my girlfriend and i have been going out for not that long and in her last relationship her and her boyfriend broke up after about 8months of going out. They had a really bad break up. Her friends say how much she likes me and i really like her. But lately shes been avioding me and it's b/c she is afraid to get in another big relationship. I really like her and i don't want to loose her. what can i do to get her to be around me more?
2007-12-03 11:22:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she doesnt know i know about her old bf
2007-12-03 11:27:56 · update #1
For one, your relationship isn't close at all, her not talking to you about an ex, is bad, not good. That aside your dealing with a lady who isn't ready to get into a relationship, no offense. But the only defense against getting in a bad relationship is our selves. Her not being ready, MEANS she didn't learn how to tell the difference between a good individual and a bad individual, which means she doesn't know herself well (trust its a process, lets not get in to the natural process of things!) Which means! SHE IS DANGEROUS TO YOUR HEART!!!! SO be warned, ether you start pulling teeth (get her story, her history, her soul buddy) and helping her thru this, are your forced to ride the road of heart-breck with her, trust the ride well suck.....
2007-12-04 07:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might paintings on you first. You can ship her the occasional textual content to permit her recognise that you're nonetheless there and deliberating her however I might now not actively pursue her till you've got you labored out. Then you'll be able to cross to her with the extra positive you and exhibit her that you realize what you desire and at the moment are in a position to return and get it.
2016-09-05 20:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋