My boyfriend recently cheated on me. And now has come home and decided to work things out. I am trying to stay positive. Should I believe him that he wants to be with me now? Should I worry if he is cheating on me everytime he leaves? When he left he said he doesnt have feelings for me. And now he says he was just confused and this is where he wants to be? He seems to be being more positive. But today is his first day back home and he has gone out to the club? Am I wrong not to want him to have freedom? I am pregnant and cant go out or he thinks I shouldnt. He went to a club that has monday night football and I wanted to come but he said no, is he right to say no? How would you move forward with the relationship? If I am going to do this how can I trust him? He is my childs father and it is unrealistic for me to not want to be with him is that wrong and niave of me? Please help me and try to be positive please I dont want to cry nemore I am 31 weeks pregnant and stressing is not health
2007-12-03 13:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by kindra1988 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would not have taken him back. He should have let you go also. Why did he tell you no? I would think that the girl he was cheating with was not what he wanted so he came back to you. He is looking for another and you will do until he finds her. You do not need this stress right now. It is not good for you or for the baby. Do not let him treat you like this just to have him around. You deserve better than that. Since this is his first day back and he went out and you were not allowed to go, I would say that he is not trying. I would not be able to trust him. I hope this works out for you.
2007-12-03 13:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. Honey, re-read your queston. Aren't you seeing clearly?? This man is a chauvanist pig. He is a hypocrite and a cheater and selfish, immature and does NOT care about anyone but himself.
YOU ARE WORTH MORE. SO IS YOUR BABY.
Do u and ur baby a favour and leave him- or kick his **** out TODAY. You will be happier and healthtier without him.
2007-12-03 21:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that once a cheater always a cheater.
Try to do what's best for you and the baby..... He would not be a good father figure for this child
2007-12-03 21:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry for you.. one mistake after the other .. the biggest you are preggers and not married and the daddy is an A$$ hole, that you are stuck with. Again.. so sorry.
2007-12-03 21:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋