry sex if ur clothes are off but u didn't actually put it in(intercourse)? like u just felt each other's thing.. u know.. like just rubbing it to each other.. and by the way, if i did that, am i still a virgin? =\

2007-12-03 17:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa B 1

Basically we talking on AIM and it lead to a point where she was stating that she felt that I didn't hug or kiss her unless she came to me. I told her I felt the same way. She then stated "I dont know how this is going to work out" and said that she didn't want to think about it now because its not a good time (It's finals time for us and she has been very busy with work) and we said good night.

What should I do? Its obvious we need to talk. Should I talk to her tomorrow or wait till finals are over?

2007-12-03 17:03:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have learned over the years exactly what Elvis's song, " Blue Christmas " really means...

2007-12-03 16:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just call my stepdad Mitch, 'cause we were kinda like best friends when I was 10 (when he met my mom). Night he died, I asked him if I could call him "dad." He said he had been waiting for me to ask that, but he was afraid he might take my biological dad's place. I was like, "C'mon! I never grew up with him! He left us, and you have that right!" He died unexpectedly--ulcer! I regret never having been able to call him dad--just Mitch.........

2007-12-03 16:16:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how it's gonna be.......wont u tell me, i dont know my self anymore

2007-12-03 14:52:54 · 1 answers · asked by anjik.andrianto 1

2007-12-03 14:41:13 · 6 answers · asked by Spacey~Stacey's Place 3

Before you respond, PLEASE READ DR LAURA'S ARTICLE on sex after marriage so you know exactly what I'm talking about.

http://www.drlaura.com/blog/2007/04/12/but-i-dont-feel-like-it

2007-12-03 13:42:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 13:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 13:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

My boyfriend recently cheated on me. And now has come home and decided to work things out. I am trying to stay positive. Should I believe him that he wants to be with me now? Should I worry if he is cheating on me everytime he leaves? When he left he said he doesnt have feelings for me. And now he says he was just confused and this is where he wants to be? He seems to be being more positive. But today is his first day back home and he has gone out to the club? Am I wrong not to want him to have freedom? I am pregnant and cant go out or he thinks I shouldnt. He went to a club that has monday night football and I wanted to come but he said no, is he right to say no? How would you move forward with the relationship? If I am going to do this how can I trust him? He is my childs father and it is unrealistic for me to not want to be with him is that wrong and niave of me? Please help me and try to be positive please I dont want to cry nemore I am 31 weeks pregnant and stressing is not health

2007-12-03 13:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by kindra1988 6

detail &serious answers pls..

2007-12-03 13:16:10 · 3 answers · asked by qwerty 2

My fiance and I just broke up recently. He left he with the apartment, past due power and gas bills, plus past due credit card bills, and no car. I work about 20 minutes away from here making $9/hr . My parents have told me to come home and shut off all the utilities and just pay everything off and start over... literally.

This is the last week my dad can let me borrow his truck, I get paid Friday but every bit of it will be gone to pay bills and such. I'll have to find a car and figure out if I'm moving out early or not.
If I go home my work travel time will be increased to an hour and a half. I'll have to leave everything I finally established as my home and start over again.
If I stay here, my lease will be up at the end of January and I'll have to find a roommate by then around here. Plus still pay off all the things I owe.

I'm at a dead end. I need some help....

2007-12-03 12:58:41 · 1 answers · asked by randomspazticgrl 1

2007-12-03 12:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by answers 2

2007-12-03 12:40:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has everything i wished for at her age. i can't help wondering why she is always complaining that she's not happy. she has worked hard for what she has but there's always something missing or not right with her. can anyone understand this?

2007-12-03 12:36:42 · 23 answers · asked by jay Lo 1

Literally.He,my ex.,doesn`t desrve to be here on this world.I hate him so much that I could kill him.Well,I physically can`t reach him,he lives in a different country.But there must be the way how to do it.
The thing is(I believe women who`ve been in similar position would agree with emotions involved)he never cared about our children.We have two kids together.he was sort of nearby,wanting to be involved,but somehow didn`t show interest at all.The last bit is that he says,with God`s help and children wanting to see him some day when they grow up-that will happen.It seems to me that he scraped all his interest out about them and that`s it.We`ve been having such rough times,but he didn`t care.I`m sorry but I can`t bring myself to leave it just like that.I`m trying really hard not to fall into this hate thing but I can`t...
At the moment I`m in a stabil relationship,I at last allow myself to love and be loved, but this person,my ex,I could just feel his shadow over me.PLS help!Thanks!

2007-12-03 12:34:32 · 18 answers · asked by Agni R 2

basicaly, do you think that you're an interesting enough person that people would want to meet?

2007-12-03 11:43:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend and i have been going out for not that long and in her last relationship her and her boyfriend broke up after about 8months of going out. They had a really bad break up. Her friends say how much she likes me and i really like her. But lately shes been avioding me and it's b/c she is afraid to get in another big relationship. I really like her and i don't want to loose her. what can i do to get her to be around me more?

2007-12-03 11:22:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. would you br happy with your life?
2. what woud your dying confession/secret be?

2007-12-03 11:12:01 · 1 answers · asked by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5

2007-12-03 11:09:38 · 14 answers · asked by amy 1

i heard somethin earlier... is it right that some guys on here (in the uk) ... (late at night).. who claim to be single, are really not>> and only appear early morning cos other half is fast asleep, is that right??
im off in a min to jump into bed with my hub, by the way.
i just find it sad that people claim to be single, when they are not...

2007-12-03 10:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous