If you found a pack of condoms?

Question

in your fiance's coat pocket that\ was unopened what would you do?
He says a friend asked him to buy them for him? What would you believe?

Just to add he has cheated once before of I know of...and recently a girl told me that he was sleeping with her in June when I was pregnant...I'm due in 4 week...He\swears he didn't...what do you reckon?

I'm pregnant and so we don't need birth control and trusted him so don't need condoms so definately not for us. We had an argument and I asked for my house keys back-he moved in just 4 weeks ago, next day we made up and he packed anyway and found hiself a place-now he wants to stay here but have another place too-so he can go out when he likes and have friends over-he doesn't bring his friends to mine as we I have kids and he says he can't hang out here...i think he wants his cake and eat it personally...

Answer 1

Sorry - he's cheating. I would never believe that line.

Answer 2

Quite personally, if I ever found a box of condoms in a fiance's coat, it would probably be because this time around he chose to replentish our supply. I never have sex without a condom and never would unless I'm in a committed relationship and trying to conceive. I don't trust hormonal birth control alone.

Answer 3

December...june....december, how long has he been playing you!! If he really did cheat and you cant trust him and you're asking us why you found condoms you should look deep and hard. This guy isnt being serious, guys dont buy them for a male friend unless his "ladyfriend" asked him to get some so that he doesnt get her pregnant. Ditch this guy you deserve way better

Answer 4

If you are asking the question, you already know the answer. Honey, I know you are in a hard situation, and it can be very hard, but you need to leave and get on with your life. Do you really want your child growing up with kind of example? Do you want to constantly live through this kind of pain and always question? Just leave and try to build a friendship for the sake of your baby.

Answer 5

this is a horrible situation you are in, but i believe from what you have said that he is still cheating on you, you or your unborn child dont deserve this at all, im sure his friend can buy his own condoms, get out of this relationship now before your child is born into this, if he wants to behave that this then he should do it single! get rid! good luck!

Answer 6

Don't think too much since you are going to be due in 4 weeks time. It does not make sense to keep pondering over this or even believe what others say and make yourself upset. Live on happily....

Good luck.

Answer 7

OK is he using them on u? Do u two wen doin the art use condoms, coz if u do then his just being prepared for a night of sin.
But wait if he had them in his pocket and used that "oh am holding it for my friend" nonsense...then he's suspect...and u better be ready for more dog and bone stories from him.

Answer 8

Saying he's bought them 4 a friend does sound very dodgy, at least they aren't opened. But it does'nt look good x Hope things turn out ok 4 u though xx

Answer 9

Hes cheating

Answer 10

You should believe him, you're getting married and having a baby soon, so you have to put your insecurities aside and leave the past in the past. Put your trust in him, there's a reason why you want to marry him, just give your all first and never believe people, they just wanna get you down.

Answer 11

If they were just in his coat pocket then he wasn't doing a great job of hiding them from you. So it could be completely innnocent!

But if he's cheated before then I would confront him, If he has then for your own sake get out of the relationship.